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ilunatique Knowflake Posts: 606 From: neptune Registered: Jun 2014	posted May 30, 2015 04:33 PM Why, why, why, why.... oh why? Every time I establish a connection with someone of the opposite gender.... they will end up obsessed with me in the next second. And by obsessed.... I mean ... seriously obsessed. They will think of me all day.... if i stop talking to them they will stalk and try to contact me on another social place...they will make me their only world/light... they will literally worship me... I completely change their world/views.... etc What the heck? I want it to stop IP: Logged
Vajra Knowflake Posts: 1738 From: Registered: Dec 2012	posted May 30, 2015 04:37 PM . IP: Logged
ilunatique Knowflake Posts: 606 From: neptune Registered: Jun 2014	posted May 30, 2015 04:49 PM quote: Vajra In real life or online? Both. IP: Logged
Vajra Knowflake Posts: 1738 From: Registered: Dec 2012	posted May 30, 2015 05:09 PM . IP: Logged
EmGem Knowflake Posts: 2297 From: Registered: Jan 2015	posted May 30, 2015 06:57 PM would this be a pluto 7th house thing? IP: Logged
Gemini30 Knowflake Posts: 738 From: Los Angeles Registered: Sep 2014	posted May 31, 2015 01:31 AM Do you have a venus/pluto aspect? IP: Logged
Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 6817 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012	posted May 31, 2015 03:34 AM quote: Originally posted by EmGem: would this be a Pluto 7th house thing? I suspect so too. quote: originally posted by Gemini30: Do you have a Venus/Pluto aspect? I so agree. I would look at Scorpio/Pluto placements or aspects to personal planets. IP: Logged
ilunatique Knowflake Posts: 606 From: neptune Registered: Jun 2014	posted May 31, 2015 04:59 AM quote: EmGem would this be a pluto 7th house thing? I have my moon and North node in the 7th, which is Leo.. If you look at how my 7th works.... Well my sun is conjunct Pluto. quote: Gemini30 Do you have a venus/pluto aspect? I dont. My pluto only trines my moon and NN. Ugh I guess that sun cj pluto gives me this huge power over the opposite gender. Im always considered compelling, special, deep, etc.... And that attracts obsesive people which want to have me asap. I dont like this at all. It seems that with Pluto's trines to my moon/NN, he is actively working in my emotional life and path. But he is so powerful?! Make it stop. Because of this Mercury retrograde, tons of guys from my past showed up to me lately confessing the creepiest deepest stuff about me. It always happens. Mercury retro is a phase in which people try to chase me, own me and older hunters show up, still feeling "the powerful pull" i have on them. My Mercury is in scorpio.... Uhh... IP: Logged
ilunatique Knowflake Posts: 606 From: neptune Registered: Jun 2014	posted May 31, 2015 05:18 AM Its always the "There is something special about you... You're so compelling... I cant help it because you have a power on me... I feel this strong pull to you.... I think of you all the time... I MUST OWN YOU WOMAN I MUST PUT A BABY IN YOU" IP: Logged
bananaz Knowflake Posts: 968 From: Orlando, FL USA Registered: Feb 2015	posted May 31, 2015 06:04 PM Don't date a pisces! We're obsessive lol In all seriousness, I've been in your shoes. My moon is also in Leo and I constantly get the feeling people are talking about me, staring at me, etc. With this placement, the world might feel like it revolves around you, but I really think it's the grandeur of Leo that makes us think we're the fireplace everyone is seated around I also have pluto in my 7th trining my sun and venus...so there may be some truth behind that pluto theory @ EmGem & @ Gemini30 mentioned Before I got married, I had a few crazies too. One guy called me begging me to meet him for a romantic picnic...at 3 am...smh. I couldn't tell that guy no enough times. I'm thinking to myself omg he's a scorpio and one day he's going to chop me up into little pieces and leave me in a ditch somewhere haha My advice is to date a Sag placement. My hubby is a Sag. They are brutally honest straight up front and none I've known have been obsessive Lastly, look on the bright side. It's better to be intriguing than boring. If attraction comes easy for you, consider yourself lucky and learn how to set boundaries. Maybe your purpose in this lifetime is to learn how to do that IP: Logged
GemBird82 Knowflake Posts: 907 From: Female bird from France Registered: Feb 2014	posted May 31, 2015 09:00 PM Oh, I don't know what to say, exactly... Many things come to my mind... Were you born in the North Hemisphere?, do you think you have some hmm... genetic influence from cold lands (Scandinavian)? If so, then, for me... that would be a nice starting point to dig. It seems like such obsessive behavior (as you described) is present in such people that have very negative karma in their genes. That would be the reason why theirs are reacting (badly) to yours. My simple advice would be that you should 'keep your distance' from those who square your very personal planets(Mars/Venus) and/or your DNA/North Node. Being "in-Sync" with your North Node seems to be the wise choice in this case. IP: Logged
Swanlake unregistered	posted June 01, 2015 05:29 AM Ah.. So you have Sun conj PlUTO. There you go. (I was going to ask, do you have a strong Pluto thing in yr chart) Ok. You're attracting other Plutonians. The message is that Like attracts like, it's to draw your attention to what you're not conscious of, that's in you. One day it will be you, will be obsessed with someone.... IP: Logged
EmGem Knowflake Posts: 2297 From: Registered: Jan 2015	posted June 01, 2015 05:38 AM quote: Well my sun is conjunct Pluto there it is right there. IP: Logged
Aquacheeka unregistered	posted June 01, 2015 06:07 AM quote: Originally posted by Swanlake: Ah.. So you have Sun conj PlUTO. There you go. (I was going to ask, do you have a strong Pluto thing in yr chart) Ok. You're attracting other Plutonians. The message is that Like attracts like, it's to draw your attention to what you're not conscious of, that's in you. One day it will be you, will be obsessed with someone.... Ah. Well this would explain why I am the Pluto in the Sun conjunct Pluto pairing in my relationship and I feel JUST as obsessed as he does. He has the aspect natally as well. IP: Logged
Jo B unregistered	posted June 02, 2015 12:04 AM quote: Originally posted by ilunatique: Its always the "There is something special about you... You're so compelling... I cant help it because you have a power on me... I feel this strong pull to you.... I think of you all the time... I MUST OWN YOU WOMAN I MUST PUT A BABY IN YOU" Maybe you're just hot. IP: Logged
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astra7 Knowflake Posts: 1059 From: I live at 667 Registered: Sep 2014	posted June 02, 2015 07:27 AM quote: Originally posted by GemBird82: Oh, I don't know what to say, exactly... Many things come to my mind... Were you born in the North Hemisphere?, do you think you have some hmm... genetic influence from cold lands (Scandinavian)? If so, then, for me... that would be a nice starting point to dig. It seems like such obsessive behavior (as you described) is present in such people that have very negative karma in their genes. That would be the reason why theirs are reacting (badly) to yours. My simple advice would be that you should 'keep your distance' from those who square your very personal planets(Mars/Venus) and/or your DNA/North Node. Being "in-Sync" with your North Node seems to be the wise choice in this case. ^^^ Very New Agey...that's all I can say. IP: Logged
KarkaQueen unregistered	posted June 08, 2015 03:57 AM quote: Originally posted by astra7: [QUOTE]Originally posted by GemBird82: Oh, I don't know what to say, exactly... Many things come to my mind... Were you born in the North Hemisphere?, do you think you have some hmm... genetic influence from cold lands (Scandinavian)? If so, then, for me... that would be a nice starting point to dig. [b]It seems like such obsessive behavior (as you described) is present in such people that have very negative karma in their genes. That would be the reason why theirs are reacting (badly) to yours. My simple advice would be that you should 'keep your distance' from those who square your very personal planets(Mars/Venus) and/or your DNA/North Node. Being "in-Sync" with your North Node seems to be the wise choice in this case. ^^^ Very New Agey...that's all I can say.[/B][/QUOTE] Isn't most of this site New Age in their thinking and beliefs, considering that's where the namesake of this website's philosophies were coming from? Any-who, I don't blame you. That's the same reason why I stopped visiting this site. Although Christianity does have some belief that you inherit the sins or vices of your parents and you can have generational sins, not necessarily something the same as "karma" however. IP: Logged
Aubyanne Moderator Posts: 6727 From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse Registered: Sep 2014	posted June 08, 2015 04:21 AM SUN conjunct PLUTO. Right. It's okay, Luna. You'll learn to harness it. At least they're not homicidal, right? Could be worse. Trust me on that one. In time, you'll learn how to truly embody your Plutonian nature in the most enlightened way. Until then ... well, it'll be interesting. But you'll get through. We always do. IP: Logged
Aquacheeka unregistered	posted June 08, 2015 11:22 AM I became obsessive when a guy whose Pluto was on my Venus left me. Now that I know the impact Pluto can have, I refuse to be at the planet person in any relationship. Right now my SO's sun is on my Pluto and I could feel him obsessing right from the get-go before we even met, but I liked it (I AM Plutonian, after all). It's essential to me that I have the upper hand. So I'm OK with Plutonian relationships... as long as I get to be the Pluto person. IP: Logged
StargazerLeo Knowflake Posts: 29 From: Florida Registered: Aug 2015	posted August 18, 2015 12:04 AM I know this thread is a few months old now, but I'm curious. I am also Plutonian and wanted to know if Plutonian people are obsessive or do they just attract obsessive people? Or is it both? Do they only attract fellow Plutonians since others would be intimidated? IP: Logged
ilunatique Knowflake Posts: 606 From: neptune Registered: Jun 2014	posted April 10, 2016 05:36 AM Okay, my Sun conjunct Pluto trine LEO! Moon is going to admit it and confess something... Note: my sun is in the 11th, internet communication.. This all happened on the internet even tho I randomly attract people in real life too, but I don't act like this I loved seeing how other people divinizated me, saw me like some sort of Goddess in my very nice PAST. I could easily see the psychical and emotional power i had on others, and it fueled me so much that i couldnt stop. So many guys were down at my knees at any hour of the day, enthralled to my being and my looks, constantly wanting my attention and love because they couldn't live without it. I was the perfect woman, with my Neptune-Mars on my ASC ethereal look, I could talk to any guy I wanted and in maximum 2 days, I would simply hypnotize him and he would be in my collection. But then i realized that people started depending on me a lot... So much thatwhen iI disappeared for a few days most of them had panic attacks and felt bad. They needed me all the time. That's when I realized this isn't alright and I got tired of the obsessive freakos. IP: Logged
ilunatique Knowflake Posts: 606 From: neptune Registered: Jun 2014	posted April 10, 2016 05:55 AM But everything that goesaround....comes around... And when I realized that I got myself in this huge s.hitstorm.... I wanted all the obsessive guys to stop coming in my way. I found shelter in a troubled shy and nice Virgo that I called my guardian... he was pagan and into magic more than other things, that also slowly fell for me, but ..... He was the one playing the game now. I was the victim, no more was I the hunter. I didn't see that for 1 year and a half until I realized that i can't feel him and he is so mechanic that I couldn't stand talking to him anymore. I need emotions, and he was a stone cold rock. I thought it was only his past that broke him and him unable to express his emotions. But he was a psycho in reality and i got it confirmed by a psychic, a shaman and my intuitive now cancer boyfriend I love so much. I just couldn't believe it, because he was always playing the victim. What happened? I was pulling away knowing he is bad but I kept going back to him from time to time to see if he is okay because I genuinely cared about him. I realized this wasnt my conscious urge though, because it hit me randomly that I should talk to him Nd tell him my deepest issues no one knows So I became the "obsessed" one.... But I was made like this through some powerful black magic a witch friend of his did to me. Whatever she did made his image be stuck to my subconscious and whenever I needed a soft place to be at, I was in his arms...... He knew my deepest holes and issues and used them against me, so he could make me see him as something I needed all the time because he always came with the right words I'm so glad this is over though, and it's all thanks to my twin flame that felt that person is not OK... He changed my life in incredible ways and perspectives on little aspects of it so much I can see things more clearly now and I learned so so much "Guardian"'s Pluto sits on my Venus and our composite has a horror 12th house Scorpio stellium Detached aqua moon Messed up sun conjunct Saturnin 12th IP: Logged
ilunatique Knowflake Posts: 606 From: neptune Registered: Jun 2014	posted April 10, 2016 06:29 AM . IP: Logged
ilunatique Knowflake Posts: 606 From: neptune Registered: Jun 2014	posted April 10, 2016 09:53 AM quote: Swanlake One day it will be you, will be obsessed with someone.... Aaaand it happened IP: Logged

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