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blindpainter
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posted June 15, 2015 01:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for blindpainter     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
So ive been dateing a libra for almost 3 years, hes pretty sweet but everything i have read about libra guys is kinda bad basically everyone says they're cheaters and distant but what has been your expiriemce with libra guys? Whats your opinion?
Here are his aspects:
Sun in Libra, Moon in Aquarius *Ascendant in Virgo, Mercury in the First House *Venus in the First House *Sun in the Second House *Saturn in the Fifth House *Moon in the Sixth House
Sorry if this is the wrong forum.

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bansheequeen
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posted June 15, 2015 02:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for bansheequeen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Um, I hoesntly hate them, they're my least favorite men and my least favorite placement in any planet in men. Weird because I think libra women are the sweetest sweethearts.

They're loyal in their way. If they really like and and decided on you, they will stick with you. But they're dry logical so you won't really get any seething love from them, just cookie cutter hallmark card kinda stuff. They move on fast and they are serial monogamists.

The reason I hate them is because they are just too logical when it comes to love and they always have an obsession with beauty in themselves, other men, and women. They preen too much for my liking and are too caug up in how they look. They care too much about their clothes and hair and how they smell... They will compare themselves with other men constantly and act nasty if they feel insecure, like mean towards me because he saw a man that was more attractive than him...They're constantly checking out other women. And judging them relentlessly even thought owe women are way outta thier league. The one I was with demanded I love him but he just didn't have the depth of emotion for me to feel anything for him, and that make him mad and spiteful.

Oh and they are really tapped into current trends and opinions. So most likely they'll believe the current popular opinion and try to wear the current trend if it's like,, the current trend of what is supposed to be attractive to women. They're really preoccupied with other people liking them. They might seem like they're flirting but they just can't say no to approval and admiration.

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PixieJane
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posted June 15, 2015 03:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Those aspects look good to me, at least for commitment.

The Libra men I've known (at least knew well) weren't cheaters. However, I'll agree that they're more sweet than passionate when it comes to romance, and they can also be moody and second guess themselves which can make them seem distant, especially if you want the type of guy common in romance novels who becomes obsessed with you and out of control with passion (yet men who seem to live up to the fantasy often turn into more of a nightmare than a fantasy fulfilled, and they also can't be domesticated as such men are in romantic fiction).

That said, we're not all like cookies that have been cut with a cutter into a specific shape to fit our sun sign (and other aspects). There's a lot of nuances both to the many aspects and transits and also to the individual and as a result they can vary a lot. Even conjoined twins born the same exact time and space and raised together will show variations from each other. Bottom line is if you're happy with your Libra man for nearly 3 years now then chances are (especially with those placements) he's a good catch for you and you shouldn't worry about the generalizations you read about.

Also, I've learned not to judge too harshly by astrology. I'm currently with someone who has 3 placements that made me want to run when I later learned of them (and it would've never gotten that far had I already known) but I'm very glad I didn't...what I feared happening didn't happen (though I had a nightmare experience years prior with someone else who had similar astrological placements).

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charlie
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posted June 15, 2015 07:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for charlie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Do not like.

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ail221
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posted June 15, 2015 09:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ail221     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
If you've been in a relationship with your libra for 3 years and things have been going well then great you're probably compatible and have nothing to worry about.

Personally I find them to be too flighty for my liking.I can't deal with there need to look at other women, having other female friends is fine but I find with libra men they can cross that line too much and I can't trust them. They can also be a bit passive aggressive. I can't say I ever had a bad date with a Libra guy, they can be really romantic. But with virgo placements I feel like if you tell them what is wrong or what you don't like something they're doing they'll quickly modify their behavior.

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CosmiqPhuz
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posted June 15, 2015 10:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for CosmiqPhuz     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm a late libra with Scorpio placements and I'm as loyal as a dog in love. Although when I'm single, I can be quite the playboy. I'm not particularly close or good friends with other libra men just because I'm less social than they are. But, I don't hate them either. Some of them I can't help but like and laugh at/with. In real life, most people who guess my sign usually think Scorpio.

I'm also never one to follow trends or go with the crowd. I just like being an individual. Probably my Aquarius midheaven and Aries north node.

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polkadotstars
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posted June 15, 2015 11:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for polkadotstars     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I might be a little bias here, but I recently just found out a Libra guy who I was seeing for two months was married. He is Libra Sun, Aquarius Moon, and Venus Scorpio. His wife said to me that he has cheated on her many times, even a month after they first got married. And she said to me he even teaches his guy friends how to talk to women. He is very charming, good with his words, and even though he isn't drop dead handsome, he know how to get what or who he wants with his charisma.

I know another Libra sun and Venus Scorpio who thinks he's a playboy. Literally, he calls himself Romeo. I think Tiger Woods has these placements as well and he is a cheater as well.

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posted June 15, 2015 11:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for babybull82     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm a little confused as to why you're asking about what they're like when you've been with one for 3 yrs?? Every Libra guy is different, if it's lasted 3yrs with no hiccups you shouldn't go looking for problems.

Now my personal opinion...I'd prefer to keep these men at arms length. They're cool for surfacey stuff, but nothing deeper than that. Same for the moons of this sign as well.

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posted June 15, 2015 11:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for CosmiqPhuz     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by polkadotstars:
I might be a little bias here, but I recently just found out a Libra guy who I was seeing for two months was married. He is Libra Sun, Aquarius Moon, and Venus Scorpio. His wife said to me that he has cheated on her many times, even a month after they first got married. And she said to me he even teaches his guy friends how to talk to women. He is very charming, good with his words, and even though he isn't drop dead handsome, he know how to get what or who he wants with his charisma.

I know another Libra sun and Venus Scorpio who thinks he's a playboy. Literally, he calls himself Romeo. I think Tiger Woods has these placements as well and he is a cheater as well.


Sorry to hear what happened to you polkadotstars. What was his mars placement? I wonder if his Aquarius moon had any influence in his behavior.

I believe Tiger Woods is a Capricorn sun.

Libra and Scorpio are both pretty sexual signs. If someone primarily has planets in those signs, there's a lot of pent up sexual energy if there's no outlet.

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Aquacheeka
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posted June 15, 2015 12:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aquacheeka     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Terrible. They can't make up their minds and they are often cheaters and players, especially if they have Venus in Sag.

I like it for the Venus sign, though. Not for sun or moon.

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posted June 15, 2015 01:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for next to neptune     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Those male-libras I've encountered have never been unfaithful My current boyfriend is also a libra sun + libra venus and he is the best!

I never seriously thought I would end up with a libra-guy though, because I am a virgo myself:P

But I like that he is so easy to be around, he really loves being in a partnership and he is very kind in everything he does The same to be said about the other male-libras I've met.

But be aware cause they are very charming too! They are naturally flirting without even being aware of it, and that usually makes other people fall for them... and you cant blame them, cause libra people are just so nice

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polkadotstars
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posted June 15, 2015 01:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for polkadotstars     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by CosmiqPhuz:
Sorry to hear what happened to you polkadotstars. What was his mars placement? I wonder if his Aquarius moon had any influence in his behavior.

I believe Tiger Woods is a Capricorn sun.

Libra and Scorpio are both pretty sexual signs. If someone primarily has planets in those signs, there's a lot of pent up sexual energy if there's no outlet.


He has a Sagittarius Mars. I think their marriage was on the rocks for awhile. They had seperated awhile ago and got back together a few years ago. And I don't think either are happy, but still. He was very charming and has a problem being faithful.

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blindpainter
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posted June 15, 2015 01:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for blindpainter     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks for sharing everyone! I was really curious of peoples opinion on libra men since everyone i have talked to thinks theyre no good in relationshis.

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posted June 15, 2015 01:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 12muddy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
They're my favourite. Pretty good as friends too. I married one and so far he hasn't disappointed me.

Sure they have less favourable traits too. But most of the time I can tolerate those pretty well especially in friendship. In romance it's a little harder, but the one I'm with doesn't have a lot of those traits so it's all good. I've learned to deal with them, and many of them have helped to smooth out my rough edges.

Not cheaters, as far as I know.

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Aries23Degrees
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posted June 15, 2015 02:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well I have been with the Libra guy since 2013.

The best part of our relationship, is how completely besotted with each other we are.

Everywhere and anywhere can be a good place/time to make out. He never says" No". And I can't either.

We have Venus/Mars exact conjunct in Libra- supported by his Sun/Saturn conjunct too.

The not so great part is when he brushes off the uncomfortable anger stuff-which I find odd for a Scorpio Moon.

Sometimes I'll want to express myself a certain way and he'll critique me on how I could have handled this better and how that behaviour was inappropriate etc.

But I think the nature of our relationship is a culmination of the natal aspects between us.

All in all however, it's really good Best communication ever!

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Jo B
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posted June 15, 2015 05:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jo B     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
In my experience... libra men are quite good as friends (as are female libras), but fickle as more than friends. They can be all over you one minute and demanding, and the next minute they'll dump you like a hot potato. Not just dump you, but make out like you were a b**** or nasty in some way which justified them dumping you. They can assassinate your character just to let themselves off the hook. They're pretty good at projecting in this way.

I'm constantly bemused by Libras generally. I think they're very "top show" and although can be quite fun, can be shallow.

Sorry, that's just my opinion, no offence to Libra men out there!

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posted June 15, 2015 06:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for peony     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Evidently I have a pattern with either Sun in Libra and/or Mars in Libra men.

Only one was distant, but that was because of planets in aspect to his Sun. Generally, Libras are highly social and can be flirtatious. The ones I've known that weren't monogamous were open and honest about it, so I don't consider this "cheating."

They bring a light-heartedness and objectivity that I need to balance my depth and seriousness. I think needing to be liked can make them manipulative or dishonest at times. They're not very good at dealing with the grittiness in relationships, but they're great companions. They're also charming and romantic and the ones I've known are perceptive and good communicators.

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posted June 16, 2015 04:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for foxxyxo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
ok i know im a girl but i have libra moon and i can tell you that yes we can feel deeply but only with those who we can trust and who have airy moons like us...i havw venus in scorpio so when i love i really love and im loyal but my libra moon wants to keep it fun and lighthearted most times so guys tend to mistrust me even though im loyal to them!!! its a constant theme of trying to get more intimate with my partner cause of my venus scorpio but its a struggle with my libra moon cause i can come off so airheadish...people see me more for fun than serious...sucks so i really am best with other air moons. ive also been in a friends with benefits situation for close to 2 years now and its a constant back and forth of feeling like im in the most perfect situation ever!! to wanting it to be something more real..in my opinion friends with benefits for 2 years is way too long hahah but thats my libra moon for you

on other hand....i know a leo guy aqua moon and libra asc and someone above described him perfectly!!!! his a cheater, is always talking to his friends of how to talk and get girls (thats majority of their convos) and its what he gets his pride from. he says he doesnt want to believe in marriage and has the most sexist attitude towards women its sickening. the thing with air signs is that they usually act the opposite of how they feel cause they dont like to feel deep so they retreat...you can tell this guy used to loveeeee women like really respect them but now his onto the next extreme (other scale of libra) so now he acts like a woman hater and uses them, objectifys them

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