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Zira_2015
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posted June 16, 2015 11:34 PM
  
As a Sun/Mars Aries, I find that I can have very strong outbursts of anger.  Has anyone else experienced this (themselves or anyone that you know)?IP: Logged |
ReadingTheStars95
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posted June 17, 2015 12:37 AM
I'm curious.. What is your ascendant? IP: Logged |
Zira_2015
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posted June 17, 2015 12:42 AM
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Originally posted by ReadingTheStars95:
I'm curious.. What is your ascendant?
Libra.  IP: Logged |
NoireAries
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posted June 17, 2015 01:56 AM
I do get frustrated and angry easily--very easily--but I don't explode.That's probably because my Virgo Mars is retrograde and my Aries Sun in the 12th house. Earth is my dominant element, with Taurus being my ascendant, too. But since my Mars progressed to direct, it's been a lot harder not to snap at people who get on my nerves. IP: Logged |
PixieJane
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posted June 17, 2015 02:10 AM
I used to be close to an Aries Deluxe (virtually all inner planets in Aries along with her sun and ASC) who had some major outbursts that died as quickly as they'd erupt (and wonder why you were still dwelling on something she yelled out a few minutes ago). She took some getting used to but once I did I learned to shrug it off and find the funny side of it, and I do have some humorous stories (though I'm not in the mood to share them now).The really interesting thing about it was when she was in the mood for a fight then she wanted a fight, not for someone to agree to whatever. And she wanted to win that fight but letting her win too easily (be it argument, game, or sparring match) was an insult that would really tick her off...even so, when we sparred I made her pout (and sometimes insult me) over her losing to me more than once though it was for a good cause (in addition to knowing it would be much worse if she ever realized I'd LET her win) as she really needed to learn to be more agile and how to block and dodge more (that she resisted this lesson was one reason why she lost so much--especially as I DID learn what she had to teach me even as she resisted doing the same in reverse, and the more I improved while the more she stubbornly remained the same the more I won until she finally, grudgingly, began to adapt her moves). Not many could've survived her vile and violent childhood so her placements served her well then, though not always so well as an adult. I guess it helps that I've been raised around so many fire signs as well as in Texas as I got a thick skin from it that can tolerate such flare ups and also put them behind me easier than many others can. Interesting enough that I was so close to my Aries grandmother and Aries cousin as a kid, but those two Aries were constantly butting heads against each other (even though my cousin chose to live with Granny instead of his 'rents). IP: Logged |
Sven555
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posted June 17, 2015 02:13 AM
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Originally posted by Zira_2015:
As a Sun/Mars Aries, I find that I can have very strong outbursts of anger. Has anyone else experienced this (themselves or anyone that you know)?
Hi! I do have a short temper (I have recently anyway!) I have Sun in Taurus Square Mars in Leo, which is what I worked out to be my temper haha. I try and exercise everyday, because otherwise I can blow up on anyone almost at will :/ Mars is conjunct my MC, which is representative of Ego, so I what go get ahead in the world, but the if I get annoyed, the world is watching me and usually laughing
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cchampliss2
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posted June 17, 2015 02:24 AM
I have a relative who has her sun, moon, mercury and mars in aries. No joke. And she will set you on fire while she's punching you in the face. And tell you to get over it. IP: Logged |
Zira_2015
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posted June 17, 2015 02:36 AM
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Originally posted by cchampliss2:
I have a relative who has her sun, moon, mercury and mars in aries. No joke. And she will set you on fire while she's punching you in the face. And tell you to get over it.
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ReadingTheStars95
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posted June 17, 2015 03:02 AM
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Originally posted by Sven555:
Hi!I do have a short temper (I have recently anyway!) I have Sun in Taurus Square Mars in Leo, which is what I worked out to be my temper haha. I try and exercise everyday, because otherwise I can blow up on anyone almost at will :/ Mars is conjunct my MC, which is representative of Ego, so I what go get ahead in the world, but the if I get annoyed, the world is watching me and usually laughing
Hey! I have mars in Leo square my Sun in Taurus too! Lol.. Personally, I also have my Mars squaring Pluto... Pluto being opposite my Sun (having my sun in the 8th house).. I also used to work out like crazy.. Got close to making some weightlifting records at my school for my weight class.. It's too bad I stopped working out at that level my sophomore year.. Who knows, it may have been for the better. Luckily, I do not have a short temper (I think that t-square kind of forced me to learn to control it.. Lol) The problem is.. If I ever get angry.. It isn't simply an anger.. It is more of a wrath.. I have to be pushed VERY VERY far first though. But.. That hasn't happened for many years, so that's something to be happy about! xD I don't like going to that place. Lol IP: Logged |
Sven555
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posted June 17, 2015 03:47 AM
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Originally posted by ReadingTheStars95:
Hey! I have mars in Leo square my Sun in Taurus too! Lol.. Personally, I also have my Mars squaring Pluto... Pluto being opposite my Sun (having my sun in the 8th house).. I also used to work out like crazy.. Got close to making some weightlifting records at my school for my weight class.. It's too bad I stopped working out at that level my sophomore year.. Who knows, it may have been for the better.Luckily, I do not have a short temper (I think that t-square kind of forced me to learn to control it.. Lol) The problem is.. If I ever get angry.. It isn't simply an anger.. It is more of a wrath.. I have to be pushed VERY VERY far first though. But.. That hasn't happened for many years, so that's something to be happy about! xD I don't like going to that place. Lol
Oh wow haha, I see you are born in 1995 too, so you must be a few days older or younger! (As Mars is square Pluto, perhaps 11-18th May?) Mars Square Pluto, I do have this too, but it's very last resort haha, 6 degrees apart. Mars Square Pluto provides insane energy levels that have to be controlled, otherwise destruction is likely to occur. Strangely everyone I know with this aspect has never used it to the max! Weightlifting is probably the best option to discharge the energy, so well done haha. That sounds great,you rose to the top. Completely agree, it's not anger, it's wrath and vengenence against the individual or group. You have a Libra ASC then? Sun in 8th, so you probably value Scorpio ways of doing things. IP: Logged |
Selenite
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posted June 17, 2015 04:16 AM
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Originally posted by cchampliss2:
I have a relative who has her sun, moon, mercury and mars in aries. No joke. And she will set you on fire while she's punching you in the face. And tell you to get over it.
My dad has Sun, Moon, Mars and (I'm pretty sure) Ascendant in Aries - but I think it's his Pisces Mercury that makes him the most relaxed, forgiving, cool-headed person I've ever known (It could be the Aqua Venus too). I think I've only seen him mad once - just before I started high school I messed up pretty badly, and he had to pick me up somewhere an hour away at 6am on my stepmom's birthday. He didn't even say a word, it was more like he was hurt and annoyed that he had to get angry and act like it for a normal amount of time. (Even though I know he was secretly over it by the time we got home.)
And as an Aries moon, I think our tempers are mainly triggered by things that affect ourselves specifically. Don't disrupt our routine, don't tell us what to do, don't drag us into things, don't violate our privacy - things like that - and we'll be totally cool. Or at least, that's how my Dad and I are.
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NeptunianAries
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posted June 17, 2015 05:29 AM
I have Sun/Jupiter conjunction in Aries and moon-mars conjunction in Taurus, moon is 29 degree. I walk like a bomb.Even I am calm, I have been told that I look like very very angry. I get irritated so easily, this annoys me. Imagine you have somebody around who takes everything so seriously,tries to push you back, fights comes out of nowhere. If I can't find, I have a passive-aggressive behaviour and this is also annoying. It is hard for me and for others. I need to find a way to take this under control. Because I can imagine that people close to me would not take this anymore after a while.I believe it is all about my repressed anger coming from childhood (Mars-moon taurus) Unfortunetely, I can't express my feelings properly. Either it is fight (so you only fight and they fight you back, nothing is solved) or I am silent. (Merkur squares Saturn) IP: Logged |
DopGang
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posted June 17, 2015 07:26 AM
In my experience Aries are kind of funny when they are angry. They don't explode too quickly in my opinion, but not to mean that they are not explosive. To me sag is a scarier temper.
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FruityLlama
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posted June 17, 2015 09:10 AM
I get irritated easily but I dont blow up. Im a bottler aha 
My mars is in harsh aspect to mercury, so maybe thats it. In Leo and Taurus respectively. IP: Logged |
DopGang
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posted June 17, 2015 09:21 AM
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Originally posted by FruityLlama:
I get irritated easily but I dont blow up. Im a bottler aha
My mars is in harsh aspect to mercury, so maybe thats it. In Leo and Taurus respectively.
What house? IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka
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posted June 17, 2015 09:29 AM
I've never experienced a violent outburst. I may get angry but then I get sarcastic or condescending, mostly. Or I just keep it in and seethe or curse under my breath (this happens a lot with my roommate :laughing . I could never understand how or why anyone could be so angry that they'd want to physically attack someone else.I'm an air stellium, naturally. IP: Logged |
Zira_2015
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posted June 17, 2015 10:35 AM
When I was younger, I would slam doors and throw things in the heat of the moment.Not sure if I should be sharing these things. IP: Logged |
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