posted June 24, 2015 11:46 AM            

I am new to this site...just joined yesterday. I am a Leo sun, Aquarius moon, Sag asc. Is there anyone on here that has an Aquarius moon?

I'm asking because I am definitely struggling with having this particular placement. Aquarius moons are known to be aloof, eccentric, independent, and humanitarian. I agree that I am this type of person.

At the same time I hate having this placement. I am such a loner because of it. I have trouble making/keeping friends. I don't want to be this way. I want new friends but my idea of a perfect friend is nonexistent. Am I the only Aquarius moon feeling this way?

I am also told that I look unapproachable and cold. Like I have a mean look on my face. But I assure you I don't intentionally do this.

posted June 24, 2015 12:20 PM            

Both my bf and I have Aqua Moons (me Leo Asc/Scorpio Sun, he Scorpio Asc/Leo Sun). And yes, we are both very independent and need lots of time alone.

I would feel claustrophobic being in the company of friends or anyone else for more than half a day. Up to 3 or 4 hours is pleasant - more tends to become dull and exhausting. Any why is that? Several reasons come to mind:

1) I probably need to recharge my batteries more often than most, hence the time alone.
2) I am super clever and being with those less interesting than me is boring ,
3) My internal world is unusual and fascinating - far more interesting than the world I encounter with friends.
4) I need to think things through and this mental processing time in an essential break.

I quite like my Aqua Moon. It makes me less dependent on people. I have a fewer friends than most - but they are very good friends. I fail to understand the inane chatter that many people endure on a daily basis in the company of a friend or, god forbid - groups of friends. How and why on earth!

I probably have a superiority complex .

posted June 24, 2015 03:13 PM              

Aqua moon here and boy do I like my solitude to do my own thing (which is usually creative, recreational or study based). I have a slightly short attention span when it comes to certain people in my life, which has actually caused friction within my family. I hate drama and drama-related chatter and wish people would at least try to "fix" their problems rather than go on about them and take responsibility of their own happiness (maybe that's my Virgo sun being all practical though).

posted June 24, 2015 04:04 PM            

No, you're not the only one. But, hey, other Aquarians might understand you and live up to your expectations. Do you have any aspect to NEPTUNE, Pisces, or a 12th house influence perhaps ? That's usually what makes the lonely Aquarians expect too much from their friends.

In any case, Madeline... Be proud of who you are. Aquarius MOONs are beautiful people, inside and outside.

Welcome to LL.

posted June 24, 2015 04:44 PM            

She's very independent and needs lots of alone time. She doesn't do well with clingy people. Yet, at the same time, she needs social interaction and can get quite depressed when she doesn't have many friends to talk to or spend time with. I guess she needs loyalty but with space.

I can see how that can be a little confusing to people who don't understand that tendency. I'm a Libra moon and I appreciate alone time as well, but my sister needs a lot more.

Your situation may be a little different because of your Leo sun. Your ego craves attention and personal connections while you're emotionally aloof and view the world as a whole, instead of individual people. Opposing sun and moon is always frustrating from what I've observed.

posted June 24, 2015 07:14 PM            

In my 11th, conj Saturn, which adds to the loner thing, and on top of rarely finding someone with whom to relate, I get picky too! But I've never had problems of feeling alone, alas I'm separated from my very close friends. I see my own Moon as one of the most creative, but watch out for those existential questions that come once in a while to bug you
Also, I've noticed that the independent part of an Aqua Moon reflects in dealing with emotions in a subtle way, so not too much dwelling in emotions, just talking with glances.

posted June 24, 2015 07:31 PM            

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Originally posted by Peluches:
Hey, sweetie, don't feel sad.

No, you're not the only one. But, hey, other Aquarians might understand you and live up to your expectations. Do you have any aspect to NEPTUNE, Pisces, or a 12th house influence perhaps ? That's usually what makes the lonely Aquarians expect too much from their friends.

In any case, Madeline... Be proud of who you are. Aquarius MOONs are beautiful people, inside and outside.

Welcome to LL.

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My neptune is in Capricorn, my saturn is in pisces as well as my 3rd house. My 12th house is in scorpio. I'm still learning about the houses. Thank you so much

posted June 24, 2015 07:35 PM            

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Originally posted by AnastasiyaEnchanted:
Hey, I am also an aquarius moon but my moon is in the 4th house. So I think that this makes me so much more emotional and dependent on people than I would have been otherwise. I also have a difficult time making friends not because I am unfriendly, but because I never ever fit in. I only have 1 or 2 close friends who understand me. It sucks to be a loner but I think its better to have a couple of close friends than many friends. I always seems to be out of sync with people that I meet. They never think like me or like different things than me. I am only now starting to embrace my uniqueness

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posted June 24, 2015 08:15 PM            

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Originally posted by madelineleo23:
My neptune is in Capricorn, my saturn is in pisces as well as my 3rd house. My 12th house is in scorpio. I'm still learning about the houses. Thank you so much

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You're doing great.

posted June 24, 2015 09:54 PM            

As I've aged, I have found it easier to integrate the Aquarian independence with the need for connection. It just takes experience. It's not the frequency and number of the connections you establish with people, it's the QUALITY of it.

As time has progressed, I have come to appreciate the independence more than the apparent loneliness an Aqua moon gives. Also, Aqua moon makes you much less judgmental than most people, so over time you attract friends naturally because they don't feel judged in your company.

Finally, Aquarian people will naturally fit with you on friendship levels. You might find you'll attract them as the years go by

posted June 25, 2015 12:07 AM            

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Originally posted by Peluches:
You're doing great.

What degree is your NEPTUNE -- is it conjunct your MOON by any chance, even if it's out of sign ? Planets in the 12th house can get a little tricky, too.

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posted June 25, 2015 03:01 AM            

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Originally posted by madelineleo23:
Hello all! Thank you for replying I'm glad that I'm not the only one. Maybe the reason I don't have many friends is because I put my alone time first. Jimmy2321 what you said is basically what I was probably trying to say. Not having to "need" to hang out with people. I definitely agree also that I do have a lot of acquaintances who I can chat with. Aquarius moons are said to known many people from all different walks of life. Astro Keen thank you for your breakdown. I agree that the Aqua moons internal world is quite interesting and indescribable.

One other question...are any of you as humanitarian as the Aqua moon is known to be? My humanitarian streak definitely came out this year when I began volunteering at a school in inner city Chicago.

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posted June 29, 2015 05:15 AM            

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Originally posted by socialgraffiti:
The first time someone told me they loved me, I responded by shoving French fries into their mouth. 😅😩

If that isn't representative of Aquarius moon I am not sure what is.

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