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mollywu
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posted June 26, 2015 04:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for mollywu     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I met someone last year during Venus retrograde. I read online, it said the love relationship won't last long if Venus retrograde during first meeting. After Venus goes direct, one or both will regret.

Is that true love relationship never can work out if Venus retrograde at FMC? If so, how long will the love relationship probably last? A few months or just one or two years at most? Can anyone share the experiences?

Thanks!

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posted June 26, 2015 09:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for mollywu     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted June 26, 2015 10:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Delilah423     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Astrology is never that simple or fatalistic.

The effect will depend upon a variety of factors in the natal charts, the synastry, the composite, etc.

Please don't live your life worrying about one planet in retrograde.

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posted June 26, 2015 12:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^ That is true.

However...

I have first-hand experience with Venus Rx and a new meeting/relationship. Things did indeed change drastically after Venus turned direct, and the relationship fell apart a few months later. It lasted about 6 months, tops.

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If you want to make it work then find the spot where Venus began to slow down not the rx point, and if you can make it last until Venus
is there in forward motion then do something to renew the relationship.
If that is not possible, then it is very important to understand the lessons of that relationship.

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posted June 26, 2015 01:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CosmiqPhuz     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It might be different if you have venus rx natally though.

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posted June 26, 2015 02:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for athenaia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted June 26, 2015 02:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^ Sorry to hear that, athenaia.

I honestly can't look back and say it was a good relationship, either. It was pretty bad and I really don't like thinking about it.

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posted June 26, 2015 08:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kannon McAfee     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by mollywu:
I met someone last year during Venus retrograde. I read online, it said the love relationship won't last long if Venus retrograde during first meeting. After Venus goes direct, one or both will regret.

Is that true love relationship never can work out if Venus retrograde at FMC?


No.

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If so, how long will the love relationship probably last? A few months or just one or two years at most? Can anyone share the experiences?

Thanks!


There is no way to answer this question. A single such factor in astrology never by itself determines ANY human outcomes!

While we may prefer that there not be bumps in the path of a relationship with a Venus-Rx factor, this does not 'doom' the relationship to failure.

Statistical frequency of such Venus-Rx relationships not lasting is not proof of a 'shall not' rule or a determiner of outcomes.

The Venus-Rx factor at first meeting or in a marriage chart might signal some unexpected matters or changing of feelings taking place, but that should be to assume those issues cannot be resolved or translate into a rule or a prediction of every relationship.

My wife and I got together during Venus-Rx of March 2009. We celebrated out 4th wedding anniversary this year. Spirit brought us together. Invest in the relationship itself and don't make sheer unpassable mountainsides out of astrological mole hills.

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posted June 26, 2015 09:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for athenaia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
^ Sorry to hear that, athenaia.

I honestly can't look back and say it was a good relationship, either. It was pretty bad and I really don't like thinking about it.



I also don't like looking back on that time in my life. Crazy how delusional I was about it all (Neptune was also near my Moon at the time so that's probably more to blame then Venus RX itself....)

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posted June 26, 2015 09:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mollywu     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by CosmiqPhuz:
It might be different if you have venus rx natally though.

No, both of us don't have this natally.

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posted June 26, 2015 09:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mollywu     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Delilah423:
Astrology is never that simple or fatalistic.

The effect will depend upon a variety of factors in the natal charts, the synastry, the composite, etc.

Please don't live your life worrying about one planet in retrograde.


Thanks,Delilah423.. Our synastry and composite don't look bad, composite looks quite good, but the relationship didn't take off officially. Sudden change came to him after meeting.

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posted June 26, 2015 09:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mollywu     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
^ That is true.

However...

I have first-hand experience with Venus Rx and a new meeting/relationship. Things did indeed change drastically after Venus turned direct, and the relationship fell apart a few months later. It lasted about 6 months, tops.


Thanks for sharing, Doux Rêve.

I didn't expect to have a love relationship with him. We emailed for about 1.5 years online before we met at last. We took each other just friends before we met in real. There is mutual attraction when we met. After we met, sudden change came to him, his job location changed, we cannot meet again. We still remain contact. When I look at our FMC, I found Venus retrograde,searching online, all said it was bad to develop a relationship during Venus retrograde. So I want to see if it will end soon, if yes, when?

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posted June 26, 2015 09:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mollywu     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Seimei:
If you want to make it work then find the spot where Venus began to slow down not the rx point, and if you can make it last until Venus
is there in forward motion then do something to renew the relationship.
If that is not possible, then it is very important to understand the lessons of that relationship.



Thank you, Seisei.

I still keep in touch with him, only by emails. We haven't met each other again since that first meeting. It was his job that caused the trouble. His job location changed far away.

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posted June 26, 2015 09:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mollywu     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Kannon McAfee:
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The Venus-Rx factor at first meeting or in a marriage chart might signal some unexpected matters or changing of feelings taking place, but that should be to assume those issues cannot be resolved or translate into a rule or a prediction of every relationship.

My wife and I got together during Venus-Rx of March 2009. We celebrated out 4th wedding anniversary this year. Spirit brought us together. Invest in the relationship itself and don't make sheer unpassable mountainsides out of astrological mole hills.

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Thanks for sharing, Kannon McAfee. Your exprience made me feel a little positive now.You and your wife must have very strong synastry and composite.

I met him in person as online friend. Didn't expect the attraction, neither did he. Since that meeting, it has been 1.5 years passed, we didn't meet again, because he is too far far away and we cannot get a chance to be together. We still remain contact, I just don't know how far it will go. Sometimes I want to give up.

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posted June 26, 2015 09:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mollywu     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by athenaia:
I had the exact same experience, honestly. That retrograde in summer of 2007 really f***ed me up for years afterwards. I now feel PTSD whenever Venus goes retrograde since then lol.

Sorry to hear about, athenaia.

You mean that relationship(started at Venus retrograde) lasted for a few years? How did you end it? You lost feeling each other? Can you share more if you don't mind.

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posted June 26, 2015 09:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mollywu     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by athenaia:
It's okay! I learned... so much. Like, overstimulation doesn't even begin to cover it. It's almost kinda comical in retrospect because our dating began JUST as Venus entered its shadow phase and ended exactly as it went direct and then when Pluto went retrograde a few weeks later?? Yikes! Full on warfare. That's all I can say.

I also don't like looking back on that time in my life. Crazy how delusional I was about it all (Neptune was also near my Moon at the time so that's probably more to blame then Venus RX itself....)


Ok, sorry, I just saw it. I am sorry, but we learned from those experiences.

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posted June 28, 2015 07:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for twinflame1914     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by mollywu:
I met someone last year during Venus retrograde. I read online, it said the love relationship won't last long if Venus retrograde during first meeting. After Venus goes direct, one or both will regret.

Is that true love relationship never can work out if Venus retrograde at FMC? If so, how long will the love relationship probably last? A few months or just one or two years at most? Can anyone share the experiences?

Thanks!



My bf and I met Jan 2014 during Venus retrograde and we are still together. I am wondering if he may propose during the next one (as we are going on a trip). It's had it's ups and downs but the love is very much there. He does have Venus retrograde in his natal - don't know if that makes a difference.

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posted June 29, 2015 12:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for mollywu     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by twinflame1914:

My bf and I met Jan 2014 during Venus retrograde and we are still together. I am wondering if he may propose during the next one (as we are going on a trip). It's had it's ups and downs but the love is very much there. He does have Venus retrograde in his natal - don't know if that makes a difference.

That is really nice to hear. Good luck to your guys.

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posted July 04, 2015 03:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for racole12     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I met my longest relationship partner during Venus Rx in 1999. We didn't start dating until 2000. We are still close now and could easily start up a romantic relationship (been engaged twice).

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mollywu
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posted July 08, 2015 02:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for mollywu     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by racole12:
I met my longest relationship partner during Venus Rx in 1999. We didn't start dating until 2000. We are still close now and could easily start up a romantic relationship (been engaged twice).

Another good example, thanks for sharing, racole12.

I wish you good luck.

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The reason why there is such consensus, is because...
When Venus goes retrograde, generally the Venus's transit effects are stronger
So I think the assumption is that... perhaps certain people may not be able to love their partner as much as they did during Venus retrograde, leading the partnership to vulnerability due to changes being made

But I don't think this applies to everyone.
We need to look at, what sign the venus was retrograding in, what degree, and how the lovers' natal chart is affected

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