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Dreaminess
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posted June 28, 2015 04:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dreaminess     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
And why do you think that placement/aspect/sign could and would prefer people like that?

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posted June 28, 2015 05:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gabby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've found Pisces moons love emotional ppl.
Taurus puts up with a lot and showing them you have a lot of feelings for them always makes them feel special.
Scorpios need you to be addicted them...but then they try to mess your mind for having those feelings.

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posted June 28, 2015 11:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Eirlys     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Gabby:
I've found Pisces moons love emotional ppl....

Scorpios need you to be addicted them...but then they try to mess your mind for having those feelings.



Gabby took my answer. :|


I kid, but emotional people also manage to FIND us.

And Scorps *do* need you to be addicted.

I get it, but I don't understand it.

Leos can handle emotional people (Leos *are* emotional people), and

prefer those with some passion running through their veins.

I think Sags can handle it, too... but I think their preference

leans more toward an adventurous spirit, than an emotionally heavy

one-- petulance or rigidity wouldn't fly.

All chart depending, of course... and this is just my experience,

so far.

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posted June 29, 2015 01:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for next to neptune     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Water sun/venus (unless it's a singleton) and water moons. I guess a strong moon/neptune/pluto too, if there are other water placements.
That is for relationships.

I am very water dominated myself, but I prefer at least in friendships, that people are not too emotional. I think it's important to talk about feelings and stuff, but it can also be too much. Most of my friends are not especially water-dominant.

I think a strong uranus/aqua, capricorn/saturn could make the person distant or not wanting to share their deepest emotions too often for different reasons.

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posted June 29, 2015 02:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for lalalinda     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
In general I would say Earth signs handle Water signs rather well.
They are complimentary.

these may also help/assist

Neptune in aspect to the N. Sun or Moon.

or maybe even someone who has a lot of planets in the Water houses (4, 8, 12)

and/or...Ruling planet in a water sign.

these would all be sympathetic/empathetic.

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posted June 29, 2015 04:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SaturnFan     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I attract, can 'handle' and truly love emotional people.

Taurus Moon square Venus and opposite Pluto + Cap stellium. So the other posters above are spot on about earth placements playing a role.

quote:
Originally posted by lalalinda:

Neptune in aspect to the N. Sun or Moon.


Good catch - my Neptune conjuncts my Sun exact, and both trine my Moon

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posted June 29, 2015 12:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Abc333     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I would first suggest people who have heavy water emphasis in their charts, especially if they have a grand trine in water because they hold much sympathy and empathy.

My second suggestion would be someone with a lot of earth in their charts because of their stable groundedness to be able to handle such things.

Heavy air placements, I feel, are the least likely because they are prone to using logic and rationality when it comes to the emotional realm.

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posted June 29, 2015 12:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for violet7887     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

Water signs have most empathy , compassion, care. So ppl with sun or moon here. Moon - neptune, moon- pluto.

Air signs have better nack for picking up and understanding my emotions as well.


I think the question at hand tough is tricky. Synastry might also play a big role in that.


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posted June 29, 2015 01:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DopGang     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by lalalinda:
In general I would say Earth signs handle Water signs rather well.
They are complimentary.

these may also help/assist

Neptune in aspect to the N. Sun or Moon.

or maybe even someone who has a lot of planets in the Water houses (4, 8, 12)

and/or...Ruling planet in a water sign.

these would all be sympathetic/empathetic.


Agree!

Being heavy Virgo/12th.
However, it's not my favorite thing to do!
In the end though if I am able to successfully help someone through a tough time or something like that then the reward is always worth it.
People who are very very emotional on a regular basis though are just too much for me.

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posted June 29, 2015 02:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ilunatique     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I read everything and nothing really works with my chart...

I'm an extremely emotional and feeling person, I dont oppress my feelings. I dont kill them, or put away. It would destroy me. I am always open and feeling. I always show them. You're cute? I'll hug you. You're bad? I'll cry until you feel how I feel and you'll get it (happened so much). You're my friend? I love you. You're a stranger? I still love you! I love everyone and everything.
I'm an extreme empath, nuff said. I get overwhelmed in emotions often and its hard to me sometimes, but I LOVE IT!. I'm human. I'm not a robot.
What saddens me sometimes is how people got used to being cold-ish to each other... and when they see me expressing my feelings.... THEY GET SCARED... and try to bring me down to their level thanks to calming pills or negative responses (no thanks? if im sad because of things from this world ill cry how hard i want to/ if i'm happy i will be VERY happy, etc).
other times people stop screaming at me shocked and confess: "Stop it Luna.....oh god.. im starting.. to feel... how you feel".
... Oh yeah? Good job homie... This is how it feels to feel...

I act more with my heart than my brain... (even if sometimes i spend a lot of time contemplating and over thinking things)... this gave me the gift of high intuition and visualizing unknown things easily (psychic)

People find comfort in talking to me or being in my presence. Whenever they are low they know who to call...
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My chart is 90% fire-air, i only have 1 planet in earth and 1 in water.

I have NEPTUNE conjunct MARS (1 degree orb) exactly conjunct ASC in 1st Aqua
SUN conjunct PLUTO in Sag
MOON in Leo

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posted June 29, 2015 02:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CosmiqPhuz     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think one must simply just have some water placements in their personal planets.

My mom is a virgo sun, sag moon, libra mars, libra mercury, leo venus. No water at all. She's not cold, but out of all the members of my family, she has the most trouble/difficulty/inhibition dealing with emotions - whether they are other people's or her own.

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posted June 29, 2015 02:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aquacheeka     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Gabby:
I've found Pisces moons love emotional ppl.

lolz, I was about to say that I personally love vulnerable and emotional men and I'm a Pisces moon.

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posted June 29, 2015 02:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for polkadotstars     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Pisces! I am a Pisces Sun, Moon, and Mercury in the 8th house. I love emotional depth in people.

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posted June 29, 2015 02:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Eirlys     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by ilunatique:
I act more with my heart than my brain... (even if sometimes i spend a lot of time contemplating and over thinking things)... this gave me the gift of high intuition and visualizing unknown things easily (psychic)

People find comfort in talking to me or being in my presence. Whenever they are low they know who to call...
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My chart is 90% fire-air, i only have 1 planet in earth and 1 in water.

I have NEPTUNE conjunct MARS (1 degree orb) exactly conjunct ASC in 1st Aqua
SUN conjunct PLUTO in Sag
MOON in Leo


Neptune and Mars on the ASC... wow.

Very nice, esp with the Sag sun.


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posted June 29, 2015 02:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for goddessinworld     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by next to neptune:
Water sun/venus (unless it's a singleton) and water moons. I guess a strong moon/neptune/pluto too, if there are other water placements.
That is for relationships.


yes, water moons!

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Gladspeelbkearns
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posted June 30, 2015 09:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gladspeelbkearns     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My Mum has a Cancer 8th house Sun, inhanced Neptune, Scorp Asc and Leo Moon, which can be interesting at times-her S.O, with his Aqua sun and Torus Moon can appear somewhat detatched, though he doesn't mean to (Retro Pisces Venus), I don't have a time of birth for him, though wouldn't be surprised if he had a Cap or Aqua ascendant (he's very interested in finance in general, so Sun or Venus in the 2nd house makes sense). It's less that he "hates emotions" and more that if you go to him with a problem (emotional or otherwise), his default is to help you handle it in a purely practical manner-and to bend over backwards in order to do so.

Personally I can sympathise with both viewpoints-I have a Cancer Sun/Mars in the 10th, Cappy Moon in the 4th, Torus Venus in the 8th/9th depending on what house system you use, Pisces Vertex and Vergo Asc. I can "handle emotions"-especially if I know someone is upset for a good reason, though not emotion overload all the time-like most people I guess.

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posted June 30, 2015 11:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gabby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by ilunatique:
I read everything and nothing really works with my chart...

I'm an extremely emotional and feeling person, I dont oppress my feelings. I dont kill them, or put away. It would destroy me. I am always open and feeling. I always show them. You're cute? I'll hug you. You're bad? I'll cry until you feel how I feel and you'll get it (happened so much). You're my friend? I love you. You're a stranger? I still love you! I love everyone and everything.
I'm an extreme empath, nuff said. I get overwhelmed in emotions often and its hard to me sometimes, but I LOVE IT!. I'm human. I'm not a robot.
What saddens me sometimes is how people got used to being cold-ish to each other... and when they see me expressing my feelings.... THEY GET SCARED... and try to bring me down to their level thanks to calming pills or negative responses (no thanks? if im sad because of things from this world ill cry how hard i want to/ if i'm happy i will be VERY happy, etc).
other times people stop screaming at me shocked and confess: "Stop it Luna.....oh god.. im starting.. to feel... how you feel".
... Oh yeah? Good job homie... This is how it feels to feel...

I act more with my heart than my brain... (even if sometimes i spend a lot of time contemplating and over thinking things)... this gave me the gift of high intuition and visualizing unknown things easily (psychic)

People find comfort in talking to me or being in my presence. Whenever they are low they know who to call...
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My chart is 90% fire-air, i only have 1 planet in earth and 1 in water.

I have NEPTUNE conjunct MARS (1 degree orb) exactly conjunct ASC in 1st Aqua
SUN conjunct PLUTO in Sag
MOON in Leo


I just wanted to tell you I loved reading your post!
My only water is scorp Uranus/NN
My only earth is virgo Moon
Saggy Sun/Merc/Nep
Leo Saturn
Gemini Mars
Libra Pluto/AC/Venus
Aries Jupiter
So like you 90% air/fire but I'm far from being unemotional!

I have an unaspected virgo moon in 12th(closest aspect 7.5 square to Neptune)
Saggy Neptune(3rd house) conjunct saggy Sun/Merc
Saggy Neptune making an exact sextile to libra Pluto
Libra Pluto on my libra AC by 3 degree
Libra Pluto conjunct libra Venus

I'm very emotional but spent my life hiding it, I was terrified of ppl seeing my depth! I'm just now learning that my emotions are beautiful and I want to let them shine! If someone has an issue they need to move on!

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