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LexusVirgo
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posted June 29, 2015 07:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LexusVirgo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I been reading old forums of libra men and even searching online and all women say appalling things about them..I read so many horror stories about them being shallow and indecisive.. Do these men have any reddening qualities because in all I read they sound like selfish premadonnas. I always thought the worse man is the man with venus I. Gemini but guess not.

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posted June 29, 2015 08:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The Libra men I've known weren't like that, and though I can point out some very flawed Libra men I've met even they didn't fit that description (though one was an effete snob). My guess is that these women with their horror stories just gravitate around narcissists, probably because they're easily manipulated and/or just like talking trash about people (and lots of people love to take out their bitterness against a specific individual by targeting a sun sign or other placement).

In any case, I googled "famous Libra men" and here's the first site I came across which has so many Libra men to consider:
http://www.thefamouspeople.com/libra-men.php

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posted June 29, 2015 09:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DopGang     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^^
Agree.
It's a matter of perspective.

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posted June 29, 2015 09:44 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I know of one Libra man who got married recently. So there is at least one woman happily married to a Libra man in the world lol.

Unfortunately, he's the only one I know. They DO have redeeming qualities - the ones I know though snobby are also genuinely funny and charming. But I personally don't think they're long-term relationship material. At least not for me. But I think for a cardinal woman or a Sag they are probably great.

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Odette
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posted June 29, 2015 09:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I only have positive stories with Libra men. I'm surprised you found so many horror stories lol
The most b*tched about men in the zodiac are usually Pisces and Scorpio.
Seriously...if you think the Libra stories were bad...just search LL for "Pisces man"

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posted June 29, 2015 10:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Libra men - in my experiences with them they have been *** -for-tat, generous (as long as you're generous back but even so they prefer to get along with you than have tension and will do what they can).

What's weird to me about them is how they can **** you off just enough, but still walk away graceful. They are logical thinkers who don't much care for spiritual, unseen things or "guesses." They stick to facts. Most Libra oriented people I know scoff at Astrology whereas the Aries (their opposites) are open to it. Libra is judgy and picky. They can be antagonistic. Generous and bend-over-backwards when in love. Writers. They definitely can talk your ear off too!

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Libra men are fun as friends, and can be good confidantes and willing to help if you have problems.

However, some of them come across as agreeable when all they're after is sex. They also aren't particularly loyal to their partners - I've known at least three who wanted to pursue something with me whilst living with or even married to someone else.

Annoy them romantically however and they can be pretty mean verbally. A couple even came across as like old women in their snipes, which I wouldn't really associate with Libra generally.

I just keep 'em as friends these days. They're a bit fickle for my tastes

(Virgo sun, Aqua moon, Libra Asc)

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posted June 29, 2015 02:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Liliya     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
What's weird to me about them is how they can **** you off just enough, but still walk away graceful. They are logical thinkers who don't much care for spiritual, unseen things or "guesses." They stick to facts. Most Libra oriented people I know scoff at Astrology whereas the Aries (their opposites) are open to it. Libra is judgy and picky. They can be antagonistic. Generous and bend-over-backwards when in love. Writers. They definitely can talk your ear off too!


This mirrors my experiences to a T.

One Libra guy I knew refused to pay for anything on a date, even a first date, saying he is 100% egalitarian in all respects. The other, who is rich, wanted to pay for everything but then only go to elegant pricey places.

They're a joy to be around (though very condescending. I dunno it's hard to explain lol) but commitment issues coming out the wah-zoo. Usually the women I know who have dated them ended up locked in an on-off dynamic for years. I don't have the patience for them.

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posted June 29, 2015 03:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ail221     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Libra men.....There too indecisive for my liking, they can be fun people to date casually and they do commit once they have found that one person but generally in my experience they have wandering eyes and other wandering body parts. In regards to Libra's being in a relationship for a long time even when unhappy I've seen that far too often. I don't even look at it as commitment or dedication rather they don't want to be alone and would rather wait until a better prospect comes along or their spouse to break up with them.

It's can be very difficult if you are the type of person that likes to initiate things, Libra men want to be the initiators when it comes to things but then they either too indecisive or lazy to get something done. If you're the possessive type it's again best to avoid Libra men who are often friends with all of there ex girlfriends dating back to grade school.

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posted June 29, 2015 06:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for witchy31     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i know a libra stellium guy with moon in leo and he's brilliant.

you can talk to him about everything
great dress sense
pays for everything (on dates) when he can afford it
generous
open minded
very sweet
very romantic
ride or die
very practical and level headed

only fault i can think of is that he really sees the world in shades of grey so he'll never really take a proper side in many things (black/white) which bugs my mercury in capricorn. he always considers every possible option.

dunno i've got a cap stellum and i really get on with libras.

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posted June 29, 2015 06:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GemBird82     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
~ Oh! I know one crazy fella who is a friggin' Libra lol dude was born on October 18th, sadly I can't remember the year, I'd have to ask.. but He's quite young , 23 years more or less - the ASC was Leo 19º if I'm not wrong. Dude is one of the most audacious, reckless ******** I've ever met quite a Good Guy ~

lol

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posted June 29, 2015 06:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GemBird82     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
~ He's Canadian btw

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LexusVirgo
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posted June 29, 2015 08:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LexusVirgo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I read a particular story about a libra ms who met this girl online she was chubby for get persprctive and I read he told her I don't usually go for your type but you are working on yourself.

I was flabbergasted, that's so meAn in so many levels that i wonder what his Venus sign was. Because you can't blame all on sun signs.

Oh I dated Pisces beautiful liar by dhakira and Beyoncé comes to mind. Pisces are so indecisive .

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posted June 29, 2015 11:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for blindpainter     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
im dating a libra guy right now. weve lived together for three years now. he is an amazing friend, lover and partner. he has always been there for me with out judgeing he is the nicest person i have ever met. he is patient, hardworking and kind.
i made a thread like this a few weeks ago. as much as i am interested n astrology you cant judge people by it.

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posted July 02, 2015 07:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for StillTippin     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm a libra and I dAted a Virgo woman for 4 yrs and all she did was lie, undercut, I'm just glad it's done


It's up to you if you can find redeemable qualities in a sign you are already having doubts on. The most shallow signs for me have been earth signs but to each it's own.


Some of us put ourself second some of us don't. All I can say is we try to approach every situation calm and composed all libras are not shallow but you have to turn us on mentally. That's not to say we aren't attracted to the physical cuz we are but we truly come alive if we can mentally connect.


All libras are different. I'm more aggressive and emotional than they make us seem. But I can tell u it's nothing more attractive to a libra than a woman's personality well me at least. It just depends but eh one thing that never changes is at least the desire for a mental connection because that's how things start with us. We all got redeeming and damning qualities tho it's just whatever u prefer

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posted July 02, 2015 09:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for 12muddy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My experiences with them are mostly positive. I find them pleasant and easy going as friends and acquaintances.

It was harder to maintain the relationships once they progressed to something more serious than just friendships or flirting. Eventually the problems reared their heads. Apart from other "minor" problems, they found me unruly and "illogical" in my life choices and the way I expressed myself. Unfortunately that's when I'm at my best. I think synastry was the main cause though-too many hard saturn aspects.

I'm married to a libra. He's the only who doesn't find the things mentioned above problematic ( ) We have good synastry, quite a few saturn hard aspects, but plenty of other flowing aspects to balance things out.

He's calm and wonderfully kind, and extremely firm in his resolves. Very idealistic in love, I attribute that trait to his neptune squares. Once disappointed, he turns cold rather quickly. His ex lightly mentioned that she didn't need much, a "cheap" ring that cost around 10 grand would do. He broke up with her almost immediately. He only said to me that they broke up because they had different values. I found out about the details from our mutual friend.

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Originally posted by StillTippin:
The most shallow signs for me have been earth signs but to each it's own.

Gee thanks! (Shallow, dishonest, undercutting Virgo woman here).

Mind you, I feel a bit negative towards Libra men romantically too so I guess we're even!

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posted July 02, 2015 10:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LexusVirgo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Jo B:
Gee thanks! (Shallow, dishonest, undercutting Virgo woman here).

Mind you, I feel a bit negative towards Libra men romantically too so I guess we're even!


Actually still tippin earth signs aren't shallow we just get tired of air signs flitting around. And I can hardly qualify as earth when I have mostly a fire stellium in my chart.

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posted September 06, 2015 01:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ikja     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The question I've got is, why do Libra men come and go?

So confusing!

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posted September 06, 2015 02:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for theunknown     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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The question I've got is, why do Libra men come and go?

So confusing!


I think Libras are searching for people who embody their opposite energy, which is Aries. Arians know what they want, dont wait to be told when and where to be. So in a way, Librans come and go because they expect you to act like an aries, have your own life and your own directions.

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posted September 07, 2015 12:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ikja     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by theunknown:
I think Libras are searching for people who embody their opposite energy, which is Aries. Arians know what they want, dont wait to be told when and where to be. So in a way, Librans come and go because they expect you to act like an aries, have your own life and your own directions.

Funnily enough, I'm an Aries moon and I have an Aries Mars. I often feel like this libra can't get enough of me; but at the same time... Finds me very different and this upsets him. I've always tried to stay away from libra men, but I seem to be moving into a new phase of attracting them. Before, my thing was Virgos/Leos and now it seems to be Libra/Leos/Scorpios.

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posted September 07, 2015 03:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am dating one right now. And I think he is just great.

Asc in Virgo, Sun in Libra, Moon in Scorpio

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posted September 12, 2015 09:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for madelineleo23     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I dated a Libra guy for two years. He was extremely indecisive but he was very generous and he always helped me out whenever I needed it. He was also very flirty and friendly. We used to fight a lot because he would flirt with other girls in front of me. He had a wandering eye. I caught him many times checking out other woman. The sex was great though. (If thats too much info I apologize) He ended up cheating on me with his best girl friend. But then again...not every Libra is the same.

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posted September 13, 2015 01:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LexusVirgo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Was his best friend a girl because I heard libra men tend towards homisexuality.

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