posted June 30, 2015 01:35 PM            

Leo Saturn 11H is constantly (!!) arguing with Scorpio Uranus 3H. It's REALLY making my head spin and everybody else's around me as well. I desperately need my Uranian freedom (what is that anyway??!) but Saturn just keeps slapping me down demanding to be obedient. I make people around me tear their hair out.

Can someone PLEASE tell me how to find balance between these 2 planets?!!

It's not like I can escape Uranus either. It's the most aspected planet in my chart. I just need to tame him a tad so to ease all the volcanic eruptions.

posted June 30, 2015 03:24 PM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
I just need to tame him a tad so to ease all the volcanic eruptions.

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Do you think that's going to help?

Maybe he's frustrated about something. Can't you sit down together when it's calm and talk about what sets you both off? You're more likely to make progress that way rather than trying to change him without really talking about things.

posted June 30, 2015 05:12 PM            

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Originally posted by Jo B:
Do you think that's going to help?

Maybe he's frustrated about something. Can't you sit down together when it's calm and talk about what sets you both off? You're more likely to make progress that way rather than trying to change him without really talking about things.

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posted June 30, 2015 05:14 PM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
How do I sit down and talk to Uranus??

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Oh dear, that made me giggle a bit. Sorry charlie!

What are your respective sun and moon signs (maybe Mars too)? You may have posted that somewhere else.

posted June 30, 2015 05:23 PM            

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Originally posted by teasel:
I think Jo thought you were talking about a partner?

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haha. Oh God, yes that's what I thought!
I think it was the "need to tame him" bit that threw me!

hehe

Edit - in that case, maybe charlie should sit down with HERSELF when she's calm and have a good talk!

I'm in a silly mood now. Things like this tend to tip me over the edge into ridiculousness!

posted June 30, 2015 08:01 PM            

As a Uranian and Saturn-sun conjunct (not squaring each other), I basically relieve my Uranian need every few years. I schedule trips to strange places and travel (Uranus in 9th). I move residences a lot but my saturn tendency still tie me down to a job and a place. I also maintain strange hobbies ... I let the two tendencies buffer each other.

I think Saturn in Leo is supposed to teach you to let go of narcissism ... Scorpio Uranus says you must go to the depth of things to find yourself. It's kinda nice that your Saturn is in 11th. Maybe you should participate in community more... Just a thought

posted July 02, 2015 09:56 AM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
I'm gonna make it short and concise.

Leo Saturn 11H is constantly (!!) arguing with Scorpio Uranus 3H. It's REALLY making my head spin and everybody else's around me as well.

I desperately need my Uranian freedom (what is that anyway??!) but Saturn just keeps slapping me down demanding to be obedient. I make people around me tear their hair out.

Can someone PLEASE tell me how to find balance between these 2 planets?!!

It's not like I can escape Uranus either. It's the most aspected planet in my chart. I just need to tame him a tad so to ease all the volcanic eruptions.

I have Taurus Jupiter in 9H involved as well.

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Ironically,the apex planet(Saturn in Leo), is the key to the answer.

I think that it could be Uranus/Jupiter that are making your head spin.

Uranus in 3rd may give a head that often gets really excited and inspired sporadically by a new idea.

So the two in opposition often mean that one gets inspired in one direction(Uranus 3rd) and the other expands in another(Jupiter in 9th)

Any planet that interacts with Mercury/Jupiter automatically gives "the gift of gab". And when we add the 9th/3rd house to it....BOOM!!

So Saturn tries to stabilize this pervasive nervousness by bringing both parties back to planet earth.

I wonder if Saturn is on the cusp of the 12th? Because if there, it could suggest that a feeling of being completely alone with all these voices in your head etc.

Have you tried writing it all down? These 3 interacting can give latent writing abilities.

posted July 02, 2015 10:17 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Ironically,the apex planet(Saturn in Leo), is the key to the answer.

I think that it could be Uranus/Jupiter that are making your head spin.

Uranus in 3rd may give a head that often gets really excited and inspired sporadically by a new idea.

So the two in opposition often mean that one gets inspired in one direction(Uranus 3rd) and the other expands in another(Jupiter in 9th)

Any planet that interacts with Mercury/Jupiter automatically gives "the gift of gab". And when we add the 9th/3rd house to it....BOOM!!

So Saturn tries to stabilize this pervasive nervousness by bringing both parties back to planet earth.

I wonder if Saturn is on the cusp of the 12th? Because if there, it could suggest that a feeling of being completely alone with all these voices in your head etc.

Have you tried writing it all down? These 3 interacting can give latent writing abilities.

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I have been told I have a flair for writing because I am good with words but my patience is not really there. Saturn is 4 degrees from 12H.

So maybe it is like you say that it's Jupiter/Uranus arguing and poor Saturn is trying to calm it all down..I KNOW I possess talents for certain things incl writing, religion and anything involving humans but it's like my stamina gets interrupted with something "shinier" all the time so it HAS to be Uranus playing tricks on me!? I also have Uranus trine Mercury 11H, and Uranus sextile Virgo Asc, Mars (mercury again..) 0.08 degrees.

posted July 03, 2015 02:51 AM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
I have been told I have a flair for writing because I am good with words but my patience is not really there. Saturn is 4 degrees from 12H.

So maybe it is like you say that it's Jupiter/Uranus arguing and poor Saturn is trying to calm it all down..I KNOW I possess talents for certain things incl writing, religion and anything involving humans but it's like my stamina gets interrupted with something "shinier" all the time so it HAS to be Uranus playing tricks on me!? I also have Uranus trine Mercury 11H, and Uranus sextile Virgo Asc, Mars (mercury again..) 0.08 degrees.

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That impatience is something that you can have working for you-instead of against you.

Have a note book in your pocket wherever you go and whenever you find inspiration "hits", then you can scribble it down.

It doesn't have to make sense or be that eloquent. Just get it out on paper. Eventually it'll be 2nd nature.You'll see

I had the same experience myself. And I used to feel like I live a lot in my head and just disengage from others completely in moments of being "in that mode".

Now I carry a small pocket notebook everywhere and most people think I am nuts.

I write random messages of poetry or some "realization" that I have had.But if that is not available, the cell works just as well.

It may not make you "sexy" much and destroy some cool rep that you may be worried about .

But it is fascinating to read what you have written later when all has calmed down.