posted July 04, 2015 01:07 PM            

The sexual spark has never ended after 16 1/2 years but I'm happy with how the relationship is (off and on) b/c of all my Uranus/Sag energy I have.

We have:

posted July 04, 2015 06:46 PM            

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Originally posted by unforgiven_soul:
It truely is, all the feelings meet with the roots, the family, the home. Partners want to create a family together and since it's an angle it's very strong and longlasting. If the synastry has this and is also connected with strong aspects that connect the lights and double whammys then you have a miracle than contains everything.

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posted July 04, 2015 07:05 PM            

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Originally posted by geminigal2805:
I have great sexual chemistry with my husband even though we are together for just 8years. The attraction is very intense and our sex life is great. We discussed this very recently how we havent tried anything out of ordinary -nothing too wild/roleplays/kinky and yes tantric sex.... Right now we are playing safe coz im a heavily pregnant woman : ) Things will get better but we need to wait for it.
We have Moon-pluto dw, moon-venus dw, moon-neptune dw, moon conj his mars in Leo,Venus- mars, angles conjunct nodes/vertex, mars-uranus, mars-mars, mars-jupiter dw, jupiter-jupiter etc..
More than passion you need two people who are giving and eager to please inorder to have a great sex life for a long time.

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More than one of the sexual aspects and at least a DW, simple or combined.
Number one aspect, IMO: Venus/Mars in DW or in combination with another erotic aspect (combined DW). *for example, Venus/Mars, Mars/Moon

Sexual aspects:
all Mars, in order, to: Venus, Moon, Pluto, Jupiter, Neptune, Saturn, Uranus, Sun, Mercury; from both sides, both Marses aspected like this

Mars to an angle, especially ASC

Pluto aspects

more than two-three of these; the DWs/combinations should contain hard + soft, and soft aspects, at least a trine, a sextile, should be there, for longevity; especially the trine, the most longeval aspect; for example, a Venus/Mars, Venus/Pluto, Mars/Pluto trine does a great deal with this. But balance between hard and soft in the sexual part of the synastry is the most important thing: too much soft leads to boredom followed by separation, too much hard to intensity followed by separation.

8th rulers in aspect or combinations with 8th/5th. 8th/5th overlays.

also, 2nd house rulers or 2nd house overlays

Saturn and/or Pluto in some sort of connection to sexuality in synastry/composite

having many aspects on this list checked in the same synastry leads to long-lasting sexual spark and compatibility

EDIT: and of course, to this one adds significant EROS (to personal planets and angles), Lilith, Lust, Amor, Aphrodite, etc. aspects.

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I seem to have loved you in numberless forms...

AstroMandala

posted July 04, 2015 08:00 PM            

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Originally posted by blindpainter:
me and my partner have this. i dunno what aspects would lead to it but heres our synastry

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Excellent sexual synastry here. and excellent pattern completion!
The fixed cross is totally hot, and involves a tight IC rulers conjunction on IC as well, Sun/Jupiter amplifies the rest of the cross, and brings happy, long lasting intimacy

Mars conj ASC in combination with Moon Sun Jupiter the other angles in that lovely Mystic Rectangle is about as hot as one can get, especially with Mars as 8th ruler, and Moon as what appears to be 2nd ruler, and Moon/Mars in DW.

Venus trine Pluto, Mars trine Neptune, Venus/Mars DW, even with minor aspects, Moon/Mars DW, and many other simple and combined DWs, not to mention exceptional Sun/Moon Sun/Sun Moon/Moon DW and pattern completion. Great overlays. Balanced and rich combination of hard and soft, many synastric aspects, and in the right places for both people.

Excellent synastry, with great long-term potential! Good for you!

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AstroMandala

posted July 05, 2015 04:03 AM            

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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
Excellent sexual synastry here. and excellent pattern completion!
The fixed cross is totally hot, and involves a tight IC rulers conjunction on IC as well, Sun/Jupiter amplifies the rest of the cross, and brings happy, long lasting intimacy

Mars conj ASC in combination with Moon Sun Jupiter the other angles in that lovely Mystic Rectangle is about as hot as one can get, especially with Mars as 8th ruler, and Moon as what appears to be 2nd ruler, and Moon/Mars in DW.

Venus trine Pluto, Mars trine Neptune, Venus/Mars DW, even with minor aspects, Moon/Mars DW, and many other simple and combined DWs, not to mention exceptional Sun/Moon Sun/Sun Moon/Moon DW and pattern completion. Great overlays. Balanced and rich combination of hard and soft, many synastric aspects, and in the right places for both people.

Excellent synastry, with great long-term potential! Good for you!

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fantastic Leeloo!

posted July 08, 2015 01:13 AM            

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Originally posted by EmGem:
Yes! Ultimately, it comes down to that deep soul connection producing intimacy on ALL levels.
I'm wondering if having personals including moons conj in the 4th house would still count even if they are 11* from the IC?

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posted March 20, 2016 11:46 AM            

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Originally posted by ilunatique:
!warning:highly kinky

synastry
his MOON conjunct her MARS/NEPTUNE
her MOON conjunct his VENUS/NN

her VENUS conjunct his PLUTO/MERCURY
his MARS conjunct her MERCURY

her BONDAGE arabic point in her 8th conjunct his SUN/JUPITER in his 12th
her PERVERSION arabic point in her 8th exactly conjunct his JUPITER
her MARRIAGE arabic point conjunct his ASC

his BONDAGE + DESIRE AND SEXUAL CONNECTION ap conjunct her MARS/NEPTUNE in 1st
his PASSION ap conjunct her MERCURY MC

composite

MERCURY conjunct SUN conjunct MOON in SCORPIO
PLUTO in SCORPIO on ASC
MARS in SAGITTARIUS 1st house
JUPITER + SATURN (not conjunct) in 8th

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posted March 20, 2016 12:08 PM            

very interesting list.

posted March 20, 2016 02:59 PM            

In composite:

Sun conjunct Juno
Venus conjunct Psyche and Karma
Moon conjunct Saturn
Moon conjunct Amor
Mars conjunct Lilith
Sun/Juno opposite Mars/Lilith
Pluto conjunct NN (in 7th house)
Venus Trine Uranus and Jupiter
Sun Square Moon

In Davison Chart:

Psyche-Karma conjunct Asc
Destinn conjunct Moon (4°)
Venus conjunct IC
Venus opposite Mars/NeptuneLust Conjunction in MC
Venus trine Jupiter/Uranus/Pluto and NN stellium
Sun Conjunct Lilith
Union conjunct Vertex (7th house)
Jupiter/Uranus/Pluto conjunct NN (8th house)

We have a lot of hot aspects that help us to keep the fire for a long time... We not live together, but everytime we see us, sparks fly

posted March 21, 2016 09:12 AM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
Leeloo,

very interesting list.

What orb would you suggest?
And what minor aspects to you consider?

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Thank you, Ceri
With the orbs, I generally go for what I call the "optimal" orb in a synastry (and this one become apparent by geometry); just to give an example, I have a Libra stellium Mars 0 Pluto 6 Mercury 11 and his Venus is 7 Aqua; there is a 6-7 orb in the Venus/Mars trine, but it wouldn't have been better if the Aqua Venus had been at 0 Aqua; this way it actually aspects the whole stellium on the mdp, and also catches many other aspects from elsewhere in my chart, and being at 0 would have missed them. It does help, in this case, that there is a Venus/Mars DW, since my Venus and his Mars are in a tight sq (1), this is an important reason for considering it a valid trine, and a strongly felt DW.

Which takes me to my other rule, the DW rule, if one aspect is tight, the other can be wider and even sign-sign resonance can be considered as a DW, at least energetically.

I consider all minors in a DW, especially if one of the aspects is a major and/or there are two minors from the same or a related harmonic. For example, it's very likely that an opp+ semisq between two attraction planets to be felt strongly, on both sides, or 2 semisqs..

The most important criterion for long-term sexual sparks, in my view, is strong mutual activation of sexual planets and rulers.

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posted March 21, 2016 09:57 AM            

For example in the Grand trine of

Chiron 9 Taurus

Mars-Jupiter 10-11 Virgo

Venus 6 Capricorn

the span would be from 6-11 degrees and the midpoint 8-9 degrees, hence even though I do think a 5 degree trine is more on the wide side in this case I can`t fight the feeling like the Chiron is not only the bridging one but also a focal point.

Anyway if I compile the list, would you have a look?
Just curious how much of a sexual spark there potentially would be (I do think however that some of the intrigue he apparently feels about me, must be some sort of physical spark, what else could it be? well if we exclude for one moment the soul-based connection of course that defies any rational explanations anyway).