posted July 05, 2015 04:35 PM            

Not everyone wants to be joined at the hip to their spouse/SO/kids. There is nothing wrong is wanting time to yourself, to do things you enjoy, without any outside "noise".

posted July 05, 2015 05:25 PM            

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Originally posted by SDragon:
Don't look too much at the negatives. Just remember that there's two sides to the coin. Moon-Uranus people, whether dealing with friends, relatives, intimates or children have a large capacity to give their relationships the space for true freedom and individuality. Because children can be so impressionable, it's usually easy for parents to 'imprint' their own beliefs, thoughts and ideas onto their children. Sometimes this goes to the extreme of emotional manipulation but Moon-Uranus is different like that. We can truly appreciate the children for themselves, their own uniqueness and innate talents and gifts. Without being with them all the time, they can gain a sense of who they are earlier in life (though we still need to be aware of who else they're spending time with when not with us).

I say us and we because I have a Moon trine Uranus and yes, friends, functions, relatives, I'll give you 3-4 hours max and then you'll start to feel like you're draining me, so I know I'll be the same with children. Though I will do what I need to when the time arrives or maybe I'll live a life without my own and appreciate everyone else's - guess I haven't decided yet.

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posted July 05, 2015 05:27 PM            

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Originally posted by SoujiroSeta:
It could be a lot of things.

Not everyone wants to be joined at the hip to their spouse/SO/kids. There is nothing wrong is wanting time to yourself, to do things you enjoy, without any outside "noise".

Some are more prone to that behavior than others, and I think this is a combination of natal and how you have grown/what you've learned.

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posted July 05, 2015 05:28 PM            

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Originally posted by SDragon:
Don't look too much at the negatives. Just remember that there's two sides to the coin. Moon-Uranus people, whether dealing with friends, relatives, intimates or children have a large capacity to give their relationships the space for true freedom and individuality. Because children can be so impressionable, it's usually easy for parents to 'imprint' their own beliefs, thoughts and ideas onto their children. Sometimes this goes to the extreme of emotional manipulation but Moon-Uranus is different like that. We can truly appreciate the children for themselves, their own uniqueness and innate talents and gifts. Without being with them all the time, they can gain a sense of who they are earlier in life (though we still need to be aware of who else they're spending time with when not with us).

I say us and we because I have a Moon trine Uranus and yes, friends, functions, relatives, I'll give you 3-4 hours max and then you'll start to feel like you're draining me, so I know I'll be the same with children. Though I will do what I need to when the time arrives or maybe I'll live a life without my own and appreciate everyone else's - guess I haven't decided yet.

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posted July 06, 2015 08:37 AM            

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Originally posted by Dreaminess:
I know from now that i will probably be that mom that wont mind some space from my kids. I will probably love them dearly and do anything for them but wont need to be around them 24/7. My views might change when i might have them someday though, i dont know, do they change hehe? Do you think these feelings/views comes from my moon–uranus? Even now when i look at babies i find them so cute and adorable but i love them more from "afar" and find myself to be easily drained and exhausted and tbh slightly annoyed by them when having to deal with them. I am alittle ashamed to admit this but i know i will be that mom that can actually become tired of being a mom but i would never abandoned them though i would have been way too attached to them to ever be able to do that, but some space i wouldn`t have minded.

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This makes me crack up And I know that that was not your intention.

The Moon-Uranus aspect definitely contributes to that. I feel the same way.

I don't think that I'll make a great Dad. I am too "in my own world" to worry about what my child is doing.

I think I may give my kids too much space and let them go their way and find themselves in the process.

Look at the 4th/5th and 1st house too.

I have 4th house ruler square Mars- Domestic instability

5th house ruler(Sun) conjunct Neptune- Very "blase" approach with kids. This is very true

posted July 06, 2015 10:46 AM            

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Do you think these feelings/views comes from my moon–uranus?

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I think it depends on just how much distance and time apart you have in mind.