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Topic: How to attract a Venus pisces? What is the behaviour?
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powerglove
Newflake Posts: 8
From: Canada
Registered: Jun 2015
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posted July 08, 2015 03:31 PM
  
I'm a Leo Mars and Venus (both 8th house). And he's Venus Pisces and Aquarius Mars. He always stares at me w/ a blank expression when he thinks I'm not paying attention. His head is down and he'll look up at me from a distance, break contact, and look up again. I reciprocate this by holding a short seconds w/ his eyes (but don't give much of it because I'm also shy and like to be a little mysterious). With that said, I'm insanely attracted to him and I really want to get to know him, however I don't have the full confidence to approach him first. How does a Pisces Sun or Venus act if they are interested in someone and what are some things they find attractive? Do you make the first move? For all I know I could be perceiving this entire thing the complete opposite! But I'm trusting my intuition with this one. I can't stop thinking about him... Thank you all in have a good day! IP: Logged |
charlie
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posted July 08, 2015 05:12 PM
All the Pisces Suns and Venus' I've known and dated have always made the 1st move. IP: Logged |
Orange
Knowflake Posts: 2555
From: Georgia
Registered: May 2009
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posted July 08, 2015 05:32 PM
Look like a damsel in distressThey will come shortly after. True that! IP: Logged |
polkadotstars
Knowflake Posts: 287
From: Washington, DC
Registered: Feb 2015
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posted July 08, 2015 06:36 PM
I have a good guy friend who is a Sun Pisces and Venus Pisces who has liked me for quite some time. I believe that I read somewhere that men are attracted to their Moon and Venus signs. Maybe he likes me because he's a Venus Pisces and I am a Sun Pisces. So I might have those qualities that he is looking for. We met at a party and instantly had easy conversation. Granted his Mercury is directly conjunct with my Sun, Moon, and Mercury stellium. One of the main things we have in common is music and art (maybe that's a Pisces thing)? I guess with a Venus in Pisces it would help to be feminine and like artsy type stuff 
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ReadingTheStars95
Knowflake Posts: 534
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Registered: Jun 2014
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posted July 08, 2015 06:39 PM
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Originally posted by polkadotstars:
I have a good guy friend who is a Sun Pisces and Venus Pisces who has liked me for quite some time. I believe that I read somewhere that men are attracted to their Moon and Venus signs. Maybe he likes me because he's a Venus Pisces and I am a Sun Pisces. So I might have those qualities that he is looking for. We met at a party and instantly had easy conversation. Granted his Mercury is directly conjunct with my Sun, Moon, and Mercury stellium. One of the main things we have in common is music and art (maybe that's a Pisces thing)? I guess with a Venus in Pisces it would help to be feminine and like artsy type stuff
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polkadotstars
Knowflake Posts: 287
From: Washington, DC
Registered: Feb 2015
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posted July 08, 2015 06:46 PM
Cafe astrology states: "If a man's Venus is in Pisces, he is often impressed with a feminine aura of softness, sweetness, and neediness to a certain degree. She need not be robust or aggressive. Lacking in confidence is just fine, and so is a touch of helplessness."IP: Logged |
ReadingTheStars95
Knowflake Posts: 534
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posted July 08, 2015 07:04 PM
Honestly..Some might not agree with me on this but.. I think one of the biggest things for any Pisces placement/anyone with a strong Pisces/12th house/Neptune is this.. If the other person is willing to take the time to understand them. Pisces, I feel, is a sign that sometimes finds it hard to find other people who understand them.. And, I think part of the time, it isn't so much that they feel they NEED to be understood by the other person, but rather, the other person at least puts in the effort to at least ponder the thoughts/emotions of the Pisces person.. In saying this, a person with a strong Pisces is not going to want someone insensitive.. They need someone that is going to have patience with them, and someone that is not going to disregard their emotions. (Of course, I think this applies to a lot of people, but especially Pisces..) Of course, I would go to say, Cancer may have some similar energetic resonances in this regard.. To me.. Pisces is sometimes a sign that just wants to be understood.. That wants to know that they aren't alone. The thing is, it is rare that they will ever come by people like this, in my opinion. Hmmm.. I'm trying to think of how I want to word what I'm thinking. (lol.. Thinking about thinking.. xD) Actually, the thing is, Pisces may also get offended with someone trying to understand them, if they don't go about doing it the right way.. Because, this may make the Pisces feel that much more misunderstood/alienated. Pisces is a complex sign.
(I'll come back to this.. Still haven't been able to get my thoughts into the words I want..)
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EmGem
Knowflake Posts: 586
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Registered: Jan 2015
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posted July 08, 2015 07:31 PM
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Originally posted by ReadingTheStars95:
Honestly..Some might not agree with me on this but.. I think one of the biggest things for any Pisces placement/anyone with a strong Pisces/12th house/Neptune is this.. If the other person is willing to take the time to understand them. Pisces, I feel, is a sign that sometimes finds it hard to find other people who understand them.. And, I think part of the time, it isn't so much that they feel they NEED to be understood by the other person, but rather, the other person at least puts in the effort to at least ponder the thoughts/emotions of the Pisces person.. In saying this, a person with a strong Pisces is not going to want someone insensitive.. They need someone that is going to have patience with them, and someone that is not going to disregard their emotions. (Of course, I think this applies to a lot of people, but especially Pisces..) Of course, I would go to say, Cancer may have some similar energetic resonances in this regard.. To me.. Pisces is sometimes a sign that just wants to be understood.. That wants to know that they aren't alone. The thing is, it is rare that they will ever come by people like this, in my opinion. Hmmm.. I'm trying to think of how I want to word what I'm thinking. (lol.. Thinking about thinking.. xD) Actually, the thing is, Pisces may also get offended with someone trying to understand them, if they don't go about doing it the right way.. Because, this may make the Pisces feel that much more misunderstood/alienated. Pisces is a complex sign.
(I'll come back to this.. Still haven't been able to get my thoughts into the words I want..)
totally agree! from my experience dealing with someone with a strong 12th house stellium including their sun, venus and mercury - it is the understanding that i give him that attracts him. He said this himself. He has so often been misunderstood by people and this angers him. So being with someone that understands him is of great importance. Patience is also required with these neptunian people. It seems they don't like to be rushed. Any sign of aggression will only push them away.
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Seimei
Knowflake Posts: 598
From: LafaLott,La.U.S.A.
Registered: Apr 2015
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posted July 08, 2015 10:23 PM
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Seimei
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From: LafaLott,La.U.S.A.
Registered: Apr 2015
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posted July 08, 2015 10:29 PM
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hannaramaa
Moderator Posts: 10148
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Registered: Nov 2011
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posted July 09, 2015 12:17 AM
Every Venus in Pisces is different, more often than not they have "issues" with females because this is akin to having Venus in the 12th house. Or maybe their mother died early. Or they date the emotionally messy girls (one Aquarius Sun, ViP literally said that - completely owned by a Venus in Scorpio woman now.) But Venus in Pisces = a hot mess, it's just that that's what they're comfortable with. Their dynamic is broken / fixer, doesn't matter who's who.IP: Logged |
Venusincap89
Knowflake Posts: 918
From: Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted July 09, 2015 12:38 AM
Venus in Pisces is exalted and we are living in the age of Pisces. From what I observed, those with this placement simply loves unconditionally. The problem is.. everyone has different ideas of unconditional love and this leads Venus in Pisces individuals to often not be satisfied of the love that they receive in return. So they initially love unconditionally, but they end up kind of getting really frustrated or go crazy in their ways lol..
and by crazy.. I guess we can picture how Jesus was depressed a lot internally (?), yet still chose to love everyone.Those who are unaware of astrology nor the Venus in Pisces love style, obviously take this the wrong way and... don't necessary cooperate.
Result is that... every Venus in Pisces people I met constantly miss and love their exes. So, in short, it will really come down to whether Venus in Pisces person is already attracted to you or not. And.. I think emotional bonding will play that further attraction factor. But once emotional bonding takes off, don't take little silly complains personally? But given that venus is in 8th house, perhaps love making can be very important here? How exciting!  IP: Logged | |
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