posted July 09, 2015 10:32 AM            

I have Venus in cancer in the seventh house. Venus in cancer can be clingy in relationships and either will be the nurturer or the one wanting to be nurtured.

Venus in the seventh house depicts one who prefers their relationships to have a balanced and diplomatic quality. Possibly preferring that their potential partners be of an attractive quality or be well off financially.

Since your seventh house is Aquarius, you probably attract or prefer potential partners who are unique and detached/ aloof. Individualists that march to the beat of their own drum but keep with social ettiquettes.

That's just a breif synopsis on my part. It's recommended that you read info about Venus in the seventh house. Or, read info on Venus in libra since libra is the traditional ruler of the seventh house. Then read info on Aquarius ruling the seventh house, and read info on Venus in Aquarius.

I hope this helped!

posted July 10, 2015 07:54 AM            

There are 2 issues that glare at me;

1.Leo is ruled by the Sun-Domineering, self centered(which is NOT a "bad" thing btw), likes to be in charge etc.

Your partner is not the type to compete for attention. But is very BIG on "personal freedom"-Aquarius Dsc

There could be some issues with being intimate with the partner: You want more personal attention and to be the center of their attention.

They on the other hand, like their space and have a tendency to treat you like their "friend" or "just one of the people" etc.

2.The Sun and Venus are not friends (contrary to popular belief). Well at-least not on the fundamental levels.

Venus is all about the partner and the Sun is about the self.

On one hand, you want the relationship to be "equal" for all concerned; agreeable, passionate, loving and receptive-Venus in 7th.

On the other hand,you also want to "rule" your partner.Or at the very least be the one "in charge"(Sun rules Leo Asc- which is your 1st response to things).

Something always has to give.

posted July 11, 2015 03:33 PM            

Thank you! I already know about Venus in Aquarius / Venus in the 7th house. Hits the nail right on the head I definitely love partners that are different and independent. Communication is also a big part of my relationships.

Aries23Degrees

Yes, I do have a Leo rising. I do like to be in charge in my relationships but on the other hand, when in love, I will make a few exceptions You are right that my partners don't like competing for attention and are very independent. Funnily enough, my 2 serious relationships were with Aquarius men.

I do want to rule my partner and have all of their attention even though I know that's not a good thing at all and this will have to be something I need to work on.

Do you think every relationship I am in my partner will treat me like a "friend" / "just one of the people" always? In my last relationship, my Aquarius man was very loving and we made it clear that we were in a relationship, but as time went on, I did feel like we were more friends with benefits after a while. I really hope that it's not written in the stars for all my relationships to be like that

Belage,

My Moon squares Venus at a -6'27 orb. I'm not too sure what degree Venus oppositions my Ascendant though. AstroTheme doesn't show me. I'll have to figure out how to check the degree soon I'm still a newbie when it comes to Astrology.

I do agree that I am not aware of my own attractiveness. I am a bit insecure when it comes to my looks. I do receive a lot of compliments and have no problem attracting the opposite sex, but I can't help but feel like I am not "good enough" at times. I definitely do project that onto my partner and want them to make me feel beautiful and hear from them how they find me attractive. Terrible, I know!!

posted July 12, 2015 12:26 AM            

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Originally posted by goddessofthemoon:Yes, I do have a Leo rising. I do like to be in charge in my relationships but on the other hand, when in love, I will make a few exceptions You are right that my partners don't like competing for attention and are very independent. Funnily enough, my 2 serious relationships were with Aquarius men.

I do want to rule my partner and have all of their attention even though I know that's not a good thing at all and this will have to be something I need to work on.

Do you think every relationship I am in my partner will treat me like a "friend" / "just one of the people" always? In my last relationship, my Aquarius man was very loving and we made it clear that we were in a relationship, but as time went on, I did feel like we were more friends with benefits after a while. I really hope that it's not written in the stars for all my relationships to be like that [/b]

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Its really quite interesting because with Leo Asc, Pluto probably rules the Scorpio 4th house and Venus rules the fixed Taurus 10th house cusp.

Now Taurus is not as externally domineering as the two mentioned, but Taurus is very resistant/obstinate and probably the most stubborn of them all.

Taurus is also about value i.e how do you make their lives more convenient/better/ more beautiful? What is it that you bring to them that re-enforces that feeling of security?

Now Venus rules the 3rd and 10th. Whilst with the 3rd house ruler in the 7th, the relationship is very strong on communication(Libra 3rd house cusp). And it can also have a "sibling relation" touch to it.

With Venus also ruling the 10th house of Taurus, you are often at odds as to what "value" your partnerships bring you? As this is how you evaluate them.

10th house ruler in the 7th , also suggests that relationships form a very big part of your life goals and future prospects. As they are tied in with your reputation as a stable person-Taurus 10th.

With Aquarius on the cusp of the 7th, security-conscious "I want you close to me so that I can know that you are real/mine" Taurus can find the "give me space" nature of the partner very disconcerting.

On one hand, the one thing they are good at(Aquarius) is letting you be yourself Asc Leo.

These guys do not only preach personal independence for themselves.But also afford others the same.

So you will never feel that you have to "edit" or somehow "tone down" who you are. Dominant as you may be (Leo Asc, Taurus MC, Scorpio 4th)etc. they are not likely to be embarrassed by how you behave with others.

But they may be very resistant if these same "overbearing" qualities are expressed to them

Besides- as you may/may not have noticed- many relationships with people who have similar qualities with the planets mentioned,often results in ego clashes and stand-offs.

On the other side of the coin, it could also be that you are not really attracted to such people: Often sensing that their qualities will get in the way of your own self-expression.

But the attraction to Aquarius/Uranus strong people often comes very easily . Why?

Because these people are more easy going(well at-least at the start). And ego clashes are then less likely to happen.

Some of the things that may change what is said above,are progressions and transits from outer planets:Bringing on new experiences that the natal chart knows not of.

For instance,when Pluto moves to the 7th house-in many years times-things may turn towards the more interesting. Not to mention powerful significant.

You may insist on more emotional security from your partners(Pluto rules the 4th) and detract from Aquarius and more towards Cancer,Scorpio,Taurus or water heavy partners.

And then the power struggles begin...as is always the case with Pluto in 7th.

posted July 13, 2015 05:29 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Its really quite interesting because with Leo Asc, Pluto probably rules the Scorpio 4th house and Venus rules the fixed Taurus 10th house cusp.

Now Taurus is not as externally domineering as the two mentioned, but Taurus is very resistant/obstinate and probably the most stubborn of them all.

Taurus is also about value i.e how do you make their lives more convenient/better/ more beautiful? What is it that you bring to them that re-enforces that feeling of security?

Now Venus rules the 3rd and 10th. Whilst with the 3rd house ruler in the 7th, the relationship is very strong on communication(Libra 3rd house cusp). And it can also have a "sibling relation" touch to it.

With Venus also ruling the 10th house of Taurus, you are often at odds as to what "value" your partnerships bring you? As this is how you evaluate them.

10th house ruler in the 7th , also suggests that relationships form a very big part of your life goals and future prospects. As they are tied in with your reputation as a stable person-Taurus 10th.

With Aquarius on the cusp of the 7th, security-conscious "I want you close to me so that I can know that you are real/mine" Taurus can find the "give me space" nature of the partner very disconcerting.

On one hand, the one thing they are good at(Aquarius) is letting you be yourself Asc Leo.

These guys do not only preach personal independence for themselves.But also afford others the same.

So you will never feel that you have to "edit" or somehow "tone down" who you are. Dominant as you may be (Leo Asc, Taurus MC, Scorpio 4th)etc. they are not likely to be embarrassed by how you behave with others.

But they may be very resistant if these same "overbearing" qualities are expressed to them

Besides- as you may/may not have noticed- many relationships with people who have similar qualities with the planets mentioned,often results in ego clashes and stand-offs.

On the other side of the coin, it could also be that you are not really attracted to such people: Often sensing that their qualities will get in the way of your own self-expression.

But the attraction to Aquarius/Uranus strong people often comes very easily . Why?

Because these people are more easy going(well at-least at the start). And ego clashes are then less likely to happen.

Some of the things that may change what is said above,are progressions and transits from outer planets:Bringing on new experiences that the natal chart knows not of.

For instance,when Pluto moves to the 7th house-in many years times-things may turn towards the more interesting. Not to mention powerful significant.

You may insist on more emotional security from your partners(Pluto rules the 4th) and detract from Aquarius and more towards Cancer,Scorpio,Taurus or water heavy partners.

And then the power struggles begin...as is always the case with Pluto in 7th.

Where is your Sun placed?

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posted July 13, 2015 04:30 PM            

Seriously... you are AMAZING! Please let me give you something in return. I can do readings if you'd like. Anything. You've been so much help for me, I can't leave you with nothing.

Everything written is spot on accurate. I do like how they don't care how out there I am and they never try to change me. They always seem to like my crazy personality But yep, when expressed to them, they get scared and feel I'm "too sensitive", in the words of my ex

My sun sign is in Capricorn. Realistically, I know other signs are better for me than Aquarius but you're right about those power struggles! While my last Aquarius and I were on a break, I dated a Scorpio and Cancer male, but the Scorpio was a bit too much for my taste and there were DEFINITE clashes. I liked the Cancer as well but I don't know, I do feel at this stage in my life, I am not ready for that kind of intensity just yet. But who knows what can happen in the next few months / years I like the traits heavy water signs have and earth signs, but they don't seem to keep my attention for long. However, I am sure once I grow more, I will feel comfortable with them.

You're also very right about that Venus in the 10th and wondering what each relationship brings me. I always find myself asking this after a breakup or even WITH someone... Before I can continue moving on, I wonder if getting with them is truly something I should do and how much will I be benefited in the end / how it will help my growth + happiness... things like that.

Yep, all my relationships NEED communication. I cannot be with someone if we can't talk. I love talking and just having that easy connection with my partner.. and as you can see, I talk a bit TOO much sometimes About the sibling relation touch to it... hm. I've never thought of it that way. Unfortunately, I don't have siblings. My mother did adopt my cousins when they were young, but once they both turned 18, they moved out and did their own thing. When I get close to people, I do consider them the brothers and sisters I never had... Also, when in a serious relationship, I guess I do treat my significant other as a sibling in the sense that we share secrets and are in our own world. But again, I am not sure if I really understand what sibling relationships are truly like since I have never experienced one, but yes.. I do love getting really close to my partners in the sense I want them all to myself

Aquacheeka,

posted July 14, 2015 01:00 AM            

I do most of these when "inspired". So it's not 'work' per se.

And with me going into specifics like I do, is how I have come to understand it.

I don't like the vague descriptions that I get online: It makes the chart placements seem distant and obscure.

One thing you can do(if you really are that resolved in "paying" me back ) is to pay it forward through a random act of kindness