posted July 16, 2015 02:17 AM            

I have a Jupiter in the 7th house and the past few years have really showed me just how much this affects my relationships. I have a 2nd house Venus in Scorpio conjunct Pluto. Yet I have never been, at least I prefer not to be the dark one on relationships. But im not into possessing or controlling(u should lead not control). Just want a relationship that has openess, honesty, and fun. But the main thing is MORALS. All my partnerships have to have some kind of morals b/c it kills me to be around empty souls. I'm a passionate energetic person and want the same in return

Do any of you have this and how does it work for u? I have had alot of relationships when I was younger (27 now)and I've actually been quite lucky ton have known the ppl I have just based on their personalities

posted July 16, 2015 03:04 AM            

Romantic relationships have brought me nothing but pain and SERIOUS trouble. And I've been alone for almost ten solid years now. Sadly, as a Libra Sun, there's nothing I want more in life than a partner (except for enlightenment).

posted July 16, 2015 03:30 AM            

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Originally posted by the7thsphere:
I have this placement as well, with Jupiter being retrograde and opposite my Sun and Mercury.

Romantic relationships have brought me nothing but pain and SERIOUS trouble. And I've been alone for almost ten solid years now. Sadly, as a Libra Sun, there's nothing I want more in life than a partner (except for enlightenment).

(Thank goodness for all those "character-building squares" in my chart, or I'd have surely gone suicidal long ago.) :P

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Your chart sounds almost like mine. I have alot of squares and my Libra sun opposes Jupiter also

posted July 16, 2015 05:58 AM            

But the good news is that they are usually very honest and upfront. They "wear" their emotions a lot and are not a mystery to figure out.

Ruler of the 3rd(Jupiter) in 7th.

3rd house cusp in Sag suggests an open mind, willingness to learn and a thirst for experiences.

Usually with this individual, they express themselves in BIG ways; use their body when talking, use BIG words or think to relate to others in more grand,BIG concepts than the everyday minutia.

The ruler in the 7th suggests that you may bring this type of energy to your partnerships.

The relationships tend to have a sort of "brother-sister" dynamic to them.Or some sibling relation touch to it.

There is however some hurdles within partnerships;

You can be a very peace-loving person who believes in "we"; Libra is Asc I presume is ruled by conceding Venus.

But those that you attract/are attracted to,are very much about "I"(Mars rules Aries).

The other thing is that they(7th house) tend to be more direct and straightforward with life. Not necessarily 'dumb' ,but more street smart than intellectual.

For you,the joy is in the discovery and opening oneself up to many possibilities.
You enjoy intellectual banter very much.And can be the idealist.

On the one hand,this may not be an issue as you are likely to afford them freedom.
But it is very unlikely that they consistently do the same for you.

This may present some discomfort because FREEDOM is something that you consider pivotal in partnerships.

Mars ruled people tend to be quite "me" oriented. And need to learn sharing and co-existence.

So they may leave you alone when they don't need you. Then they "expect" you to be there at the drop of a hat- when they do.

If you don't comply with the latter, there could be some trouble

posted July 19, 2015 03:08 PM            

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Originally posted by StillTippin:
Hey everybody im not new to this site just lost my old profile. Anyway ill get to the point

I have a Jupiter in the 7th house and the past few years have really showed me just how much this affects my relationships. I have a 2nd house Venus in Scorpio conjunct Pluto. Yet I have never been, at least I prefer not to be the dark one on relationships. But im not into possessing or controlling(u should lead not control). Just want a relationship that has openess, honesty, and fun. But the main thing is MORALS. All my partnerships have to have some kind of morals b/c it kills me to be around empty souls. I'm a passionate energetic person and want the same in return

Do any of you have this and how does it work for u? I have had alot of relationships when I was younger (27 now)and I've actually been quite lucky ton have known the ppl I have just based on their personalities

And that's another thing, personality trumps everything with me. I chalk it up to this b/c most of my relationship views line up with this rather than Scorpio what is your exp. With this

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Hello,

Me too, I have Jupiter in 7th house in Aries (retrograde) opposite Sun in Libra in 1st house,with Venus conjunct Pluto and Mercury in Scorpio in 2nd house. I agree with you,in relationship,no matter love or friendship,I need depth,as I am also a passionate person.

I don't have a problem finding men,no matter on internet or in real life,as long as I put myself out there,from good to bad,I can find anyone. But someone with soul and morals is quite hard to find. Thank God,I have Sun trine Uranus and Moon square Uranus,meaning I am a freedom-aholic,an independence-aholic. I usually get in a relationship after a guy chased me hard(not that I am playing hard to get),just that every time I evaluate how much freedom I'll loose in a relationship,I makes me ran away as fast as an horse.