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Topic: Anyone with venus virgo or aquarius moon?
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Jimmy2321
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posted July 20, 2015 03:39 PM
  
I have both those placements and sometimes i just feel so unable to "love" people , its so hard for me to just like someone to find someone thats "good in every aspect" for me wich i believe is because of venus virgo
ODDLY ENOUGH when i have something that i like that has those characteristics whenever they start showing interest on me i feel restricted as in smothered by the simplest things , even if theyre not being like possesive of me , i just feel like that so.Sometimes i feel bad cause i show interest on people but when they start doing so back , i retreat that interest. Anyone ever felt that way ? IP: Logged |
stillatlarge
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From: TX
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted July 20, 2015 04:49 PM
Aqua, and it's such a nuisance. Plus, my asc, mars, and venus does the same thing.IP: Logged |
Belage
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posted July 21, 2015 01:26 AM
Astrology is a great tool for self knowledge. You will hear many bad things about Venus in Virgo. It will help you get some sort of perspective in order to integrate the various energies of your chart. The thing about Venus in Virgo is to pay attention and notice all the times when you are judging or being overcritical of yourself or others. You really don't have to be perfect to be loved. You don't have to be perfect to love. As for Aquarius moon, it can be a very detached moon, but you also have to consider any aspects made to it and the house it which it resides. The late Princess Diana had Aquarius moon, and she was far from a cold hearted person. Aquarius moon can give a very open minded attitude toward life. IP: Logged |
Belage
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posted July 21, 2015 01:29 AM
I really love this astrologer's take on Venus in Virgo:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5gvcWpuwyFk and https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1sDRpw9oNvg Really worth listening to. I wish I had learned about him years ago. I didn't check his video on Aquarius moon but I would assume they are equally good. IP: Logged |
Jimmy2321
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posted July 21, 2015 11:54 AM
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Originally posted by Belage:
Astrology is a great tool for self knowledge. You will hear many bad things about Venus in Virgo. It will help you get some sort of perspective in order to integrate the various energies of your chart. The thing about Venus in Virgo is to pay attention and notice all the times when you are judging or being overcritical of yourself or others. You really don't have to be perfect to be loved. You don't have to be perfect to love. As for Aquarius moon, it can be a very detached moon, but you also have to consider any aspects made to it and the house it which it resides. The late Princess Diana had Aquarius moon, and she was far from a cold hearted person. Aquarius moon can give a very open minded attitude toward life.
Hi belage, thank you so much for your answer and yeaah! i do know that i completely understand it, it is just so HARD to not feel that way and not see things that way, is like when you date a jerk and you just like him and you know its bad for you or just wrong. its an annoying sensation lol
and btw i did check the videos you sent me theyre pretty spot on and i do agree with lots of things, just he uses vedic astrology , dont know if it is a lot different than western astrology , but i appreciate your answer 
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Belage
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posted July 21, 2015 12:10 PM
Jimmy, you are new here, welcome!! There is so much to learn about astrology and it's fun. Vedic and western are different in many ways, but you can still learn a great deal from the interpretations of the sign Both consider venus in virgo to be debilitated, so this astrologer's wisdom is great because he actually delves a little more into it than most western astro I have known and he explains how to make this work for you. IP: Logged |
PlutoSurvivor
Moderator Posts: 1816
From: USA
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted July 21, 2015 11:16 PM
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Originally posted by Belage:
The late Princess Diana had Aquarius moon, and she was far from a cold hearted person. Aquarius moon can give a very open minded attitude toward life.
I don't think the Aqu Moon made her warm hearted. She had a well aspected 7th House Cancer Sun. Her Moon was conjunct her South Node, square Venus, opposite Mars and Uranus. The public would not be privy to her Moon sign.
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PlutoSurvivor
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posted July 21, 2015 11:35 PM
A strong Virgo would want to fix the world and everyone in it, perfect itself. A strong Aquarius would always be seeking whatever is new and better. These would be unconscious urges in you Jimmy, but only proportionately. Look at the rest of your chart to find what balances this. I think it would be as difficult as you have expressed to have personal planets in these signs, both Venus in Vir, Moon in Aqu. Perhaps you are to feel OK about not committing to any one person until the perfect one comes along (and by then you will know it). IP: Logged |
babybull82
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posted July 22, 2015 01:00 AM
There is an old friend of mine that has these placements and he pretty much says that he has to fake feeling emotions just so to not make people feel uncomfortable. I'm noticing a pattern with Venus in Virgo men (not sure of the women) But they are very adamant about not having children. Funny thing is my friend I mentioned above didn't want a kid, but he got one anyway and she is a very sensitive watery Cancer lol. I think he understands she's here to help him become a more emotional individual. I will say though that Aqua Moon can be a very lonely placement.  IP: Logged |
Jimmy2321
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Registered: May 2015
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posted July 22, 2015 01:34 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Belage:
Jimmy, you are new here, welcome!! There is so much to learn about astrology and it's fun. Vedic and western are different in many ways, but you can still learn a great deal from the interpretations of the sign Both consider venus in virgo to be debilitated, so this astrologer's wisdom is great because he actually delves a little more into it than most western astro I have known and he explains how to make this work for you.
Oh alrighth i didint really know i could still look for vedic interpretations guess i will have to investigate more on that too , about the differences between vedic and western 
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Originally posted by PlutoSurvivor:
A strong Virgo would want to fix the world and everyone in it, perfect itself. A strong Aquarius would always be seeking whatever is new and better. These would be unconscious urges in you Jimmy, but only proportionately. Look at the rest of your chart to find what balances this. I think it would be as difficult as you have expressed to have personal planets in these signs, both Venus in Vir, Moon in Aqu. Perhaps you are to feel OK about not committing to any one person until the perfect one comes along (and by then you will know it).
Thank you for the message pluto survivor what you described is yeah indeed how i feel most of the times, tough i dont really want to improve or fix people in general , it is when i start liking someone that i want to improve them or make them better with working out , healthy habits etc etc , and my aqua moon just puts a huge wall emotionally wise between me and them its like i want to serve them i want for them to be healthier and enjoy more life but i find it so hard to express it with words as in "ï love yous" etc.
Lets hope "the one" can put up with my barrier and slowly break it down quote:
Originally posted by babybull82:
There is an old friend of mine that has these placements and he pretty much says that he has to fake feeling emotions just so to not make people feel uncomfortable. I'm noticing a pattern with Venus in Virgo men (not sure of the women) But they are very adamant about not having children. Funny thing is my friend I mentioned above didn't want a kid, but he got one anyway and she is a very sensitive watery Cancer lol. I think he understands she's here to help him become a more emotional individual. I will say though that Aqua Moon can be a very lonely placement.
I completely completely relate to your friend, theres a lot of people i appreciate and i enjoy hanging out with but when they express "i miss yous" or something emotionally i kinda feel awkward and have to pretend being reciprocate for it not to be awkward, it is weird, it makes you feel cold and deatched to emotions like youre not emotionally relatable to most people
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Solar_Leo_Queen
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From: Planet Earth
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted July 23, 2015 09:41 PM
This is exactly how I feel :OYou don't know how many times I've gotten in 1-2 day "relationships" because I suddenly cringe at thought of having a boyfriend the day after. It's like even after I accept a guy into my life, I constantly criticize him in my mind until I find the idea of dating that person completely ridiculous. I'm a Virgo venus. IP: Logged |
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