posted July 20, 2015 04:48 PM            

So anyways I invited him to come over to Italy n this is what he replied : I'd definitely come over and see you (if you'll have me!!) 😄😄😄We'll have to sort something out closer to the time!
I didn't get the part of you'll have me??
Am very cautious as I had bad breakups n always getting hurt. But something tells me give him a shot but from what he wrote scared me I hope he doesn't mean sex?!! I want something serious oh n he is younger than me like two years ... So yea lol
And can any tell me how a sag with Venus in Scorpio is like in relationship n with Gemini moon or Taurus moon ?

posted July 21, 2015 04:50 AM            

They are not really the type to come off very heavy.Or make commitments much.

In fact, being sexually forward, aggressive or provocative,can scare them off.

Their playfulness is what makes them most attractive to others(especially when Moon/Venus in Sag is here).They just seem like "no hassles", "all is good" guys.

Mostly,people with Gemini/Aquarius strong attract them. Or are attracted to them.

They don't lose their sizzle with the rest. But there are bound to be some very real problems with the more "heavy-going" types i,e those who demand more commitments and set dates etc.

Generally I am going on Sun sign alone here,but Libra/Sag is better as a friendship that "falls" into a relationship.

In fact, with Sag males especially- every relationship should "fall" from friendship. Otherwise they really will feel intimidated by it.

Sag doesn't like things to be clear from the start. Rather the type to leave things "open-ended" and see where it goes- that is their attitude.

And if this guy uses sentences like "I'll be there around 5ish" , "We'll talk soonest", "let's play it by ear" etc.

Than you are not only dealing with a typical MALE. But likely a typical Sag Male too

Start with friendship. And have fun. Sag Males like to smile and have people who smile around them.

posted July 21, 2015 07:34 AM            

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[+ object] — used to say that someone (such as a guest or a worker) is at your home or is coming to your home
We're having guests this weekend.

I'd love to come for a visit, if you'll have me. [=if you would welcome me as a guest]

We're going to have a plumber in to look at the furnace.

She has guests to/for dinner several times a week.

I had my friends back to my place for drinks after the movie.

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posted July 21, 2015 12:13 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Sag Sun Males usually goof around a lot. So I really wouldn't take anything that is said by them seriously.

They are not really the type to come off very heavy.Or make commitments much.

In fact, being sexually forward, aggressive or provocative,can scare them off.

Their playfulness is what makes them most attractive to others(especially when Moon/Venus in Sag is here).They just seem like "no hassles", "all is good" guys.
Mostly,people with Gemini/Aquarius strong attract them. Or are attracted to them.
They don't lose their sizzle with the rest. But there are bound to be some very real problems with the more "heavy-going" types i,e those who demand more commitments and set dates etc.

Generally I am going on Sun sign alone here,but Libra/Sag is better as a friendship that "falls" into a relationship.

In fact, with Sag males especially- every relationship should "fall" from friendship. Otherwise they really will feel intimidated by it.

Sag doesn't like things to be clear from the start. Rather the type to leave things "open-ended" and see where it goes- that is their attitude.

And if this guy uses sentences like "I'll be there around 5ish" , "We'll talk soonest", "let's play it by ear" etc.

Than you are not only dealing with a typical MALE. But likely a typical Sag Male too

Start with friendship. And have fun. Sag Males like to smile and have people who smile around them.

I'll only analyze the Moon and other positions once you have got to know him better.

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posted July 21, 2015 12:14 PM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
"If you'll have me" is a figure of speech in English, and not normally meant to be taken literally. I'm mentioning this in case you didn't know - assuming you're Italian
http://www.learnersdictionary.com/definition/have

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[+ object] — used to say that someone (such as a guest or a worker) is at your home or is coming to your home
We're having guests this weekend.

[b]I'd love to come for a visit, if you'll have me. [=if you would welcome me as a guest]

We're going to have a plumber in to look at the furnace.

She has guests to/for dinner several times a week.

I had my friends back to my place for drinks after the movie.

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