posted July 22, 2015 09:28 PM            

I'm 19 as well

People who have Saturn in the 5th house take relationships of all kinds very seriously. When it comes to romantic ones, they like taking their time... I wouldn't say they're picky people, but they DO know their worth and will wait for the right one. So you're not the type of person to just throw yourself out there-- you want to make sure you are getting the real deal. Also, Saturn has pretty slow energy so don't feel bad that you haven't entered a relationship yet.

posted July 22, 2015 09:55 PM            

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Originally posted by goddessofthemoon:
Welcome

I'm 19 as well

People who have Saturn in the 5th house take relationships of all kinds very seriously. When it comes to romantic ones, they like taking their time... I wouldn't say they're picky people, but they DO know their worth and will wait for the right one. So you're not the type of person to just throw yourself out there-- you want to make sure you are getting the real deal. Also, Saturn has pretty slow energy so don't feel bad that you haven't entered a relationship yet.

Where's your 7th house located?

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Thank you!

posted July 22, 2015 10:25 PM            

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Originally posted by bluesiren:
Thank you!

Hmmm yes people always tell me that I have very high standards and that I should lower them ... However, I think they are pretty realistic and if I'd lower them I would never be happy.
7th house is Aries/Taurus

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You sound like my mom who has 5th house Saturn, too. She has really high standards. Like there was this one guy that wanted to date her but she rejected him because he was bad at spelling words -_-

If your standards are realistic enough for you, then don't lower them just because other people tell you to.

If your 7th house is in Aries, that must mean you're a Libra rising. That must be very frustrating to a Libra not being able to experience relating one-on-one with another person.

I think it's important to make a clear distinction between the 5th house and the 7th house. The 5th house rules romance, while the 7th house rules the actual relationship.

posted July 22, 2015 10:44 PM            

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Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:
You sound like my mom who has 5th house Saturn, too. She has really high standards. Like there was this one guy that wanted to date her but she rejected him because he was bad at spelling words -_-

If your standards are realistic enough for you, then don't lower them just because other people tell you to.

If your 7th house is in Aries, that must mean you're a Libra rising. That must be very frustrating to a Libra not being able to experience relating one-on-one with another person.

I think it's important to make a clear distinction between the 5th house and the 7th house. The 5th house rules romance, while the 7th house rules the actual relationship.

It may take a while for you to find romance, which is the initial stage of getting into a relationship, because Saturn will delay that. If you don't find romance, you won't be able to get into a relationship. However, when you do get into a relationship, it might be a long term and serious one. I would look into the 7th house, it's ruler, and any planets there as well.

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Lmao that is hilarious! No, I am not that extreme
Yup, I'm a libra rising and sometimes it's super frustrating. When I was around 16-17 where everyone had a boyfriend it was really bad then I got over it and now I am just very pessimistic about it

posted July 23, 2015 05:44 PM            

I'm 20, and I had the exact same issues, fun, friends etc, but rubbish at talking to girls and people. I had a relationship when I was 12 which lasted a while, that was it.

Since Saturn entered my 1st in October 2012; I have felt the growth occur becoming a better person and less inhibited. My last relationship was in July 2014 for 3 months.

posted July 23, 2015 06:42 PM            

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Originally posted by Choc:
I've got a Libra rising with Mars in the 10th, squared by Pluto, plus Sat in the 5th, I'm 30 and I've never had a proper relationship.
I've asked ppl to give me a bit of hope about my romantic future, a horary chart reading, an intuitive reading, things like that and guess... it ain't gonna happen till i'm 40 [that's astrology for you *RME*].
I'm gonna be the devil's advocate here and let me tell you, f*** serious relationships. don't be so serious about things, yet. Find some cute brainless jock and scr** his brains out.
At your age, I was like this, but now, all I can think of is how stupid I was for passing by opportunities. Not fantastic opportunities, but decent guys that could have provided me with a good time.
Wait for what? The effing white knight? The perfect father of your future children? Noone's worth it.

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Oh wow that sounds bad! I get what you mean but the next problem is that I can't even find a guy that is cute (or that I think is cute) and brainless guys make me want to vomit All I want is a guy I can have fun and travel with and have adventours with. Oh and he should definitely be good looking!! Is that too much to ask for?

posted July 23, 2015 06:45 PM            

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Originally posted by Sven555:
I have Saturn in Pisces and in 4th house, but it's sitting on the 5th house cusp, so it's 5th

I'm 20, and I had the exact same issues, fun, friends etc, but rubbish at talking to girls and people. I had a relationship when I was 12 which lasted a while, that was it.

Since Saturn entered my 1st in October 2012; I have felt the growth occur becoming a better person and less inhibited. My last relationship was in July 2014 for 3 months.

Saturn doesn't necessarily mean delays, it shows what you fear. So you might fear losing yourself or the other person cheating or even children or expression. You are just as capabable as anyone else at doing these, it's just Saturn will remind you of things if you are doing it wrong etc. But honestly don't let Saturn get in the way, please!

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That makes me feel better, thank you!

posted July 24, 2015 02:44 AM            

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Originally posted by bluesiren:

That makes me feel better, thank you!

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No problem, if you would like more answers; feel free to post your chart in the 'Personal Readings' section of the forums and i'll take a look at it ASAP!

posted July 24, 2015 04:27 AM            

I didn't have my first real relationship until I was 19. It lasted almost 5 years and was honestly terrible.. well, not all of it was terrible. Just the last 3 years lol. I really think it was because I lowered my standards and dated somebody that I never would have dreamed seeing myself with and was miserable because of it after a while. Don't settle! And don't force yourself into a long-term relationship just because you think it's time.

I've never been good at flings. It's not that the thought of "just sex" turns me off or anything, but it seems like I just can't put my whole self into something if I don't feel like it's meaningful.