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fenia
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posted July 22, 2015 10:25 PM
  
There must be something wrong with me. All the guys I've been attracted to they need me to nurture them, tace care of them. So, my current boyfriend is not an exception. I realise it's something I care about and i need to do, so i am drawn towards them. Funny thing is I don't even want to be a mother lol
In general what are those aspects that indicate it's essential for a guy to receive nurturing and comfort from his partner? ------------------
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Seimei
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posted July 22, 2015 10:40 PM
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goddessofthemoon
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posted July 22, 2015 10:43 PM
Chiron-Venus aspects could play a big part.IP: Logged |
fenia
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posted July 22, 2015 11:11 PM
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i've read about ceres but i don't feel comfortable about asteroids.. too many, too small, too complicated.. IP: Logged |
ReadingTheStars95
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posted July 23, 2015 12:25 AM
Maybe also Chiron-Moon..Remember, the Moon/Cancer/4th house deals with the home, but it also deals with hospitality and nurturing to a certain degree. So.. Any heavy 4th/Moon/Cancer placement I guess.. Maybe Venus in Cancer/4th house or Venus-Moon aspects..? Also may want to look at the 4th house ruler, or the ruler of your Moon-Sign. I just see you kinda mentioned your placements in the original post.. Do you have Venus squaring your Moon? (Or maybe a loose trine?)
I could also see a Moon-Pluto aspect indicating this.. Depending on the rest of the chart.
Also.. Maybe Venus-Neptune. Could show that the person takes on relationships in which they desire to help the other person to a better state of being. IP: Logged |
the7thsphere
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posted July 23, 2015 01:06 AM
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In general what are those aspects that indicate it's essential for a guy to receive nurturing and comfort from his partner?
 Ummm... that doesn't sound like a specific astrological aspect to me; that sounds like just being human. Do you not need nurturing and comfort from your partner? What do you get out of a relationship?  IP: Logged |
fenia
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posted July 23, 2015 10:37 AM
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Originally posted by ReadingTheStars95:
Maybe also Chiron-Moon..Remember, the Moon/Cancer/4th house deals with the home, but it also deals with hospitality and nurturing to a certain degree. So.. Any heavy 4th/Moon/Cancer placement I guess.. Maybe Venus in Cancer/4th house or Venus-Moon aspects..? Also may want to look at the 4th house ruler, or the ruler of your Moon-Sign. I just see you kinda mentioned your placements in the original post.. Do you have Venus squaring your Moon? (Or maybe a loose trine?)
I could also see a Moon-Pluto aspect indicating this.. Depending on the rest of the chart.
Also.. Maybe Venus-Neptune. Could show that the person takes on relationships in which they desire to help the other person to a better state of being.
omg i have an exact moon square venus.. is that it?
my ex and my current boyfriend have an exact moon square neptune in their natal.. ps: I just realised my natal Chiron conjunct IC axis... otherwise my 4th house is empty. Also both 4th house ruler and the ruler of my Moon-Sign is Mercury which sextiles my moon in 7th house... I think my question is answered..thank u 
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fenia
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posted July 23, 2015 11:01 AM
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Originally posted by the7thsphere:
Ummm... that doesn't sound like a specific astrological aspect to me; that sounds like [b]just being human. Do you not need nurturing and comfort from your partner? What do you get out of a relationship? [/B]
No, i 'm talking about extreme situations. Usually people need a certain amound of affection but it seems to me i'm atrracted and I attract men with extreme needs of affection. My boyfriend (he has a capricorn sun,mercury,mars,uranus,neptune) that we are together for only 2 months, told me that he sees me like his mother and he can't sleep if we won't cuddle. I love to nurture and i'm a big cuddler, but I realised i am having relationships with guys who act like babies. Lol, it's not that healthy, balanced relationship .. funny thing is I first saw him as this sexy, hot guy and he sees me as mommy..I CAN'T EVEN.. haha, (it's still ok though, we have great sex life so far.)
With my last boyfriend, when we started he was a mature responsible serious guy that i turned him into a spoiled kid. He changed completely after we lived 2 years under the same roof.I hate to see this happening again.
I must do something wrong.
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ReadingTheStars95
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posted July 23, 2015 03:31 PM
I was also going to say, possibly Moon-Mars...? Do you have those trine?IP: Logged |
PixieJane
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posted July 23, 2015 07:41 PM
Hot boy needs a mommy:
http://youtu.be/R4Sw8Gm8Y3E?t=1m4s Intended only as comic relief.
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DopGang
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posted July 23, 2015 07:52 PM
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Originally posted by the7thsphere:
Ummm... that doesn't sound like a specific astrological aspect to me; that sounds like [b]just being human. Do you not need nurturing and comfort from your partner? What do you get out of a relationship? [/B]
To me they can almost be contractual. LOL Virgo Venus?
Sure, I love to be nurtured or do some nurturing. I'm not dead. But it's almost like, "Hey, we love each other. We both want to go in this direction in life. I'll do my part, you do your part and lets go to work!" When I think of nurturing, I think of water. Specifically, Cancer/Pisces. But that's just what comes to mind. I couldn't tell you about what aspects may do it, exactly. IP: Logged |
the7thsphere
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posted July 23, 2015 11:01 PM
Oh, fenia. You poor thing. You thought it would work with a Capricorn? I don't know about you, but Earth signs are the bane of my existence. It always comes down to this: they care more about the material world, and we care more about the non-physical.Not that any of that is the problem as you described it (though it almost surely affects the underlying roots of the problem). It's strange, you know, I have heard a LOT of stories about Cappies having severe psychological issues. I think it's their total denial of the spirit, their absolute refusal to place any importance on the non-physical, that produces those issues. None of us can deny the existence of the physical; it's always in our face. It's there when our bellies rumble from hunger, it's there when we need to pay our rent in December, it's there when we stub our toe or have sex. But it's easy for Earth signs to deny the existence of the immaterial. How can someone deny half of reality and stay sane, eh? It may sound superficial or oversimplified, but stick to the other three elements and I think you'll have a better experience. Earth and Air are just too much opposites. Libra: Here, I wrote you a poem! (doesn't mention what an all-night, soul-searching experience the writing of it was)
Capricorn: (reads it at scanning speed, drops the hand holding the paper to his side) It's beautiful. Did you take the trash out? IP: Logged |
Seimei
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posted July 23, 2015 11:46 PM
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confusedaseff
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posted July 24, 2015 07:23 AM
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Originally posted by fenia:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by the7thsphere:
[b] Ummm... that doesn't sound like a specific astrological aspect to me; that sounds like [b]just being human. Do you not need nurturing and comfort from your partner? What do you get out of a relationship? [/B]
No, i 'm talking about extreme situations. Usually people need a certain amound of affection but it seems to me i'm atrracted and I attract men with extreme needs of affection. My boyfriend (he has a capricorn sun,mercury,mars,uranus,neptune) that we are together for only 2 months, told me that he sees me like his mother and he can't sleep if we won't cuddle. I love to nurture and i'm a big cuddler, but I realised i am having relationships with guys who act like babies. Lol, it's not that healthy, balanced relationship .. funny thing is I first saw him as this sexy, hot guy and he sees me as mommy..I CAN'T EVEN.. haha, (it's still ok though, we have great sex life so far.)
With my last boyfriend, when we started he was a mature responsible serious guy that i turned him into a spoiled kid. He changed completely after we lived 2 years under the same roof.I hate to see this happening again.
I must do something wrong.
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funny cause i have cap sun, moon, mercury, uranus, and neptune and i'm always taking care of others. including my ex. he had gem sun, taurus moon and venus, mars in in leo, mercury in cancer i was mum basically IP: Logged | |
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