posted July 28, 2015 03:33 AM            

Here is the description I relate to most:
"You have an enormous potential to express the collective unconscious, yet there may be confusion about who you are. You act as a mirror for the self-image of others. Your initiatory path is through relationship, as this is how you find yourself. You have a potent effect on others, and as you become aware of your effect on others, you will be able to release your gift. The key to your path is the realization that others reflect and respond to the way you see yourself. You may experience serious relationship dilemmas in your life, this is where your work, your challenge and your learning are happening. Union is the goal for seventh house, and it comes through the realization that "I am you and you are me". There is a paradox in your purpose, as balance between self and other must be achieved to complete your Chironic healing and give your gift."

"You act as mirror for the self-image of others" -- pretty much sums it up. I've noticed this energy play out in my life when I'm at a social gathering and I just "know" I'm going to be introduced to a particular person, so I begin inconspicuously analyzing their behavior from afar, gathering what I can so as to make a good first impression (if they deserve it). The 7th House Chiron energy manifests in the first few seconds within meeting the person: if they're a terrible person my presence will hit them like a bucket of cold water (their faces say it all), but if they're a good person they'll be rewarded with a boost to their self-esteem. In essence, the mere act of interacting with me can introduce people to the darkest corners of themselves, or on the other hand my presence will reflect and attest to their good quality of character.

posted July 28, 2015 07:44 AM            

I love your example; sounds like a great kind of power to encounter. Will be glad to learn another chart with this placement personally. My "soulmate" has a busy chart...bit harder to notice his 7H Chiron....

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Originally posted by Free Leon:
I have Chiron in Libra in the 7th House conjunct North Node (1 degree orb).

Here is the description I relate to most:
"You have an enormous potential to express the collective unconscious, yet there may be confusion about who you are. You act as a mirror for the self-image of others. Your initiatory path is through relationship, as this is how you find yourself. You have a potent effect on others, and as you become aware of your effect on others, you will be able to release your gift. The key to your path is the realization that others reflect and respond to the way you see yourself. You may experience serious relationship dilemmas in your life, this is where your work, your challenge and your learning are happening. Union is the goal for seventh house, and it comes through the realization that "I am you and you are me". There is a paradox in your purpose, as balance between self and other must be achieved to complete your Chironic healing and give your gift."

"You act as mirror for the self-image of others" -- pretty much sums it up. I've noticed this energy play out in my life when I'm at a social gathering and I just "know" I'm going to be introduced to a particular person, so I begin inconspicuously analyzing their behavior from afar, gathering what I can so as to make a good first impression (if they deserve it). The 7th House Chiron energy manifests in the first few seconds within meeting the person: if they're a terrible person my presence will hit them like a bucket of cold water (their faces say it all), but if they're a good person they'll be rewarded with a boost to their self-esteem. In essence, the mere act of interacting with me can introduce people to the darkest corners of themselves, or on the other hand my presence will reflect and attest to their good quality of character.

Chiron in the 7th House also gives me the ability to saturate a social environment with my feelings. If I'm feeling great, so will others, but if I'm feeling bored, shy, annoyed, then others will attune themselves accordingly (to varying extents). It really has the potential to exacerbate situations if I'm not careful...
Fortunately, the aforementioned "gift" that Chiron in the 7th bestows is the ability to harmonize "incompatible" energy, or neutralize positive and negative energies, in human relationships. For instance, a couple years ago I was at a party when one of my peers (wouldn't consider him a close friend) noticed this "crew" he had beef with had shown up. I knew the "crew" of guys and we were on good terms, but I knew they would not hesitate to get hostile with my peer. I sensed that the situation would have escalated at some point during the evening, if not right then and there, so without thinking I motioned to my peer to follow me over to them. We conversed for a good ten minutes or so and I helped them clarify and settle their differences in a harmonious, peaceful manner. I have a few other similar stories, but basically I know how to effectively mediate energy between two people or groups, or at the very least serve as referee (whether its a verbal argument or physical altercation) and keep it fair.

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posted July 28, 2015 10:26 AM            

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Originally posted by Free Leon:
"You have an enormous potential to express the collective unconscious, yet there may be confusion about who you are. You act as a mirror for the self-image of others. Your initiatory path is through relationship, as this is how you find yourself. You have a potent effect on others, and as you become aware of your effect on others, you will be able to release your gift. The key to your path is the realization that others reflect and respond to the way you see yourself. You may experience serious relationship dilemmas in your life, this is where your work, your challenge and your learning are happening. Union is the goal for seventh house, and it comes through the realization that "I am you and you are me". There is a paradox in your purpose, as balance between self and other must be achieved to complete your Chironic healing and give your gift."

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This part resonates with me too. My Chiron is in the 7th and in Gemini.

Sometimes I feel some people are really in anticipation, waiting for me to say something to them, as if I will save their day... I get a lot of "Thanks for your words, they really helped me" or "What you said made me really think".

Sometimes goes the other way too and I can really hurt people with my words. It's no good.

The funny thing is, when I was a younger I felt no one cared what I had to say. I felt like everyone overlooked me completely, especially my opinions and what I had to say. I still think this to some extent, but nowadays, more people seem to look up to me and what I say...

posted July 28, 2015 05:54 PM            

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Originally posted by MillyX:
I have this. I seem to act as a healer in relationships...

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This.

posted July 30, 2015 10:46 PM            

@FreeLeon: A lot of what you said resonates with me, including "saving" your friend.

I can't tell you how many times I've inadvertently directed the energy of a room. Because I can literally be the life and death of a party, I've not gone to social events because I knew that my poor mood would affect the atmosphere. I trumped it up to my first house stellium, but maybe it's indeed Chiron.

Also, I imagine Chiron is responsible for my never having a romantic relationship in my 26 years of life.

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Originally posted by Gabby:
Then they freak out on me, hate me, break up with me, are angry at me for some imagined slight I didn't do

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