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Topic: I hate having Venus in Scorpio
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FridayThe13th
Newflake Posts: 16
From: Singapore
Registered: Jul 2015
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posted August 11, 2015 10:52 AM
  
I hate having Venus in scorpio, I hate falling in love. I'm hopelessly pursuing her, sacrificing everything I have. Getting moody, getting angry, getting nervous, getting worried if she has another lover chasing her as well. I feel dizzy, fatigue and hopelessly lost, but then again I WILL get her.
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Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 64150
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted August 11, 2015 10:55 AM
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PaulMcFly
Knowflake Posts: 50
From: Olive branch, MS USA
Registered: Aug 2015
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posted August 11, 2015 10:57 AM
Treat it like a aquarius brohan..Just calm down 
I wish I could show love more intensely and emotionally but my venus is in cap lol IP: Logged |
FridayThe13th
Newflake Posts: 16
From: Singapore
Registered: Jul 2015
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posted August 11, 2015 11:01 AM
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Originally posted by PaulMcFly:
Treat it like a aquarius brohan..Just calm down
I wish I could show love more intensely and emotionally but my venus is in cap lol
I feel embarrassed for ranting out here, I literally stalked her all the way. IP: Logged |
Julz87
Knowflake Posts: 1171
From: Over the Rainbow
Registered: Nov 2011
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posted August 11, 2015 11:01 AM
Does your Venus conjunct her Pluto?My Venus is in Libra and conjuncted a guys Pluto in Libra, I said the same thing you said "I WILL get him" its pretty obsessive imo. Edit: And I'm STILL trying to shake it off it sucks. IP: Logged |
FridayThe13th
Newflake Posts: 16
From: Singapore
Registered: Jul 2015
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posted August 11, 2015 11:10 AM
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Originally posted by Julz87:
Does your Venus conjunct her Pluto?My Venus is in Libra and conjuncted a guys Pluto in Libra, I said the same thing you said "I WILL get him" its pretty obsessive imo. Edit: And I'm STILL trying to shake it off it sucks.
My chart.. 
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FridayThe13th
Newflake Posts: 16
From: Singapore
Registered: Jul 2015
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posted August 11, 2015 11:15 AM
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Originally posted by Julz87:
Does your Venus conjunct her Pluto?My Venus is in Libra and conjuncted a guys Pluto in Libra, I said the same thing you said "I WILL get him" its pretty obsessive imo. Edit: And I'm STILL trying to shake it off it sucks.
I'm doing everything I can to make sure she gets cornered alone, without her friends. The perfect timing to pursue a conversation with her. IP: Logged |
Isa
Knowflake Posts: 94
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Registered: Feb 2011
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posted August 11, 2015 11:19 AM
My venus is in Scorpio in the 8th house conjunct pluto. I know that feeling.
Once you get to know your venus, you'll stop hating it and you'll know how to control the negativity. IP: Logged |
Isa
Knowflake Posts: 94
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Registered: Feb 2011
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posted August 11, 2015 11:20 AM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
I have an article on this and I understand
Hey Ami!
Could you post that article? IP: Logged |
FridayThe13th
Newflake Posts: 16
From: Singapore
Registered: Jul 2015
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posted August 11, 2015 11:29 AM
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Originally posted by Isa:
My venus is in Scorpio in the 8th house conjunct pluto. I know that feeling.
Once you get to know your venus, you'll stop hating it and you'll know how to control the negativity.
Well, I could care less about myself now. My sight is set on her. I'm stalking her left to right for her information, I gathered only her name and her possible instagram account. Whatever it takes, I will dive deep into her. I've already observed her behavioral patterns, she has a neutral aura. Every single INCH of information is crucial. I will dig.
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wheresthemoon
Knowflake Posts: 611
From: Texas
Registered: Aug 2014
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posted August 11, 2015 11:40 AM
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Originally posted by FridayThe13th:
Well, I could care less about myself now. My sight is set on her. I'm stalking her left to right for her information, I gathered only her name and her possible instagram account. Whatever it takes, I will dive deep into her. I've already observed her behavioral patterns, she has a neutral aura. Every single INCH of information is crucial. I will dig.
You need to be careful and respectful or you will freak her out. IP: Logged |
FridayThe13th
Newflake Posts: 16
From: Singapore
Registered: Jul 2015
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posted August 11, 2015 11:43 AM
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Originally posted by wheresthemoon:
You need to be careful and respectful or you will freak her out.
I will approach her calmly. Even if she freaks out, I will find a way to get her back. It's an end road situation, I will pursue. IP: Logged |
PaulMcFly
Knowflake Posts: 50
From: Olive branch, MS USA
Registered: Aug 2015
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posted August 11, 2015 11:49 AM
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Originally posted by FridayThe13th:
I will approach her calmly. Even if she freaks out, I will find a way to get her back. It's an end road situation, I will pursue.
LOL ur venus is def in scorp!! POWER 2 YA BRO HAHA
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CosmiqPhuz
Knowflake Posts: 326
From: Lititz, PA, USA
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted August 11, 2015 11:52 AM
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Originally posted by FridayThe13th:
I will approach her calmly. Even if she freaks out, I will find a way to get her back. It's an end road situation, I will pursue.
Even though I want to tell you to chill out, I completely understand and rooting for you. IP: Logged |
FridayThe13th
Newflake Posts: 16
From: Singapore
Registered: Jul 2015
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posted August 11, 2015 11:55 AM
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Originally posted by PaulMcFly:
LOL ur venus is def in scorp!! POWER 2 YA BRO HAHA
Thank you very much. I will not give up.
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FridayThe13th
Newflake Posts: 16
From: Singapore
Registered: Jul 2015
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posted August 11, 2015 11:57 AM
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Originally posted by CosmiqPhuz:
Even though I want to tell you to chill out, I completely understand and rooting for you.
I've decided to create a scene to get he, in the right place, right time. I'll let it lead.
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PixieJane
Moderator Posts: 6868
From: CA
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted August 11, 2015 12:46 PM
Am I understanding you correctly that that you are so in love with someone that you are this obsessed and even potentially self-destructive yet you knew very little about her other than her name? 
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DopGang
Knowflake Posts: 702
From: <--------- over there.
Registered: Jun 2015
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posted August 11, 2015 12:50 PM
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Originally posted by PixieJane:
Am I understanding you correctly that that you are so [b]in love with someone that you are this obsessed and even potentially self-destructive yet you knew very little about her other than her name? [/B]
Sounds a bit dramatic.
OR
Neptune is also involved. I've not seen Scorpio behave this way. Though we all believe that they do. With exes and such, sure.
But the dreamy, "lost in you though I don't know you" sounds like Neptune being a bugger. IP: Logged |
Julz87
Knowflake Posts: 1171
From: Over the Rainbow
Registered: Nov 2011
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posted August 11, 2015 01:15 PM
Maybe there something in her chart making you act this way, also look at your 8th its loaded >_<I figured it was your Venus aspecting her Pluto- because having that aspect with someone did bring out the hunter/pursuer tendencies in me, totally surprised me being the shy passive 12t houser that I am. Well at this rate, good luck, I hope you get what you are looking for. IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees
Knowflake Posts: 2369
From: South Africa
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted August 11, 2015 04:10 PM
I don't think its your Venus acting this way. But more the combo of the Sun and Venus in Scorpio.Sun/Venus most times makes the native concerned with relationships and giving/receiving pleasure. When in Scorpio, it makes the focus of the energy very serious,life/death urgency and maybe even obsessive. Add to that, your Sun/Venus combo are in the 8th house of Scorpio. The Sun in 8th often describes a personality that may have to go through a lot of psychological developments(and not always pleasant), to get to know who they truly are. Now with Venus involved, these discoveries may come through a relationship/intimate connection. Venus in 8th suggests a loss of love or love that is secret, difficult to attain or simply unrequited. But all is not lost and you may not completely lose your mind. You have the presence of Virgo Moon/Mars . And this ensures that much mental energy is used to truly gain perspective i,e; "what am I doing here waiting for someone in the bushes? Have I completely lost it? etc" When things get out of hand. But at times,that Aries Asc can have you rushing into things and feeling very passionate at the beginning. Most times however,its just lust. Or the feeling of "conquering" something new  With Mars/Pluto ruling the Asc and Sun respectively. And both being such sexual signs.You may have to learn to differentiate between love and sexual attraction. The former always feels easy,abundant and natural. Whilst the latter has a strong sense of scarcity and even urgency.
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Isa
Knowflake Posts: 94
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Registered: Feb 2011
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posted August 11, 2015 04:40 PM
This is hilarious because of his username here.  IP: Logged |
StillTippin
Knowflake Posts: 79
From: Houston, Tx
Registered: Jun 2015
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posted August 11, 2015 06:51 PM
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Originally posted by Isa:
My venus is in Scorpio in the 8th house conjunct pluto. I know that feeling.
Once you get to know your venus, you'll stop hating it and you'll know how to control the negativity.
Perfect statement. That's very true as I also have Venus in Scorpio conjunct Pluto. The more we pursuit and object, the more intense we feel. Its almost as if this Venus takes being aroused serious. But you've got to learn to relax and allow things to happen. Let go of your attraction to her so you can see why you're really attracted to her. Talk to her in front of her friends, or talk to her friends in front of her its so many ways to go about breaking the ice, but your focus is minimized to getting her that you can forget how yo actually get her. And that's the thing with this placement, we can go so damn far one way with love only to wake up and see there was better ways and brighter forms. Our Venus, takes love serious. That causes us some wounds, deep wounds that change us into manipulators or lovers. Pain teaches us how to love as pain is the outdated fading away. Took me a while, but I came to terms with the real way this Venus works. IP: Logged |
NYCdodger
Knowflake Posts: 911
From:
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 11, 2015 06:55 PM
Be careful though man. You don't want to be so caught up in your own desires that you begin assuming that she wants the same. Because once that happens even if she DOES want you she'll begin to start resisting you. I'm just speaking from experience. Good luck thoughIP: Logged |
AlexandraWood
Knowflake Posts: 61
From: Venus
Registered: Aug 2015
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posted August 11, 2015 07:14 PM
Wow, this sounds INTENSE. I am rooting for you, I also understand the stalker tendencies (Scorpio Moon). It's quite tiring when thinking about a girl is basically your second job :/IP: Logged |
Sulkyarcher
Knowflake Posts: 122
From: Lincoln, Nebraska, USA
Registered: Dec 2013
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posted August 11, 2015 07:16 PM
I get what you mean, I'm a Scorpio Venus myself! I can be too intense. IP: Logged |
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