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Topic: Why do the thought of a guy eating turn me on?
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Dreaminess
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posted August 13, 2015 06:41 PM
  
When i`ve been attracted to men in the past i would always imagine them eating and enjoying their food and it kinda turned me on. Lol i know it sounds weird but i dont know why the thought of a guy i am attracted to eating turns me on. Normal folks have like romantic sexual fantasies about the ones their attracted to while i am having fantasies about them eating lol. Its like i am a proud momma watching her kids eating up all their food, i mean come on what is up with me lol? What in a chart do you think makes someone be turned on or satisfied with the thought of that when their attracted to someone? IP: Logged |
stillatlarge
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posted August 13, 2015 06:48 PM
Weellll, it's been said that the way a man eats says a lot about how he does something else. LOL. Maybe it's that simple. I don't know, probably some Taurus in there somewhere. I get turned on by some odd stuff too.IP: Logged |
DopGang
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posted August 13, 2015 06:49 PM
 Cancer moon! What's your mars? IP: Logged |
Dreaminess
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From: norway
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posted August 13, 2015 06:56 PM
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Originally posted by DopGang:
Cancer moon! What's your mars?
Haha. So you think it comes from my cancer moon, why? I have a Libra mars. IP: Logged |
DopGang
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posted August 13, 2015 06:58 PM
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Originally posted by Dreaminess:
Haha. So you think it comes from my cancer moon, why? I have a Libra mars.
Personal experience with cancer placements. LOL
But it never turned them on that I'm aware of.
So it's just a guess - first thing that popped into my head. IP: Logged |
ReadingTheStars95
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posted August 13, 2015 07:04 PM
O was kinda thinking about Cancer too..Where is your Eros? Does it happen to be in Taurus or Cancer? It's asteroid number 433, if I am correct. IP: Logged |
Vixen
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posted August 13, 2015 07:10 PM
Hmm, that's interesting :P Where is your Ceres? IP: Logged |
Dreaminess
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posted August 13, 2015 07:23 PM
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Originally posted by ReadingTheStars95:
O was kinda thinking about Cancer too..Where is your Eros? Does it happen to be in Taurus or Cancer? It's asteroid number 433, if I am correct.
Haha i have my eros in sag and that might explain some of it bc aren`t sags really into pleasures like drinking, food etc? IP: Logged |
Dreaminess
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posted August 13, 2015 07:25 PM
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Originally posted by Vixen:
Hmm, that's interesting :P Where is your Ceres?
Its in Scorpio. IP: Logged |
ReadingTheStars95
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posted August 13, 2015 07:40 PM
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Originally posted by Dreaminess:
Haha i have my eros in sag and that might explain some of it bc aren`t sags really into pleasures like drinking, food etc?
Yep, definitely. (Coming from someone with Moon conjunct Jupiter in Sagittarius.. xD xD xD..) Had a friend who's a Sagittarius.. We're both vegan.. And, when we didn't know what else to talk about we'd always end up talking about food. Lol.. Or we'd start talking about all kinds of exotic fruit that don't grow in the US.. And all kinds of fruits we would want to try from different areas of the world.. LMAO (there is that Sagittarian desire for travel and exploration..) See.. The thing about Sagittarius, is I believe it is like this.. They are the sign in the zodiac that understands impermanence, therefore enjoys things as much as they can while they have it/experience it.. And, also doesn't get extremely upset over minor things for the same reason. They realize that the situation is impermanent.. In fact, they may even take enjoyment in a slight shift of plans, even if it wasn't the original plan.. 'Nothing lasts forever, so.. Let's laugh.. Let's play. Let's enjoy things while we have them.' 'Well.. It snowed. Yeah, the roads aren't the most fun to drive on right now.. But.. It's kind of pretty, and it isn't like it is going to be like this forever' That's why Sagittarius can be seen as so optimistic.. Because, they see the impermanence.
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DopGang
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posted August 13, 2015 07:46 PM
So Eros is what turns US on?
Hmmmm.
Mine is Cancer.
Gotta think about that one. LOL IP: Logged |
Dreaminess
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From: norway
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posted August 13, 2015 07:58 PM
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Originally posted by DopGang:
So Eros is what turns US on?
Hmmmm.
Mine is Cancer.
Gotta think about that one. LOL
"Eros in Cancer. ( in )There is a need to infuse emotional care and nurture into the sex act. When the self-image is low, these lovers may use others as sexual objects, probably as a result of their fear of rejection. The breasts are a big turn-on, and many are orally fixated, and some may be attracted to a domination theme. When the self-image is stronger, intimacy and warmth are powerful stimulants. Eros in Cancer lovers seek to achieve psychic and emotional renewal through sex. They can be very intuitive bed partners. Sexual possessiveness is often an issue. Sometimes, these lovers want their partner to be relatively chaste, but they don't have the same standards for themselves. These lovers often fall in love with their sexual partners." Does anything ring a bell for you?  haha. IP: Logged |
DopGang
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posted August 13, 2015 08:04 PM
This takes some reflection I think. Initially, yes. However, if each trait were rated on a scale of 1-10 they'd vary quite a bit.
The big picture made much more sense. If you just look at the sum of the parts. IP: Logged |
ReadingTheStars95
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posted August 13, 2015 08:09 PM
Actually, from my experience, Eros goes much deeper than just what 'turns us on' and simply Sex in and of itself..But... It isn't something that is easy to explain. Eros, to me, is that part of ourselves that wants to be shared in the most vulnerable and purest ways.. The part of ourselves someone only sees when we let go of all of our restraint and defenses. And, then, how we express that part of ourselves to another. This is generally seen in our approach to sexuality of course.. But.. I don't think it's quite that simple. Eros is kind of one of those asteroids you really have to spend time researching.. Not only on a general level, but also in charts. Eros isn't sex with just anyone.. It's sex in which we completely lay ourselves bare, emotionally, spiritually, and physically. Not the type of 'one-night stand' kind of energy. Lol IP: Logged |
DopGang
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posted August 13, 2015 08:13 PM
^^
Maybe that's what confused me. 
It seemed true but not all of it pertaining to sex. IP: Logged |
ReadingTheStars95
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posted August 13, 2015 08:21 PM
Ima try and think of how to explain Eros a bit better.. It IS sexual.. But, not in the simplest sense of the word. IP: Logged |
PixieJane
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posted August 13, 2015 09:19 PM
Fun fact, plenty incorporate food into erotic experiences, though how often it serves as a fetish and how often it serves another purpose isn't something I can guess at. (And I vaguely recall a comic where a woman has conquered the world and is musing on whether to wallow in food or sex one of her male prisoners yells at her for wanting to rule the world when she's that shallow and simplistic and she says that's a good point and orders the guards to dip him in chocolate. ) If you dare, look up vorarephilia, and if you can handle that then the name Armin Meiwes.  Though why this is so is beyond me. IP: Logged |
DopGang
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posted August 13, 2015 09:31 PM
Oh yeah I read about that guy!! Crazy story!! IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted August 13, 2015 09:35 PM
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Why do the thought of a guy eating turn me on?
It might also be because - chewing - draws attention to the jawline... and jawlines can be sexually attractive: quote:
Large, well defined jawlines were deemed to be a good indicator of reproductive health.
Certainly, a more prominent and well defined lower jaw has been pretty ubiquitous to Hollywood’s leading men over the years.
http://www.mclainsurgicalarts.com/blog/oral-maxillofacial-surgery/scientists-discover-what-makes-men-more-attractive IP: Logged |
Dreaminess
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From: norway
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posted August 13, 2015 09:52 PM
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Originally posted by Odette:
It might also be because - chewing - draws attention to the jawline... and jawlines can be sexually attractive: [QUOTE]Large, well defined jawlines were deemed to be a good indicator of reproductive health.
Certainly, a more prominent and well defined lower jaw has been pretty ubiquitous to Hollywood’s leading men over the years.
http://www.mclainsurgicalarts.com/blog/oral-maxillofacial- surgery/scientists-discover-what-makes-men-more-attractive [/QUOTE]Ææææh its so because of that. IP: Logged |
astra7
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posted August 14, 2015 09:19 AM
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Why do the thought of a guy eating turn me on?
...because you are Cancerian?
I can imagine Cancerians would find eating
sexy....it only happens with them. lolOnce I had a Cancerian partner...I think... Cancerian who would wake up middle of the night to eat...and came well prepared. lol
But I think they are either ashamed or at least try to hide it. Another ex who has strong Moon would just disappear to check on texts.....no doubt gone into the kitchen to scoff something. lol
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DopGang
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posted August 14, 2015 09:30 AM
I also have yet to come across a cancer influenced person who didn't genuinely enjoy....
Putting things in their mouths. IP: Logged |
Dreaminess
Knowflake Posts: 568
From: norway
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posted August 14, 2015 09:44 AM
Haha so true lol. When i am watching a series or movie to its almost impossible for me to watch without eating on anything:P i feel empty like something is missing when i do, lol. IP: Logged |
yungang_grotto
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posted August 14, 2015 12:39 PM
Check out asteroid Lust too?IP: Logged |
Dreaminess
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From: norway
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posted August 14, 2015 03:35 PM
I have my lust in ScorpioIP: Logged |
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