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PaulMcFly
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posted August 16, 2015 05:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PaulMcFly     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have Pluto in 1st with Scorp AC.

I've been trying to find ways to tone down my intensity but it's impossible. Recently I've noticed that when I try to start either a friendship or relationship that the person will start becoming obsessed with me or they will completely stray away from me. (ITS GETTING SO OLD)

The last thing I'm trying to do is complain. But I'm trying to find a way around this. Ive only had two relationships man...TWO. Both of them horrible and I mean HORRIBLE stalkers! One of my "friends" told me that I make him feel pathetic but in a good way? Like what? The hell does that mean? Is this normal with Pluto rising individuals?

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DopGang
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posted August 16, 2015 06:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DopGang     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yep!

I remember some dates would feel SO comfortable around me. It was bizarre!
Others would act afraid. I even had one or two who I lived with act scared when we broke up and they were moving out. I found it insulting. "Having been with me for years and now you're going to act like I could suddenly become abusive??"
Just crazy.

The number one thing though man - jealousy!! I've attracted jealous person after jealous person. Just stupid with jealousy!
Except for the last two. Whew!

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StargazerLeo
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posted August 16, 2015 06:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for StargazerLeo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes! Very clingy people! Or manipulative or creepy. I can usually avoid them though if I can pick up on those vibes (Mercury square Pluto analyzes everything).

I've been told I'm intimidating a lot so I try to smile often or I'll approach them instead (haha, that doesn't always end well because I can SEE them physically tense up). I think my Leo Sun puts them more at ease, or my self-deprecating humor relaxes them.

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Gabby
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posted August 16, 2015 06:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gabby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes, there's no balance at all! It's esp hard with a libra Pluto that wants balance! Ugh

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Kannon McAfee
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posted August 16, 2015 11:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kannon McAfee     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by PaulMcFly:
I have Pluto in 1st with Scorp AC.

Actually, you don't. I know the time of birth you have says so, but that chart is off by an entire sign. Instead, you could have Pluto [6S55] Parallel Asc in mid-Libra, or contra-parallel Asc in mid-Virgo. But you do not have Asc in Scorpio, as there was no possible Asc there for your time/location/date of birth.

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I've been trying to find ways to tone down my intensity but it's impossible. Recently I've noticed that when I try to start either a friendship or relationship that the person will start becoming obsessed with me or they will completely stray away from me. (ITS GETTING SO OLD)

The last thing I'm trying to do is complain. But I'm trying to find a way around this. Ive only had two relationships man...TWO. Both of them horrible and I mean HORRIBLE stalkers! One of my "friends" told me that I make him feel pathetic but in a good way? Like what? The hell does that mean? Is this normal with Pluto rising individuals?


The principle found at the nexus of what you have given here is that we personally put out the 'vibe' that attracts people. We are not responsible for their thoughts or actions, but are in power in our own lives to change what we put out, even subconsciously, so that an acceptable kind of person who respects our boundaries is attracted. The earlier in life we learn and enact this, the better it is.

Take it from someone who did not learn this until I was in my mid/late 30s. What I experienced was repeated unrequited love, and heartache until then. Within 3 years of changing this I met Heather, my best friend and wife of 4 years. She also had a pattern to change. She got tired of dating jerks. So she decided she would no longer date anyone who did not respect her, even if that meant she lived out her life without a partner. Right after that, I showed up.

When you make decisions about your life and mean it, the universe hears, believes you and shifts accordingly in your direction. You have tremendous power!

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Kannon McAfee
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posted August 16, 2015 11:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kannon McAfee     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
And by the way, I have Pluto in my 1st house (Asc validated to the minute of arc) and I have never attracted stalkers or obsessive people into my life.

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posted August 17, 2015 07:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Koniucha     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Kannon McAfee:
The principle found at the nexus of what you have given here is that we personally put out the 'vibe' that attracts people. We are not responsible for their thoughts or actions, but are in power in our own lives to change what we put out, even subconsciously, so that an acceptable kind of person who respects our boundaries is attracted. The earlier in life we learn and enact this, the better it is.

Take it from someone who did not learn this until I was in my mid/late 30s. What I experienced was repeated unrequited love, and heartache until then. Within 3 years of changing this I met Heather, my best friend and wife of 4 years. She also had a pattern to change. She got tired of dating jerks. So she decided she would no longer date anyone who did not respect her, even if that meant she lived out her life without a partner. Right after that, I showed up.

When you make decisions about your life and mean it, the universe hears, believes you and shifts accordingly in your direction. You have tremendous power!


Thank you. I really needed to read this. I feel like you said this to me

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PaulMcFly
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posted August 17, 2015 09:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PaulMcFly     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Kannon McAfee:
The principle found at the nexus of what you have given here is that we personally put out the 'vibe' that attracts people. We are not responsible for their thoughts or actions, but are in power in our own lives to change what we put out, even subconsciously, so that an acceptable kind of person who respects our boundaries is attracted. The earlier in life we learn and enact this, the better it is.

Take it from someone who did not learn this until I was in my mid/late 30s. What I experienced was repeated unrequited love, and heartache until then. Within 3 years of changing this I met Heather, my best friend and wife of 4 years. She also had a pattern to change. She got tired of dating jerks. So she decided she would no longer date anyone who did not respect her, even if that meant she lived out her life without a partner. Right after that, I showed up.

When you make decisions about your life and mean it, the universe hears, believes you and shifts accordingly in your direction. You have tremendous power!


Wait so Im not a scorpio rising? I'm a sag? Yo I'm confused lmao..I know Ive shown you my progressed chart are you going off that? Now I'm curious!!

My natal: http://i51.photobucket.com/albums/f390/JettXZ/Mobile%20Uploads/astro_2gw_01_paul.83647.58116_zpsnfdxmacj.gif

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Julz87
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posted August 17, 2015 01:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Julz87     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have Mercury conjunct Pluto in the first. Mercury touches my ASC wide orb. I don't attract obsessive people relationship wise, I have Jupiter in the 7th Aries conjunct DSC.

I AM the obsessive one, specially in regards to my body self, mind and stuff I find interesting-intellectual pursuits (Mercury) though I always fall/pick out the **** in a crowd, always gravitating towards Plutonian people most of which are strange both in good ways and very very bad ways. And since most of Scorpio is in my 1st I get along great with Scorpios and their intensity is just a breeze for me.

I would think that attracting obsessive jealous people would have to do with the 8th house, I have Gemini and Taurus there and those two signs are the only sings that I have attracted whom were obsessed, extremely overwhelming and possessive.

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FmVenusWLove
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posted August 17, 2015 03:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for FmVenusWLove     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have a Scorpio ASC but Pluto is in my 12H. Like most everyone else already mentioned, normally people seem to be very at ease with me and let their guard down immediately (whether I want them to or not), but on occasion people can find me very intimidating and unapproachable. I'm pretty clueless as to what I might be doing to solicit either response.

This makes me laugh now, but my Virgo ex used to get upset with me whenever I would look at him with my "scarey eyes". I was never really aware I was doing this, but if we fought or had a serious conversation of any kind he would suddenly lose his sh-- and yell at me to stop looking at him with "dead eyes", . My Gemini friend also recently got really upset with me because I apparently "looked at him weird" - He said my eyes were terrifying. I imagine I gave him the same look my ex freaked out about...whatever that might be.

Like @DopGang, I have also always seemed to attract obsessive and JEALOUS people into my life. I remember as far back as kindergarten one of my friends threw a temper tantrum out of the blue in class because I wasn't spending enough time with her. I remember being kinda freaked out by it and started to distance myself from her. At one point, her mom actually called my mom and tried to convince her to force me to come over and play with her daughter. (Thank goodness my mom was having NONE of that).

In addition to a slew of other smaller, creepy situations with friends, I have had friends literally fight over me, stalk me, and (most interestingly) try to "punish" me for not doing what they want me to do. My ex also became obsessive after I broke it off with him. I had to change my number and block his email address because he wouldn't stop contacting me no matter what I did.

Like Kannon mentioned earlier in this thread, I think the fact I'm attracting these people into my life might speak to something that needs reconciling within myself. I'm trying to be more aware of this so I can hopefully stop this cycle and have more normal relationships with people, lol. I've definitely had too many weird experiences with people - time to move away from that.

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Kannon McAfee
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posted August 17, 2015 03:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kannon McAfee     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by PaulMcFly:
Wait so Im not a scorpio rising?


Correct.

quote:

I'm a sag?

Rising? No.

quote:

Yo I'm confused lmao..I know Ive shown you my progressed chart are you going off that? Now I'm curious!!

Ah, you're gonna make me quote myself ...

Instead, you could have Pluto [6S55] Parallel Asc in mid-Libra, or contra-parallel Asc in mid-Virgo.

The common practice for defining the Asc in a birth chart assumes that the continual meeting point of the ecliptic and the eastern horizon defines the Asc at every moment. That is the mundane Asc, which is also used to define the Asc of people's birth charts in common practice. That formula is incomplete. A person's birth is an inter-dimensional event and cannot take place just anytime. There are doorways opened between dimensions that happen in a 5-hour wide opening around the delivery by the mother. Possible Ascendants within that must be defined by a subtle relationship between Sun, Moon, Uranus in addition to the mundane formula.

For your location/date of birth only Libra or Virgo are possible for your rising sign.

My natal: http://i51.photobucket.com/albums/f390/JettXZ/Mobile%20Uploads/ast ro_2gw_01_paul.83647.58116_zpsnfdxmacj.gif [/B][/QUOTE]

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PaulMcFly
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posted August 17, 2015 04:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PaulMcFly     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^That's so cool!! I can definitely relate if I had a libra AC, Virgo too. I just wish there was a way I could find out for sure.

How'd you figure all this out man? That's awesome!!

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