posted August 18, 2015 01:24 AM            

This is really hard for me to admit. No matter how attractive others perceive me, I will always see something wrong. There has never been a time in my life when I was completely 100% comfortable in the skin I'm in. It's always like this: "After braces straighten my teeth out" or "Once I lose the last 5 pounds". When I see people radiate unwavering confidence (no matter what they look like) I absolutely love that!

Also when I was going through my dating years, I NEVER knew when a guy liked me. They'd tell me, and I'd be shocked. Every single time. To this day, I still have old friends tell me: "Oh I had such a big crush on you" and I think to myself I really wish I had known!

So to manage this square, I've been trying to work on inner beauty, my theory being that it will manifest outward, but so far it's only helped slightly.

posted August 18, 2015 01:55 AM            

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Originally posted by bananaz:
Venus Square Saturn

This is really hard for me to admit. No matter how attractive others perceive me, I will always see something wrong. There has never been a time in my life when I was completely 100% comfortable in the skin I'm in. It's always like this: "After braces straighten my teeth out" or "Once I lose the last 5 pounds". When I see people radiate unwavering confidence (no matter what they look like) I absolutely love that!

Also when I was going through my dating years, I NEVER knew when a guy liked me. They'd tell me, and I'd be shocked. Every single time. To this day, I still have old friends tell me: "Oh I had such a big crush on you" and I think to myself I really wish I had known!

So to manage this square, I've been trying to work on inner beauty, my theory being that it will manifest outward, but so far it's only helped slightly.

If anyone has ever gotten past an aspect like this, I'd love to know how they did it.

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Thank you so much for sharing that! It seems that with aspects people find difficulty dealing with mostly involve Saturn and/or Chiron. I often wonder if those natal aspects that involve Saturn, if you've owned them and learn the lessons Saturn is trying to teach you, if there is a huge reward at the "end". Saturn is known for his tough lessons but amazing rewards.

posted August 18, 2015 02:03 AM            

Mine is - Jupiter (Pisces) square Saturn (Sagittarius)!

posted August 18, 2015 02:06 AM            

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Originally posted by athenegoddess:
You don't own them you transcend them but gain wisdom from their lesson.

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posted August 18, 2015 02:14 AM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
Adding to the Saturn squares here...

Mine is - Jupiter (Pisces) square Saturn (Sagittarius)!

It's tough because you spiral from being all play, no work - to being all work, no play.
I've always tried to be more balanced and more organised and stick to my plans.
I'd say I'm almost on top of this square.. now that my Saturn return is coming up, but I still have some things to deal with.

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posted August 18, 2015 02:18 AM            

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Originally posted by RoseLily:
libra Moon square gemini Sun
Gosh this one is a pain
I mean, I know I have a very very strong intuition.
And it's awesome, really, I love it. But my sun decide to poke it's shiny little head and disagree with everything: "yeah but... are you really sure? I mean, really really sure? This feeling you have, is it you wishing, or is it really your intuition working? Why do you want to go there, I think you should go over there, that's logical." then my moon is like : " Yes, but I feel like this way is better... I mean I don't just want it, yes I do but... "

"USH, ush, just go under this pillow right now and die quietly, let's do this the reasonable, logical way, alright? THINK for once, you can't just feel things, you got to THINK. Why would this happen anyway? It's not logical, it can't happen."
And usually my sun is wrong and my moon is right and I mess up something.

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Thank you, I was just reading up on this aspect in the natal chart. I was just noticing the signs and since they were both air signs, I thought they would get along a lot better.

posted August 18, 2015 02:51 AM            

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Originally posted by cchampliss2:
Thank you for sharing that with us. Do you mind if I ask, when or what is it that makes you realize you have too much of one thing? Do you like pass out at the 16th birthday party youve attended in one week or do you fall asleep with piles of papers on your bed?

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LOL ^ That's a funny question

It's more like.. it's difficult to integrate both things (fun things & career/work related matters) into your life, and be happy at the end of the day.

In the party example... A Jupiter/Saturn trine person would get some work done before the party... then attend the party... then get some more work done afterwards... and they would happily show up Monday at work (having partied with their friends - and having also met their deadlines):

This is Jupiter/Saturn trine, Monday morning:

A Jupiter/Saturn square person would put the work off again and again - then go party... then realise they underestimated the amount of work they had to get done in the first place - then "cram" like crazy and work through the night to finish things last minute.
When they show up Monday at work, everything will be finished. It might even be better quality work than the Jupiter/Saturn trine - simply because the square makes you *focus* so intensely.
But this "style" of doing things is highly stressful... and unhealthy.

This is Jupiter/Saturn square, Monday morning

posted August 18, 2015 03:13 AM            

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Originally posted by Odette:

LOL ^ That's a funny question

It's more like.. it's difficult to integrate both things (fun things & career/work related matters) into your life, and be happy at the end of the day.

In the party example... A Jupiter/Saturn trine person would get some work done before the party... then attend the party... then get some more work done afterwards... and they would happily show up Monday at work (having partied with their friends - and having also met their deadlines):

This is Jupiter/Saturn trine, Monday morning:

A Jupiter/Saturn square person would put the work off again and again - then go party... then realise they underestimated the amount of work they had to get done in the first place - then "cram" like crazy and work through the night to finish things last minute.
When they show up Monday at work, everything will be finished. It might even be better quality work than the Jupiter/Saturn trine - simply because the square makes you *focus* so intensely.
But this "style" of doing things is highly stressful... and unhealthy.

This is Jupiter/Saturn square, Monday morning

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That Amy Poeler gif is hilarious!

posted August 18, 2015 05:59 AM            

mine is moon/mars/saturn conjunction and pluto square jupiter.

posted August 18, 2015 07:12 AM            

Moon square Pluto
Venus conjunct Saturn
Mercury Conjunct Uranus
Venus square Neptune

I would say the Venus square Neptune and conjunct Saturn.

posted August 18, 2015 11:19 AM            

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Originally posted by cchampliss2:
Thank you, I was just reading up on this aspect in the natal chart. I was just noticing the signs and since they were both air signs, I thought they would get along a lot better.

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posted August 18, 2015 11:37 AM            

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Originally posted by EmGem:
i would call them "challenging" as opposed to "tough and terrible" There is a lesson in each and every aspect/placement. this is what colours our lives and makes them rich and rewarding each time we are able to gain something from their lessons.

mine is moon/mars/saturn conjunction and pluto square jupiter.

but im learning to love them.

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I can agree. I think I used "tough and terrible" mainly for aliteration effect.

Also, I don't know much about pluto square jupiter. I'm going to look that up.

posted August 18, 2015 02:15 PM            

Saturn conjunct Venus in 4th
Mercury square Neptune and Uranus
Chiron in 10th

posted August 18, 2015 02:29 PM            

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Originally posted by NeptunianSag:
Rx mars in cancer opp Neptune, Uranus and square Libra asc.

Saturn conjunct Venus in 4th
Mercury square Neptune and Uranus
Chiron in 10th

So many bad ones

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I have a friend who has her Chiron in the 10th house and she struggles with it as well.

How about you start a thread on the positive aspects in charts that we can be most thankful for having?

posted August 18, 2015 02:32 PM            

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Originally posted by RoseLily:
Well they are trined by sign, but my moon is on the cusp of libra (0'33) from virgo, so it's a stretched square.
What makes it so difficult is that lots of flowing placement I have with my moon are in hard aspect with my sun.
Moon sextile pluto and trine neptune while my sun is quincunx both for example.
The relief I could feel for having those two trine by sign is lowered because of this easy/harsh aspects mix between the two

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Thank you so much for that. I didn't know that squares could work in compatible signs. (I'm still learning). I thought that the aspect would be an easy one, but that it would be too wide to make a difference.

posted August 18, 2015 03:18 PM            

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Originally posted by cchampliss2:
This thread is just giving Saturn a bad name

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