posted August 22, 2015 04:16 AM            

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Originally posted by Azurenite:
When will Saturn be out of my 5th house? Sagittarius 20 degrees. It had been there since 5 degrees scorpio, ug.

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posted August 22, 2015 06:49 AM            

It was a terrible time in my life. I experienced my very first heartbreak followed by a lot of disappointing dates. I had to work on my self-esteem when it comes to dating. Rejection was my biggest fear which was the reason I tried 'too hard' to cling onto people.

After this transit, I became very very carefree. I'm still passionate and would only get involved with someone who is serious about me, but I've learned to let it go if I get rejected/it doesn't work out. I had to strengthen my self-esteem and stop chasing people who don't want me.

I became quite isolated after this 'heartbreak' but once Saturn left my sign/house, I understood the lessons I had to go through to become an adult.

Saturn brings to the surface you 'weak points' in relationships and make you work on them, sometimes by going through a very painful time/encounter. That's the only way you can get rid of your 'weaknesses'. It's not an easy time by any means but it works out for the best. This transit is most definitely not a great time for love but it is a good time to reassess your expectations and behavior in relationships.

posted August 22, 2015 01:20 PM            

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Originally posted by Isa:
Wow, MineAgain, thank you.
Seems like you had a really difficult time with this transit. Your story actually scared me the most. I'll have this placement in my solar return with a pluto in the 7th house. I'm already unlucky in love and my social life went down the drain a long time ago. I don't know how it can get worst.

I hope you're feeling better now

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I'm sorry I scared you with my story! It wasn't my intention.

Every path is different, so maybe it won't be that bad for you.

In my case, I was agonizing the entire time. I'm still single but I'm hoping my dating life will be better once Saturn leaves Scorpio and my 5th house for good.

It could be that you will meet a significant connection, like I did, but this won't necessarily go smoothly. I'm not saying it will end up in a heartbreak, but I found that Saturn brought very significant encounters into my life that were very much fated so that I could learn my lessons. When Saturn moved into Sagittarius, my romantic encounters were very light and carefree, not fated at all.

Saturn can sometimes bring into your life some karmic connections which is the reason why there is so much pain involved with these connections. It's all about learning and getting rid of the self-sabotaging patterns you unconsciously engage in.

posted August 26, 2015 10:52 AM            

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Originally posted by MineAgain:
I'm sorry I scared you with my story! It wasn't my intention.

Every path is different, so maybe it won't be that bad for you.

In my case, I was agonizing the entire time. I'm still single but I'm hoping my dating life will be better once Saturn leaves Scorpio and my 5th house for good.

It could be that you will meet a significant connection, like I did, but this won't necessarily go smoothly. I'm not saying it will end up in a heartbreak, but I found that Saturn brought very significant encounters into my life that were very much fated so that I could learn my lessons. When Saturn moved into Sagittarius, my romantic encounters were very light and carefree, not fated at all.

Saturn can sometimes bring into your life some karmic connections which is the reason why there is so much pain involved with these connections. It's all about learning and getting rid of the self-sabotaging patterns you unconsciously engage in.

It definitely sounds daunting, that's for sure but it doesn't mean you'll suffer greatly. Maybe you'll meet someone and by the end of the transit, you will have outgrown the relationship. One thing is for sure is that you'll always remember such transit.

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