posted August 24, 2015 05:24 PM            

I am not open or don't feel safe until i get a validation that the relationship is safe and grounded. I need a solid validation.

But what does the Venus conjunct aspect mean though?

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Originally posted by Comatoes:
You don't show your eroticism until you know the person very well, and secure in the knowledge that the relationship is stable and "manifestible". You can be very sensual but only on your own terms. Eros in Capricorn can play it safe, but this depends on Saturn in your chart -- you have Capricorn Venus Trine Virgo Saturn (first house) and it would seem that this plays out in such a way, but I may be wrong on this whole interpretation since you do have Venus square Pluto which can be a dark, smoldering love nature and in the 5th house, you have a very different inner love nature than what you project. Behind close doors, well it could be out there... Love for you must be concrete, and the love partner must have a lovely intellect, you don't do well with people who don't have an unusual or strong intellect/communicative mind.

Marilyn Monroe had Eros (in Capricorn) square Venus. so it is a little similar to your placement and she also had Leo ASC. Don't know if that means anything, but she pretty much goes down in history as a woman that knew how to use her Eros and Venus. I don't know if you are male or female, but this also works in men too. Capricorn energy can be this way, raw/natural, enigmatic and attractive energy. Capricorn doesn't have that Mermaid tail for nothing, deep down they seek strong bonding.

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Originally posted by Gabby:
I have cap IC/Eros/Valentine/Lust square my libra AC/Venus/Pluto conjunction aries Jupiter makes a t-square.

I agree very much with Comatoes!
I need security and stability in love. I won't show my Erotic side without that...
Once I get that I'm open to anything n everything. But before then No!
They get nothing until i feel safe and grounded in the relationship.
Eros in cap is very kinky, role playing is fun but it must be very mature adult eroticism. Nothing childish or immature....it's got to be played at a skilled level of fun, anything goes once we are there.
Fantasies, fetishes are typically just the beggining. I want to know your darkest desires and play with them. I want to know the things your terrified to tell anyone else because your afraid they will judge you... I will not!
The more you give me of your core, the more I will desire you. The more you invest in seeing I'm the one you can trust the more I will lust after you. It's all about the foundation and making it solid, the more solid it is the deeper we go.
I will act out and make your fantasies real for you. I want to be the only one who does that for you. I want to blow your mind with my ability to be your everything. That's the maturity in erotism to cap Eros!
I'm sure my Pluto being exact square adds to this, but this is how mine plays out.

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posted August 24, 2015 05:52 PM            

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Originally posted by bluestskies88:
Both are on point! Thank you!

I am not open or don't feel safe until i get a validation that the relationship is safe and grounded. I need a solid validation.

But what does the Venus conjunct aspect mean though?

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I would think your Venus conjunct Eros is much like my Valentine conjunct Eros because Valentine is higher octave of Venus.

posted August 24, 2015 05:58 PM            

Gabby, can i ask you regarding a eros and psyche synastry since ur here?

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Originally posted by Gabby:
I would think your Venus conjunct Eros is much like my Valentine conjunct Eros because Valentine is higher octave of Venus.

For me it means I don't feel turned on unless I'm really feeling bonded and close. One night stands are literally burning to me, I feel nothing and don't get turned on.
When I'm in love the person I love turns me on like no other...

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posted August 25, 2015 10:54 AM            

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Originally posted by bluestskies88:
this is so true!! wow!! i really emphasize feeling safe first and there is a connection. this is VERY important.

Gabby, can i ask you regarding a eros and psyche synastry since ur here?

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posted August 25, 2015 10:58 AM            

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Originally posted by Gabby:


Sure go ahead!!

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here's the aspect

Want to ask the synastry aspects below. What does these aspect mean? does the square aspect make the connection challenging?

his eros square my mars
his eros opp my uranus
his eros square my AC
his eros conj my MC

his psyche trine my venus
his psyche semisquare my jupiter
his psyche square my neptune
his psyche trine my MC

my eros square his mars
my eros trine his AC

my psyche semi sextile his mercury
my psyche square his mars
my psyche square his saturn
my psyche semi square his uranus
my psyche trine his chiron