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Topic: For men that have dealt with the hard aspected pluto–venus woman
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Dreaminess
Knowflake Posts: 642
From: norway
Registered: Aug 2014
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posted August 25, 2015 06:35 AM
  
What are your views on us are we too intense demanding etc, did it get too much to deal with? Can you tell me the good and the bad you saw with the hard aspected pluto–venus woman? And if you don`t mind please write down your venus sign and the planets it receives aspects from and which house its in. IP: Logged |
DopGang
Knowflake Posts: 643
From: <--------- over there.
Registered: Jun 2015
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posted August 25, 2015 07:00 AM
They had cancer sun and Scorpio moon.
Venus square Pluto
(Pluto square Sun also) Yes. They didn't scare me like so many people like to think intensity does. I just thought, "Do I really have the energy to deal with this ****? Or more importantly, is this how I want to spend my time?" No. So I left. LOL The good. She's remained a friend. No matter how much I shut her out she'll spring up, wish me a happy birthday, etc. Except my last birthday. LOL
Maybe she gave up, or just has a boyfriend and doesn't want to disrespect him. I have no idea.
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Dreaminess
Knowflake Posts: 642
From: norway
Registered: Aug 2014
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posted August 25, 2015 07:10 AM
I also have the square along with a cancer moon and i can be too intense when it comes to love. I hate that i can`t just stay "healthy" in love with someone. IP: Logged |
DopGang
Knowflake Posts: 643
From: <--------- over there.
Registered: Jun 2015
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posted August 25, 2015 07:31 AM
There's always other things and other aspects, etc.
My moon squared her Pluto also. Her mom was murdered in front her when she was 14 and other issues in her life. Left an abusive man, etc.
So there was a lot going on. I was there for her at a critical time but when I felt it was safe to go, I went.
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ReadingTheStars95
Knowflake Posts: 682
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Registered: Jun 2014
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posted August 25, 2015 07:32 AM
Hmm.. Well.. Me having a Pluto-Venus aspect myself, and me being the person I am.. If I am going to be truly attracted to someone, and get into a relationship with them, they almost NEED to have a Venus-Pluto or Mars-Pluto aspect (especially the latter).. Or, their Pluto needs to be aspecting my Moon(which in my case, a conjunction is pretty much the only plausible aspect..), Mars, or possibly Venus.. Or.. Vise-Versa. I'm not really sure HOW to explain why this is, right this moment.. At least, not without sounding too crazy.. Hahaha
I have Venus in Aries, in the 7th house.. In aspect to Uranus, Neptune, Pluto, and Mars.
If I could sum up my approach to romantic love with a few different albums, ONE of them would have to be the album 'Razorblade Romance' by HIM.. xD xD.. (Another good example would probably be 'Deep Shadows and Brilliant Highlights' by the same band.) However, it goes a bit deeper than that. IP: Logged |
Dreaminess
Knowflake Posts: 642
From: norway
Registered: Aug 2014
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posted August 25, 2015 07:37 AM
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Originally posted by DopGang:
There's always other things and other aspects, etc.
My moon squared her Pluto also. Her mom was murdered in front her when she was 14 and other issues in her life. Left an abusive man, etc.
So there was a lot going on. I was there for her at a critical time but when I felt it was safe to go, I went.
Oh okey that can explain your experience with her. How awful though about what she went through. IP: Logged |
Dreaminess
Knowflake Posts: 642
From: norway
Registered: Aug 2014
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posted August 25, 2015 07:42 AM
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Originally posted by ReadingTheStars95:
Hmm.. Well.. Me having a Pluto-Venus aspect myself, and me being the person I am.. If I am going to be truly attracted to someone, and get into a relationship with them, they almost NEED to have a Venus-Pluto or Mars-Pluto aspect (especially the latter).. Or, their Pluto needs to be aspecting my Moon(which in my case, a conjunction is pretty much the only plausible aspect..), Mars, or possibly Venus.. Or.. Vise-Versa. I'm not really sure HOW to explain why this is, right this moment.. At least, not without sounding too crazy.. Hahaha
I have Venus in Aries, in the 7th house.. In aspect to Uranus, Neptune, Pluto, and Mars.
I have noticed this with myself to that i am very attracted to scorpio/plutonian influenced men. When a guy isn`t scorpio or pluto influenced it honestly feels like something is missing for me.
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Isa
Knowflake Posts: 91
From:
Registered: Feb 2011
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posted August 25, 2015 09:48 AM
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Originally posted by Dreaminess:
I have noticed this with myself to that i am very attracted to scorpio/plutonian influenced men. When a guy isn`t scorpio or pluto influenced it honestly feels like something is missing for me.
Me too. When the relationship is not plutonian, I realize it is a HEALTHY relationship. But it gets boring very fast.
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ReadingTheStars95
Knowflake Posts: 682
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Registered: Jun 2014
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posted August 25, 2015 10:16 AM
^^^ haha..Welllll.. Plutonian relationships CAN be healthy.. Just.. Guess it depends on the individuals involved. Pluto doesn't always have to be dark or chaotic. It can be transforming for both the individuals involved. Because, at its highest vibration, Pluto can actually lay itself bare. If the two in the relationship are being 100% honest, it can be a strong healing and learning experience. However, getting Pluto to open up to that degree of honesty and exposure can take a VERY long time. I always think of Pluto as being a bit of a blend of Saturn and Uranus. To me, Pluto is one of the strongest planets of Truth, but, getting to that truth isn't always easy. Once it is reached, it won't sugar coat anything. There is truth in vulnerability. However, Pluto doesn't generally like feeling or being totally vulnerable.. Except for with maybe ONE (maybe 2-3 altogether) person(s). IP: Logged |
Julz87
Knowflake Posts: 1149
From: Over the Rainbow
Registered: Nov 2011
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posted August 25, 2015 10:16 AM
What do you guys mean by "intense"?IP: Logged |
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