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Topic: This guy I know.....
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BNY10
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posted August 27, 2015 12:02 AM
  
Has a mom that does not care for or love him. Her life is more important that he is to her. Her love life was way more important than nurturing and loving him. She thinks her son is weak. He says his mom is an itch and a *lut. He is a Cancer sun and Aries moon. I feel bad hanging out with him because MY DAD AND MOM have always loved me and has shown me so much love and even spoiled me. They have given me everything I have asked for, so I feel like he is jealous of me. He wants the love my parents show for me for himself. He wants to be loved by my parents. And he wants me to show him motherly love. GAG. It is weird. Thanks. IP: Logged |
ReadingTheStars95
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posted August 27, 2015 12:30 AM
Dang.. I'm kind of curious.. Does he have anything in his 4th house, do you know?IP: Logged |
Comatoes
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posted August 27, 2015 06:25 AM
Childhood can make or break a Cancer child in so many ways, more than any other sign, they just don't get over excessive abuse, the memories are so retentive in Cancers. Cancer children who are wounded in childhood, especially by the Mother, can have difficulties in adulthood. Each situation is different, but the Moon, 4th house, IC is the most fragile planet/points in the chart. I think all Water signs have a potential to be very close to their Mother's, but for Cancer it is the foundation. Cancer children need a loving environment with mature and responsible parents to turn into beautiful and productive people, without this it is a constant struggle to find substitutions, insecurity and a need for validation. Cancer children are highly impressionable, and need some time to come into their own. These children need guidance and structure (opposite axis is Capricorn, look to the opposite axis to find out how to make your planets stronger) until they can learn to master their emotions -- when the parents fail to do this, you will have problems. The Cancer/Capricorn axis is the Parental Axis, any planets in Cancer or Capricorn will be more psychologically affected by their parents/guardians, upbringing or anyone who has authority over them than normal.Cancer men especially, already have difficulties with Cancerian inner planet energy, so having problems with the Mother makes it even more traumatic. I don't like to throw people under the astrological bus, but everyone can be helped with anything in the World bothering them, if they recognize it and work on it by doing it themselves or getting outside help. Some of the most horrible struggles can make great people. But anyways, an Aries Moon with a Cancer Sun automatically creates friction between self-actualization and being independent vs. an emotional ego and problems with nurturing and needing family. They have a high amount of autonomy and strength, but the pull towards family, relationships, emotional feelings and security is also greatly affected. I don't know the chart though...these are just general statements.
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