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Topic: Venus in Scorpio men, what is love for you?
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Dreaminess Knowflake Posts: 740 From: norway Registered: Aug 2014
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posted August 30, 2015 05:56 PM
What should love be like in your view? IP: Logged |
CosmiqPhuz Knowflake Posts: 380 From: Lititz, PA, USA Registered: Jan 2014
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posted August 30, 2015 06:46 PM
Absolute devotion, loyalty, intimacy, and honesty. If I truly love you, I'll go down in flames for you.IP: Logged |
Dreaminess Knowflake Posts: 740 From: norway Registered: Aug 2014
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posted August 30, 2015 07:05 PM
quote: Originally posted by CosmiqPhuz: Absolute devotion, loyalty, intimacy, and honesty. If I truly love you, I'll go down in flames for you.
So you wouldn`t have minded the intensity of the pluto/venus woman? I have "scared" men away when i was younger bc i have given them too much attention and gotten clingy.
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CosmiqPhuz Knowflake Posts: 380 From: Lititz, PA, USA Registered: Jan 2014
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posted August 30, 2015 07:16 PM
quote: Originally posted by Dreaminess: So you wouldn`t have minded the intensity of the pluto/venus woman? I have "scared" men away when i was younger bc i have given them too much attention and gotten clingy.
No, not at all. My libra moon would require some space from time to time just to process things and recharge, but that has nothing to do with the other person. Just the way my mind works. Otherwise, I love the intensity. IP: Logged |
Dreaminess Knowflake Posts: 740 From: norway Registered: Aug 2014
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posted August 30, 2015 07:47 PM
quote: Originally posted by CosmiqPhuz: No, not at all. My libra moon would require some space from time to time just to process things and recharge, but that has nothing to do with the other person. Just the way my mind works. Otherwise, I love the intensity.
Its hard not to be "too much" when you carry around a mix of cancer and pluto influence in your chart. Its insane the thoughts i`ve had when i have been in love. Like for example wanting to be his eyes or hair straw or anything on his body just bc i want to be with him at all times and see what he is doing. IP: Logged |
ReadingTheStars95 Knowflake Posts: 760 From: Registered: Jun 2014
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posted August 30, 2015 07:56 PM
quote: Originally posted by Dreaminess: Its hard not to be "too much" when you carry around a mix of cancer and pluto influence in your chart. Its insane the thoughts i`ve had when i have been in love. Like for example wanting to be his eyes or hair straw or anything on his body just bc i want to be with him at all times and see what he is doing.
Hehe.. That is cute, in its own way.. xD.. Even if some people would find it weird/obsessive. xD xD I think that would be awesome if you could have a lover as being a part of you/your body.. xD IP: Logged |
CosmiqPhuz Knowflake Posts: 380 From: Lititz, PA, USA Registered: Jan 2014
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posted August 30, 2015 08:23 PM
quote: Originally posted by Dreaminess: Its hard not to be "too much" when you carry around a mix of cancer and pluto influence in your chart. Its insane the thoughts i`ve had when i have been in love. Like for example wanting to be his eyes or hair straw or anything on his body just bc i want to be with him at all times and see what he is doing.
Completely understand. To us, it seems just right or perhaps still not enough. But to others, it appears obsessive. I've found other Venus-Pluto people and Scorpio moon people to be on the same page and keep it mutual.
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Isa Knowflake Posts: 109 From: Registered: Feb 2011
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posted August 30, 2015 10:19 PM
Intensity and devotion. I thought I could have casual sex, but i tried that and I felt used and depressed.IP: Logged |
Dreaminess Knowflake Posts: 740 From: norway Registered: Aug 2014
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posted August 31, 2015 04:41 AM
quote: Originally posted by ReadingTheStars95: Hehe.. That is cute, in its own way.. xD.. Even if some people would find it weird/obsessive. xD xD I think that would be awesome if you could have a lover as being a part of you/your body.. xD
Only another pluto influenced person would find that cute i think hehe. IP: Logged |
Dreaminess Knowflake Posts: 740 From: norway Registered: Aug 2014
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posted August 31, 2015 04:43 AM
quote: Originally posted by CosmiqPhuz: Completely understand. To us, it seems just right or perhaps still not enough. But to others, it appears obsessive. I've found other Venus-Pluto people and Scorpio moon people to be on the same page and keep it mutual.
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Gracha Knowflake Posts: 228 From: NY USA Registered: Jan 2013
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posted August 31, 2015 09:24 PM
My goodness I dated a venus in scorpio man and when we broke up he tried to financially ruin me. Absolute pyscho. Now I'm seeing a Sagittarius sun/scorp venus conjunct pluto and he's very intense but sweet. I have venus Taurus opposite pluto. so our venus opposite by 2 degrees. I tend to really click with scorpio moon men for some reason. Hopefully this one is all good.IP: Logged |
VestasLight Knowflake Posts: 42 From: Canada Registered: Mar 2015
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posted September 14, 2015 02:32 PM
Even tho I'm not a male, I am a Venus in Scorpio (conjunct Jupiter by 1 degree, so super Venus in Scorpio, lol). So, here is my take on being a Ven. in Sco when it comes to a serious relationship...In love, Ven. in Sco. needs to feel like they are touching the soul of the other person. Nothing superficial or surface will do. That applies to everything, especially communication and sex. Ven. in Sco. needs absolute reassurance (not just with words, but actions) that their partner is 1000% dedicated to them as they are to their partner. That the loyalty Ven. in Sco. gives to their partner is seen and valued and given in return. If a Ven. in Sco. isn't sure it's there, they'll test their partner (not consciously, but out of a deep rooted need to ensure the security is there) Relationships are serious business for a Ven. in Sco. when they decide to enter into one. Flightiness and game-playing is a big no-no. We have a real jealous streak and don't thrive well when it's triggered. Bare your heart, your mind, your soul to a Ven. in Sco. and you'll win them over. The deeper you can go the better. The Pluto influence of Scorpio loves/needs to feel and explore the most hidden and untouched aspects of the human experience. PS. Sex is a very important aspect to a relationship for Ven. in Sco. All the above applies to the act of making love with a Ven. in Sco. too. Side note: of course, other chart influences will play their part in this too. IP: Logged |
Sylven Knowflake Posts: 105 From: Netherlands Registered: Nov 2014
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posted September 14, 2015 04:28 PM
quote: Originally posted by Dreaminess: Its hard not to be "too much" when you carry around a mix of cancer and pluto influence in your chart. Its insane the thoughts i`ve had when i have been in love. Like for example wanting to be his eyes or hair straw or anything on his body just bc i want to be with him at all times and see what he is doing.
Oh my god, it all comes back again. One of the biggest loves of my life, said he would wear me. I had the same intense feelings for him. Totally digged it. He was scared to open up (conjunction Mars/ Venus and Asc Scorp). He gradually did but a major issue with trust. Also not feeling good enough but Saturn is opposite his Ven/Mars. Very very strong emotionally. Can bear it all and more and it's so sad. Also very lusty and very sensual like raw. He was never too good with words but he admired the way I put everything into words, he enjoyed it. We never had a chance ... wrong timing, maybe another life, another dimension. Love for him is like totally trusting a person, merging, soul union but I guess a little hurt as well.
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PixieJane Moderator Posts: 6997 From: CA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted September 14, 2015 08:32 PM
Typical Pluto/Venus in Scorpio woman: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yh0AhrY9GjA IP: Logged |
bansheequeen Knowflake Posts: 1292 From: Beachville, USA Registered: Jan 2012
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posted September 14, 2015 09:01 PM
Baby dont hurt me. Dont hurt me no more.IP: Logged |
Aquarian Moon Knowflake Posts: 227 From: USA Registered: Jan 2015
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posted September 14, 2015 09:05 PM
quote: Originally posted by CosmiqPhuz: Absolute devotion, loyalty, intimacy, and honesty. If I truly love you, I'll go down in flames for you.
I hear this. I want and would do the same. I'm a woman with this placement. Personally, I would prefer a Mars Scorpio man that makes a pretty conjunction to my Venus. Meow. IP: Logged |
CosmiqPhuz Knowflake Posts: 380 From: Lititz, PA, USA Registered: Jan 2014
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posted September 17, 2015 09:58 AM
quote: Originally posted by Aquarian Moon: Personally, I would prefer a Mars Scorpio man that makes a pretty conjunction to my Venus. Meow.
Women with Scorpio mars like me (and I like them) haha.
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