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Topic: Serial daters
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LaceyLeigh
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From: New Jersey
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posted September 11, 2015 07:35 AM
  
Astrologically speaking, what would "make" someone a serial dater? Someone like Taylor Swift, Ryan Reynolds, or Avril Lavinge Mutable Venus signs, Venus in aspect to Jupiter, maybe? I know a few people who are faithful while they are with their partners, but it doesn't take them long to move on.. I get that they're young, and you shouldn't necessarily dwell on something you can't change, but these people breakup after 6 months + of dating someone, and are already looking for a new partner a week later! It seems strange to me - I mourn crushes for weeks - I couldn't imagine moving on so soon after splitting with someone I loved.
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sunshinedragon
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posted September 11, 2015 12:16 PM
I don't know. I have a friend who is like this though, and she will literally jump into a relationship with anyone and then make that person someone serious even if her heart doesn't feel it, just for the sake of being in a relationship I suppose.She's a Sag on the cusp of Capricorn, but she's Capricorn moon and rising, and also many other planets I can't remember. Basically an overwhelming amount of Capricorn. I have almost no Capricorn in my chart, and I never date. So maybe Capricorn. IP: Logged |
LaceyLeigh
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posted September 11, 2015 01:28 PM
I'm not big on dating either, Sunshine, but I always attributed that to my Taurus Venus in the 6th house.I think a mutable Venus or Venus in aspect to Jupiter might contribute to serial dating. I also only have outer planets in Capricorn, so who knows.. IP: Logged |
starmoon
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posted September 11, 2015 01:43 PM
i've always figured it was a highly aspected venus. it might also, i believe, be a lot of air/fire influence, which allows for emotional detachment. i think you'd find serial daters a lot among very heavy air/fire charts and the water-voids.
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Rosalind
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posted September 11, 2015 01:50 PM
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Originally posted by sunshinedragon:
I don't know. I have a friend who is like this though, and she will literally jump into a relationship with anyone and then make that person someone serious even if her heart doesn't feel it, just for the sake of being in a relationship I suppose.She's a Sag on the cusp of Capricorn, but she's Capricorn moon and rising, and also many other planets I can't remember. Basically an overwhelming amount of Capricorn. I have almost no Capricorn in my chart, and I never date. So maybe Capricorn.
Capricorn people and Capricorn influenced people are known for that kind of behaviour. I have a friend who is just like that. Her excuse? She has no excuse. IP: Logged |
bansheequeen
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posted September 11, 2015 04:13 PM
Im not sure what you mean because I dont know how those people date lol. Serial daters or serial monogamists? Like people that just date a bunch of people casually or people that have relationships one after another?The most notable person like this was a libra sun, scorpio moon, venus and pluto. I think they are all conjunct and in the first house. Scorpio rising as well. Libra mars. He would get into new relationships like a week after the old one. He would get involved fast. Photos on facebook and everything.. like a week after the breakup of his old one. He got married after a month of knowing a girl. Etc. I knew a scorpio sun, moon. And venus and mars were aries and libra, but I dont remember which was which. He was kind of a serial monogamist. He had a girl he was on and off with, but on the off times he always had another girl. They broke up for good and he was with someone else a few weeks after. Two mutables, a sag and a pisces I know, they are more like serial daters. They date a lot of people but they dont seem too serious about them. IP: Logged |
bansheequeen
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posted September 11, 2015 04:19 PM
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Originally posted by starmoon:
i've always figured it was a highly aspected venus. it might also, i believe, be a lot of air/fire influence, which allows for emotional detachment. i think you'd find serial daters a lot among very heavy air/fire charts and the water-voids.
This is really annoying. I dont see how fire is emotional detachment. I think fire is way more emotionally involved than like... earth. Also I dont see serial dating as an emotionally detached thing. People on LL are too quick to pin anything NEGATIVE as a lack of emotion which isnt true at all. He kills babies, probably a water void. Anyways. If anything, getting involved in a relationship too fast and then getting into another one too fast most likely is too much overwhelming emotion rather than a lack of it. In real life, most of the people that seemingly get over their exes quickly (I say seemingly because dating someone else doesnt meant hey got over their exes!) and move onto a new person are scorpios. I think they just work out pain differently. Relationships heal them and they work out past issues through them. IP: Logged |
athenaia
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From: USA
Registered: May 2015
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posted September 11, 2015 04:54 PM
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Originally posted by sunshinedragon:
I don't know. I have a friend who is like this though, and she will literally jump into a relationship with anyone and then make that person someone serious even if her heart doesn't feel it, just for the sake of being in a relationship I suppose.She's a Sag on the cusp of Capricorn, but she's Capricorn moon and rising, and also many other planets I can't remember. Basically an overwhelming amount of Capricorn. I have almost no Capricorn in my chart, and I never date. So maybe Capricorn.
Hmmm interesting because I know someone with a Cap Sun/Cap Moon (Aqua Venus) and they admit to never having been single more than 6 months in their entire adult life. This isn't to say they don't have long relationships but.. yeah. Pretty wild. My bf is another one of those people who, while they have long term relationships, is never single for much time afterwards. He's pretty consistently had a girlfriend since he was 15! He's a Leo rising/Sag Sun/Pisces Moon (Scorpio Venus) My mom is also a major serial monogamist - a Pisces sun/Aries moon/Sag rising (Aqua Venus) IP: Logged |
LaGioconda
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From: NRW, Germany
Registered: Dec 2014
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posted September 11, 2015 07:37 PM
I am a heavy capricorn (Sun,Mars,Venus,Mercury,Neptune,Uranus 10th) and I am the total opposite, I never date. I have to look for years to find someone that I want to date. I am the Queen of rejections. I am totally that person that cries for ages after losing Big Love and has to be forced by friends and family to meet someone new. I want one partner for my whole life. Big Love or eternal single life. I don't think that it will change.My capricorn Sun,Uranus,Neptune best friend has never had a boyfriend in her life and went out with a guy two times,then broke off contact because he was not good boyfriend material. My grandma was a Capricorn Sun,Venus,Mars,Saturn,Juno,Eros and after my grandpa left her at 40 years she never wanted to meet another man.  IP: Logged |
12muddy
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posted September 11, 2015 08:49 PM
My cap friends are divided into two groups. One moves on quickly. The other mourns and holds on till the end of time, they're either disappointed with love, too jaded, too busy, or they lost their true love and rather live with the memories. Like one of my male cap friends said, when he's in a relationship he'll invest himself in it. Does everything, gives the best he can give. So when it's done, it's *really* done. It means that his best isn't enough for this relationship/this person. Nothing else he can do. But the 1st group divides into two small groups. One, like the cap male friend mentioned above, are looking for "true love". After it becomes clear that the dead relationship isn't what they look for, they are once again become very eager to get out there and find it. The other, they're more pragmatic. They just don't like wasting their time mourning when they can enjoy life. At the end of the day, they don't always find new partners quickly, so I'm not sure if they can be called serial daters or monogamists. But it's true that they detach emotionally very quickly. I lean towards the first group. I'm the same with life goals and pretty much everything else in life. Once it becomes a loss cause, there's no reason to continue. Like a dead tree, one just can't water and nourish it and expect it to come back to life. Detachment saves my energy for the next big thing, I suppose. Oh there's another group, I've only met one person like this though. Her placements are almost the same as mine. I almost forgot about her. She's religious (Buddhist) and isn't interested in dating/relationship. In fact she isn't interested in most of the "worldly" things. Works only to support her mother. Said to me once that after her mother passes away and her duties are done, she'll go to a monastery. About heavy air/fire, ime it's 50-50. Water influence seems more likely to hold on. My mother is mostly water and fire (pisces sun/asc/venus, aries moon). I don't think she is even interested in relationships lol. She was just interested in my father. After he passed away she carries on living on her own.
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RoseLily
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posted September 11, 2015 10:53 PM
I personally have a leo Venus singleton in fifth house, opposite Neptune/Uranus conjonction.
This is the aspects, I think, that made me prevent having a boyfriend in all the past years. I am in love with Love, the Big Love, the Romanticism. When you add Neptune in there, it's the disillusion. I make my crush as someone perfect, I become almost obsessed with them and can almost immediately picture my future life withhim (LOL).
Uranus chain this down a bit. Because I'll sabotage myself, I'll nitpick at any flaw I suddenly notice.
Oh I'll be sure he's infatuated with me, my intuition is a HUGE 0 when I am in that state of mind, but I always fall for the unavailable guy, or get insanely afraid and push away any guy infatuated with me. So yeah MY POINT IS, that the combination of Neptune and singleton venus in fire would have made me a serial dater, for the sheer illusion of Love with a big L, however, anyone who has a venus/uranus connection has a hard time getting into a relationship because they unconsciously sabotage themselves IP: Logged | |
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