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Topic: Why do some people make us extremely uncomfortable??
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charlie
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posted September 21, 2015 06:43 AM
  
And not in the "omg, he/she is so hot I'm gonna faint" kinda way..No, I mean in the creepy "wtf is wrong with you" way. What could set this off? Perhaps this is a synastry question?? And it's not imaginary either. You just know with every single pore in your body that something is way off. IP: Logged |
astra7
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posted September 21, 2015 10:58 AM
Yes, definitely synastry thing.
You must have horrible synastry with that person. It's like when I had this horrible feeling about this person and when I looked, there was Sun sq Pluto! I'm sure that's not the only aspect, of course each to their own but Sun sq Pluto fitted well in that occasion.When I find a person who I loath, usually, there is a horrible synastry. So they may get on with other people and may be they are not the freak you think of but there is no point in trying to befriend them. lol IP: Logged |
sweet-scorpion
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posted September 21, 2015 12:30 PM
I find this to be a really interesting but challenging question. I've had synastries with supposedly excellent contacts, such as Venus and Jupiter conjunct my Moon (friendship) and Mars conjunct my Moon (romantic relationship) and they've been disastrous connections. In either of these relationships I didn't have tons of heavy Saturn or Pluto contacts going on either. A more accurate indicator of how two people will interact and the underlying vibe is the composite chart. For example: that friendship synastry I mentioned with all the positive contacts to my Moon? The composite was a wreck. Almost EVERY planet was in the 12th receiving a harsh inconjunct from Mars in Taurus. This friendship wasn't really a friendship at all - I forced myself to like this person for the sake of my loved one even though before I even met them I really disliked them just by how they were described. When we interacted in person, it was truly passive-aggressive, which goes with the 12th house energy in our composite. Saturn was also exactly square the Venus-Jupiter conjunction in the 12th. I has no feelings for them besides contempt, even though they tried to get closer to me. Eventually their true colors came out and I was right about them all along - I didn't exactly know why I instantly disliked them, since they seemed nice enough at first, but all their BS quickly came to the surface as I got to know them more and things didn't go their way. So: check that composite! It might provide some clues for as to why you just don't like someone instantly. ------------------
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astra7
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posted September 21, 2015 01:28 PM
So composit planets in 12th H is no good then.
*make a note to myself...* IP: Logged |
bluestskies88
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posted September 21, 2015 02:03 PM
not everything that irritates us about others is a 'bad' thing, they are trying to show us what needs to be looked at inside ourselves....
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hypatia238
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posted September 21, 2015 03:05 PM
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Originally posted by astra7:
So composit planets in 12th H is no good then.
*make a note to myself...*
The two most emotionally intense relationships I have had involve a 12th house stellium, I do have moon in pisces so naturally 12th house stelliums in composite make me feel very emotionally fulfilled in a relationship. She has a 12th house stellium in her composite with this person which is filled with inconjunctions to their composite MARS; the inconjunction to MARS from a STELLIUM is why she disliked this person so much IMO and not bc the stellium falls in the 12th, perhaps the 12th house energy makes it feel so she doesn't understand why she dislikes him. A 12th house stellium in composite is an indicator of karma and that this is a soulmate from a past life so her karma with this person is connected to mars somehow I would hypothesize since inconjunctions are also very karmic and could indicate that there may be a YOD in that composite. So concluding that 12th house stelliums are bad is missing the complexity of it, its not that simple. I would say this though that based on my personal experience although 12th house stelliums feel like a definite marker of a soulmate relationship and give this intense feeling of familiarity since they are karmic the relationship tends to end once the karma is paid but you never forget that person ever; they leave a mark in you forever and there will always be a special place in your heart for them. Stelliums in composite involving the water houses tend to involve strong feelings and create a deep bond IME and from what I have read. IP: Logged |
sweet-scorpion
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posted September 21, 2015 05:28 PM
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Originally posted by astra7:
So composit planets in 12th H is no good then.
*make a note to myself...*
Well, not always. In this case, for me and this person, we had a huge 12H sellium receiving stress aspects from Saturn and Mars...so it was a really negative 12H influence. We also had a 12H composite Sun which is particularly challenging. But having a composite 12H planet fostered positively by benefit planets like Jupiter may make the influence easier. It all depends on the two people involved and their individual charts as well...to show how well they would cope with a 12H themed composite. ------------------
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Soltze
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posted September 21, 2015 05:38 PM
About a packed composite seventh and eight? As everything is in there. It feels so tense I can't even breath in the room. It's not hot when you can't even keep a proper conversation because of the "vibes" :-DIP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted September 21, 2015 08:35 PM
My ex has moon in pisces too whom I have a beautiful stellium including the sun in the 12th.My other soulmate we had a stellium in the 12th and he has venus in the 12th and I moon in pisces. Hence 12th house stelliums make more sense for people with moon or venus in the 12th or in pisces but its like the relationship is not designed for this world and manifests in the physical world for a while but eventually "ends" and continues to live on in another dimension so the connection never dies. I have confirmed this with an intense astral travel experience I had with my ex last year. IP: Logged |
Geeky
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posted September 21, 2015 09:54 PM
Oh interesting. There is an acquaintance I know who keeps approaching me in public spaces and kind of cyber-stalking me, trying to force some friendship with me and I am NOT feeling it AT ALL. Her face just looks evil to me and that's terrible for me to say. I carry obsidian on me in part because of her.It would be interesting to see her chart, but I do not want to ask her for her stats. ------------------
“Most people would rather be sheep than stand on their own with antlers on.” IP: Logged |
bansheequeen
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posted September 22, 2015 06:20 AM
Synastry. BUT I have no idea what!!I actually dated someone that rubbed me the wrong way, simple because I was so passive and he was so aggressive that I started believing what he wanted me to believe. And I was going through a tough time I wanted an escape and he was just.. there. But he still really rubbed me the wrong way and I was always trying to find a way out. We actually kind of had "classically" good synastry. Sun trine. Water moons but they werent trine. Venus mars opp. Along with other aspects I dont remember but many people would say are classically great for a relationship and passion. But something wasnt right and I always felt a missing link and never felt close to him. I admit I used him to take away the pain from my life at the time, but still every pore of my body just did not like it. IP: Logged |
Faith
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posted September 22, 2015 11:44 AM
Nobody makes me extremely uncomfortable.If I think someone is messed up, I either don't deal with them at all, or I figure out a way to isolate and ignore the creepy part while focusing on whatever is personable about them. IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted September 23, 2015 09:58 PM
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Originally posted by Faith:
Nobody makes me extremely uncomfortable.If I think someone is messed up, I either don't deal with them at all, or I figure out a way to isolate and ignore the creepy part while focusing on whatever is personable about them.
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