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posted September 24, 2015 07:12 AM            

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Do you find librans, girls especially, have the toughest time to find love? Taking initiative to court doesn't work and waiting for the other to take initiative doesn't happen. Libra has it worst.

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posted September 24, 2015 07:17 AM            

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I have met a lot of single Leo lassies. Can't exactly say that about Libra though..

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posted September 24, 2015 07:23 AM            

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It can seem like that can't it? I don't like to generalise but I have commented to my scorpio friend (when she's moaning about having no men when there are several chasing her) that I could lie on the floor naked in the street and men would step over me to talk to her!
To be honest, I've become so disheartened that I've stopped looking, but I don't put it down to being libran.

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posted September 24, 2015 07:30 AM            

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Catch 22. If you had stopped looking, others blamed you for being closed up. If you opened up, nobody took the initiative and people saw you as desperate.

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posted September 24, 2015 07:36 AM            

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Lol..yes..if people ask I say I'm just taking a dating site break! I've done all the social stuff but it was breaking the bank. I was chatting to a guy online but that doesn't seem to be going anywhere so I look at it as it just isn't quite my time yet

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posted September 24, 2015 08:02 AM            

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Originally posted by FruitTreeFresh:
Catch 22. If you had stopped looking, others blamed you for being closed up. If you opened up, nobody took the initiative and people saw you as desperate.

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Lol, this is too true.

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posted September 24, 2015 08:24 AM            

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Generally speaking, I find Libra men to be VERY unserious.

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posted September 24, 2015 08:41 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
I have met a lot of single Leo lassies. Can't exactly say that about Libra though..

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At least many men are still willing to be the loyal fans of Leo ladies. They follow the Leo obediently behind and answer to their command. I haven't seen a Libra enjoy such royal treatment.

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posted September 24, 2015 08:43 AM            

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I don't think Libras got it worse, especially since they are supposed to be relationship oriented. Quite the contrary, Libras should be experts in relating, one way or anothed. As a matter of fact, I've met only one Libra female who is, let's say, permanently single, but she's got some problems with her religious views, so her case is a bit special. And when it comes to Libras not being good at making the first move - seriously?! I mean - seriously?!?? Libras are very tough and determined on the inside, even though they don't look the part. I've got a recent example of a Pisces friend of mine who never knew what hit him when a Libra woman got him into her clutches. She managed to make him fall over heels for her in a week! All her initiative, btw, even though she keeps telling him that she wants him to make a decision concerning their relationship.
Anyway, if you're having problems with getting into a relationship, maybe you should take a look at your Venus and your 5th (courting) and 7th (relationships) houses to look for more clues.

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posted September 24, 2015 08:44 AM            

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I agree with all your saying libra Venus/AC here....

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posted September 24, 2015 08:47 AM            

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Originally posted by Kibriana:
I don't think Libras got it worse, especially since they are supposed to be relationship oriented. Quite the contrary, Libras should be experts in relating, one way or anothed. As a matter of fact, I've met only one Libra female who is, let's say, permanently single, but she's got some problems with her religious views, so her case is a bit special. And when it comes to Libras not being good at making the first move - seriously?! I mean - seriously?!?? Libras are very tough and determined on the inside, even though they don't look the part. I've got a recent example of a Pisces friend of mine who never knew what hit him when a Libra woman got him into her clutches. She managed to make him fall over heels for her in a week! All her initiative, btw, even though she keeps telling him that she wants him to make a decision concerning their relationship.
Anyway, if you're having problems with getting into a relationship, maybe you should take a look at your Venus and your 5th (courting) and 7th (relationships) houses to look for more clues.

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She keeps telling him she wants him to make a decision concerning their relationship?

A girl shouldn't have to tell a guy that if he's truly head over heels in love!

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posted September 24, 2015 09:16 AM            

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My Aries Mars is in my fifth house. Jupiter in my seventh.

Has she fallen head over heels instead? No idea why she needs him to define the status of the relationship but my judgment deduced he has not liked her deep enough.

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posted September 24, 2015 11:41 AM            

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I'm afraid I'm of the opinion that if I'm having trouble meeting the right guys then it isn't an astrology problem..I probably need to get off my a**e and mingle ...lol

Edit...just to be clear this is purely aimed at myself! Don't want to offend, I just think my job, lifestyle, life experience etc play a larger part than my sunsign alone.

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posted September 24, 2015 04:50 PM            

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Originally posted by Gabby:
She keeps telling him she wants him to make a decision concerning their relationship?

A girl shouldn't have to tell a guy that if he's truly head over heels in love!

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Oh,sorry, I forgot to mention that it's one thing what she keeps telling him and a completely different thing what she's actually doing because the minute he tries to make a decision, she takes over the reins and stirs the relationship where she wants it to be. Anyway, what I wanted to say was that Libra women can take initiative to get a man. Most Libras are neither innocent nor helpless, they just need to learn how to use their power.

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posted September 25, 2015 12:07 AM            

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My sister has been single for life. lol. Maybe because she sees the hardship and the reality of my chaos relationship with this confusing Gem man. lol.

It's another story with some friends of mine who are always in relationship, never single, because they want to be married, they like the idea of partnership. Some even not compatible with their partner but keep it that way.

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