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Topic: Conjunct planets: Not always a good thing?
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Wondering Knowflake Posts: 57 From: USA Registered: Sep 2015
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posted September 24, 2015 04:52 PM
I've recently met someone that instantly, the chemistry was off the charts for us. We are both insanely attracted to each other and with his Mars in my 8th, it makes sense.However, I feel it's hard to talk to him. He is an Aquarius sun & Mars, Taurus moon, Capricorn mercury, and Pisces Venus. Our moon and Mercury are conjunct but I feel it is hard to talk to him. We both love having deep conversations and can talk about anything, but I feel the way he talks can sometimes be a little dry. It makes me feel awkward at times when I say certain things because I'm not sure how he will react / think. I've never felt it hard to talk to anyone else but him and it's weird. I feel our conjunct Mercury could be a bit of a problem but I'm not sure. He's the first Cap Mercury I've ever talked to (that I know of). Do any of you have any advice on how to communicate with someone like this? We've been talking for a while now, so I know I have his interests but I feel there's a potential that we aren't reaching due to some block.
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Belage Knowflake Posts: 1683 From: USA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 24, 2015 10:55 PM
does his Saturn or pLuto sqare your mercury or moon? Personally I think unless Saturn is involved, conjunct planets are great! IP: Logged |
hearttreasure Knowflake Posts: 89 From: Registered: Jan 2015
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posted September 24, 2015 11:43 PM
One of my male best friend an Aqua sun, Cap mercury and venus, we hang out a lot, well, he is the one who asks me to hang out most of the time. I have aqua mercury and pisces venus. At first, it was never an easy smooth conversation, it was dry and a lot of silence. But if you patiently enough build the friendship first, you can talk about anything to him, he will response to any conversation, although rarely he will try to start the conversation if it's not fascinated him. Just be yourself.IP: Logged |
stillatlarge Knowflake Posts: 536 From: TX Registered: Nov 2010
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posted September 25, 2015 12:38 AM
I've gone through the same thing with Aqua/Taurean. The only thing I can say that has worked is putting myself out there and being very honest about my feelings. It still sucks right now but I have noticed that much.IP: Logged |
Sylven Knowflake Posts: 135 From: Netherlands Registered: Nov 2014
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posted September 25, 2015 12:57 AM
quote: Originally posted by Belage: does his Saturn or pLuto sqare your mercury or moon? Personally I think unless Saturn is involved, conjunct planets are great!
Yes! I was thinking the same! I hate when someone's Saturn hits my Mercury!
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Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 2408 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted September 25, 2015 01:15 AM
Post both your charts...IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 13169 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted September 25, 2015 08:13 AM
Capricorn Mercury unsettles me sometimes...even when it's conjunct my sun. Especially if it's a man's Mercury on my sun. I understand where they are coming from intellectually, but their emotions are virtually impossible for me to track. So when they go silent I may assume they are sulking, judging, or ignoring me, which may not be the case at all. But I can't shake that feeling, so I have ended up not talking to them very much, even if I like them a lot. ETA: It sounds weird, since I get along fine with female Cap Mercuries, but this might be a dealbreaker aspect for me, if I were ever single again. Cap Mercury triggers my insecurities, and I just don't want to deal with it. Please don't quote, I may delete this later. I usually don't come out against any placement...but this is my honest prejudice. IP: Logged |
Wondering Knowflake Posts: 57 From: USA Registered: Sep 2015
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posted September 25, 2015 12:56 PM
His Saturn, Pluto, and Moon are all in the same sign as mine!Lol so I don't think his Saturn is squaring anything in my chart but I would have to go back and look at our synastry just to be sure. Faith, that's exactly how I feel. I understand him intellectually and really do like him. We have a lot in common and share the same interests / goals, but I just don't understand how to have that emotional connection. I too feel that he may be judging me. Logically, I know he's not but it feels weird. I don't want to cut him off but it seems I might have to. We were talking yesterday and had an in depth conversation which led to him flirting and talking. About his bedroom skills.. Lol .. Then I asked him straight up do you want to hook up? He replied "Hell yeah" ... I don't really want a friends with benefits type thing but don't want to come across as mushy so I just never responded to his text IP: Logged |
Belage Knowflake Posts: 1683 From: USA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 25, 2015 04:52 PM
quote: Originally posted by Belage: does his Saturn or pLuto sqare your mercury or moon? Personally I think unless Saturn is involved, conjunct planets are great!
I need to revise what I said and add Uranus conjunction to Venus which is not a good thing if one is looking for stability and commitment. IP: Logged |