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frankie2912
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posted October 04, 2015 04:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for frankie2912     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am with a man who has natal Venus in Scorpio square Mars in Aquarius. His Sun and Pluto are also in Scorpio conjunct his Venus, therefore also square his Mars.

Well, that intense and INSANE square is triggered by MY Venus/ASC/Pluto in Scorpio.

I have never had better sex in my life. Our chemistry is explosive. But I've also never had a man push my buttons the way he does, and not in a good way. He makes me violent and feel crazy. He is intense on EVERY level.

He makes me want to bash his face and then kiss it and cuddle him to make him feel better. I read somewhere that natal Venus sq Mars is the "Demanding Lover". That ain't no f*cking joke. My GOD.

I may expand on this later. I'm really tired right now but I just wanted to ask, how the hell does a person deal with this?

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posted October 04, 2015 04:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Cappi112     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well, be aware that the volatility is there and find outlets to not let it grow.

I believe with some people who trigger us, we have to learn to bite our tongues and avoid confrontations - it sounds counterintuitive and unhealthy, but it's an awareness of the kind of beast you're dealing with.

You don't poke a sleeping bear with a stick. You could poke a sleeping domesticated dog or kitten with one. Know what I mean?

And, also, just because that intensity is magnetic and makes you want to be with him doesn't mean you should. That energy could be hard to manage - relationships are hard, but TOO hard is possible.

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posted October 05, 2015 07:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for frankie2912     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You do have a good point. I think it's important to channel that tension to more creative/positive outlets. We are still trying to figure out how to do that.

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posted October 05, 2015 07:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for angel4845     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by frankie2912:
I am with a man who has natal Venus in Scorpio square Mars in Aquarius. His Sun and Pluto are also in Scorpio conjunct his Venus, therefore also square his Mars.

Well, that intense and INSANE square is triggered by MY Venus/ASC/Pluto in Scorpio.

I have never had better sex in my life. Our chemistry is explosive. But I've also never had a man push my buttons the way he does, and not in a good way. He makes me violent and feel crazy. He is intense on EVERY level.

He makes me want to bash his face and then kiss it and cuddle him to make him feel better. I read somewhere that natal Venus sq Mars is the "Demanding Lover". That ain't no f*cking joke. My GOD.

I may expand on this later. I'm really tired right now but I just wanted to ask, how the hell does a person deal with this?


i' m not quite sure because i know a guy who has natal venus square his mars BUT however its MUTABLE. he's a venus in virgo mars in gemini and trust me he is not demanding at all, he has been single for a long time and has only had 1 girlfriend he's 25 and very handsome i have to say.

omg can i see your composite and your synastry frankie? im really curious to see what great sex aspects you have that can trigger this obsessive potent 'love' i' d love to give you a reading

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posted October 05, 2015 08:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for StubbornVirgo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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posted October 05, 2015 09:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for angel4845     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by StubbornVirgo:
I have Venus in Virgo square Mars in Gemini too. I also have Venus square Moon in Gemini, Mercury in Virgo square Moon & Mars. My Sun in Virgo squares my Moon & Mars by sign.

Signs don't matter that much. Okay, they do in the sense of, he's likely internalizing the conflict of his square because that's just the nature of Virgo, to a certain extent. But on the other hand, something (i.e. transit) or someone (a Virgo, Gemini, Pisces or Sagittarius placement aspecting his square) can and will set off his square. I highly doubt that his conflict is as volatile as the OP's experience, and is more likely to be verbal arguments/conflicts, nagging, criticism, sarcasm, etc. But he is not exempt from it because of his mutable nature because the basic problematic nature of the square is still there.


omg so true stubborn virgo he can be very verbal abusive and create conflicts a lot and he's veeeeeery critical at least he was WITH ME....which is why i decided to let go of him. actually he did tell me that with this first girlfriend he was very critical with her and of her but he didn't mean to he said it was part of his personality. i've asked him like if he is the possessive obsessive kind when he loves someone and he says he's not but he could be lying....who knows he's a really hard guy to figure out. He's single still because he still feels a connection with his ex girlfriend and won't admit it i can see that for sure because its been 4 years since they broke up and he is still meeting up with her and SHE totally broke his heart but again he won't admit it, he a guy with strong PRIDE.

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posted October 05, 2015 10:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for frankie2912     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by angel4845:
i' m not quite sure because i know a guy who has natal venus square his mars BUT however its MUTABLE. he's a venus in virgo mars in gemini and trust me he is not demanding at all, he has been single for a long time and has only had 1 girlfriend he's 25 and very handsome i have to say.

omg can i see your composite and your synastry frankie? im really curious to see what great sex aspects you have that can trigger this obsessive potent 'love' i' d love to give you a reading


Maybe it does have a little to do with the signs involved..or it could be because in my BF's case, his Sun-Pluto conjunction is also involved. Does Pluto not play a role in the man you're speaking of?

And yes, of course you can see our synastry and composite! I know everyone on here is usually very interested in hot sexual aspects between people so our chart might be a good thing to take a look at. It is amazing sex...really raw yet intimate at the same time. I would share the dirty details because I'm pretty open and blunt lol but I know more sensitive and younger people on here might get offended. Let me just say our tension manifests amazingly in sex, but violently in other ways. He is the first man I've ever taken anger out on physically (I shoved him twice and punched him once. No i'm NOT proud of it. I'm just being honest here.) He has never, ever hit me...but he does like to yell and play the victim and make up crazy stories that never even happened.


Synastry (he's on the outside):

Composite:


BTW I am not intending for this thread to be moved to Interpersonal! I am open to everyone's opinions and experiences on the Venus sq Mars aspect in both natal and synastry. I don't know how natives feel having it throughout their whole lives. I have the trine and I'm pretty easy going...unless triggered by this crazy sh*t

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posted October 05, 2015 10:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for angel4845     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by frankie2912:
Maybe it does have a little to do with the signs involved..or it could be because in my BF's case, his Sun-Pluto conjunction is also involved. Does Pluto not play a role in the man you're speaking of?

And yes, of course you can see our synastry and composite! I know everyone on here is usually very interested in hot sexual aspects between people so our chart might be a good thing to take a look at. It is amazing sex...really raw yet intimate at the same time. I would share the dirty details because I'm pretty open and blunt lol but I know more sensitive and younger people on here might get offended. Let me just say our tension manifests amazingly in sex, but violently in other ways. He is the first man I've ever taken anger out on physically (I shoved him twice and punched him once. No i'm NOT proud of it. I'm just being honest here.) He has never, ever hit me...but he does like to yell and play the victim and make up crazy stories that never even happened.


Frankie, You can tell me anything and omg don't feel so hard on yourself for pushing him and taking your anger out on him OMG i' m the same way with my girlfriend so i totally UNDERSTAND YOU. OMG i wish i knew all the details so i can precisely examine this in front of me better. but yes we have to keep it PG here disney movie PG...

can you also post that aspect table as well in the synastry between you and him?? i love the aspect table a lot but if its too hard to see i understand.

the guy I'm speaking he has his pluto sextile his mercury,sun, and saturn R. that the only connection he has with pluto. HOWEVER pluto is conjunct his JUNO in the 8th house in scorpio. Ruler of his 8th house ruler is PLUTO which is aspecting sun,mercury, and saturn R like i said before

frankie im gonna take a look at your synastry and composite tonight and tmrw, ill be gazing at it and write what i see that i LOVE and what i think is HAWT !

IF you can i would love to see where your LILITH"s ARE my friend....and h22 priapus. cause lilith is super raw when it comes to sexuality and tantra and priapus as well i love priapus its HAWT IMO.

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posted October 06, 2015 12:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for frankie2912     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Here ya go...the table and the chart with both Liliths and Priapus...I know nothing about that asteroid at all!


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posted October 09, 2015 12:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for angel4845     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Frankie,

I've been so busy lately and ran into horrible things that happened this week!

Anyways.....looking at your synastry between you and him. your chart ruler (pluto) is in the 12th house conjunct his sun in the 5th which his sun is his 6 RULER. sun conjunct pluto can be very transformative and intense especially romantically as well. he definitely feels the pull A LOT and there is strong fascination within each other and he totally has you off your heels since this is YOUR CHART RULER he brings out the spiritual side from you, but other then that i see this as a deep unconscious spiritual intense obsessive fascination between the two of you and this makes you feel like he's hit home with your sense of purpose since he's connecting to your chart ruler (pluto).

Not ONLY is his sun & pluto conjunct your pluto (chart ruler) BUT also his VENUS R......this is indeed intense i count that as a conjunction definitely ESPECIALLY his sun and venus and pluto on your ASC, that is really crazy and intense to see WOW! your chart ruler and your ASCENDANT is being aspected and that's AMAZING. any planets conjunct the angle's is far more intense in IMO! because there the most important parts of our life the angles. his sun, pluto and venus on your ascendant says he finds you definitely attractive and fascinating he is just MEZMORIZED BY YOU ! LITERALLY! hahaha but anyways venus conjunct pluto is HAWT that's crazy ultimate intense S E X AND L O V E PASSION!!! on top his sun and venus on your ASC which even makes it MORE FASCINATION on his part.

you have a nice overlay here your VENUS in his 5th house CONJUNCT his 6th house CUSP that's a sweet house overlay, your chart ruler venus you are experiencing his 5th house through venusian lens and and he is feeling this from you through his 6th house do you feel this way by the way?? tell me about you venus conjunct his 6th house cusp? how are you experiencing that?

what realllllyyy finds me intriguing is your 8th RULER mercury in the 2nd house that is conjunct his DESC tells me a lot where the crazy sexual fascination is coming from. cause again your 8th ruler is where you find yourself very intimate and private with someone and since that is your mercury in the 2nd house, when someone touches your mercury which is your 8 ruler in the 2nd house you are bound to feel like that person has something to offer you, is attractively mysterious, intellectually satisfying are you possibly into adventurous possibly maybe even foreign people?? I'm sure he's into foreign people i could be wrong but I'm pretty positive he would enjoy a life partner who is different from the culture norm and/or society that he lives in or possible someone who is very honest and straight forward he enjoys. since your 8th RULER is touching his DESC he definitely is feeling like YOU represent the ideal life partner when it comes to your communication and most deep intense secrets and your most deep intense inner sub conscious soul he is so drawn towards to and he finds that extremely attractive and not just that but he finds that as something IDEAL in a wife because your mercury is conjunct his DESC and he is viewing your mercury through this DESC lens. You also find him quite fascinating as well when it comes to communication i don't want to be too revealing here but possibly you both enjoy "talking" in the "bedroom...some form of communication that goes on in the bedroom....cause again your 8th RULER mercury on his DESC....he may enjoy the fact that you can be possessive with him and/or thinks your voice is beautiful, pleasing in some ways and may enjoy that you are far curious in terms of the occult, philosophy, psychology, values in life. you value communication most definitely and he finds that as something ideal in a life partner and finds that very attractive in the longterm partner way.

your priapus conjuncts his neptune that's very indeed making you very sexually aroused i bet. his neptunian side arouses you does it? he's got neptune in the 7th house which is indeed a 7th house planet that describes that he is exactly looking for in a wife or life partner or committed partner if i shall say and your priapus is on it which is a real sensitive spot for you when it comes to making you super turned on sexually to the point of possibly an orgasm.... hahahaha! if NOT if I'm wrong about this i mean his neptune is a huge turn on for you sexually that's for sure....there's a telepathic connection here that causes you to get so turned on by him. PLUS yes you are feeling the arousal a lot but OMG your 5th RULER neptune is right on his neptune as well he definetely turns you on romantically and sexually intensely.

sun sextile sun is sweet you got there your ego's are at harmony unless its afflicted i shall take a look...

i have a question for you i' m seeing your saturn i your 2nd house conjunct your moon did you have some financial problems with your parents? did they force you to grow up? are you financially stable and had to work really hard for it?? i' m seeing your parents involved especially the mother....or maybe did they impact to not make you feel like you can have VALUE for your own EMOTIONS?? I'm seeing the emotions as something that is pulling you back to express yourself and this is connected to finance or having WORTH for your own emotions, valuing and putting priority for yourself emotionally...

he's got lilith on his ASC.....this tells me another thing that explains why he is intense..ill come back to this later i've got to really contemplate on this one.

will type out more after you respond. Also you didn't include the VERTEX that's super important as well its the point that makes us feel when we meet someone that it was DESTINED to happen like "OMG I NEVER WOULD'VE THOUGHT I WOULD MEET THIS PERSON IN MY LIFE!" that's the feeling of when someone touches your vertex.
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posted October 09, 2015 01:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for frankie2912     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
angel4845 ,

wow what a great interpretation! you were spot on with pretty much everything you said!

to answer a few of your questions..

I'm not really sure how I feel with the 6th house/Venus conjunction as I don't fully understand the 6th house. I love doing everyday things with him and he wants me to work with him LOL...maybe that's it. We enjoy spending every single moment together.

I do like foreign people a lot, and he is from a different cultural background than me (he is Mexican-American) and he likes that I am a white girl from a totally different upbringing lol. Also, yes we do like talking in the bedroom

As far as my Saturn in the 2nd goes, I didn't grow up with financial problems and I never had to grow up too fast. But my parents did work their ***** off. There was some stifling of positive emotion in our household. I have trouble opening up to people in romantic relationships as it makes me feel vulnerable. This is something that REALLY bothers my boyfriend. It caused a lot of fights with us at the beginning when he felt I was too closed off.

VERTEX: My 8th house Vertex closely conjuncts his ASC! His 5th house Vertex is conjunct his Venus and closely conjuncts my ASC.. wow! No wonder we had such a "fated" meeting. I could tell you the weird things surrounding our meeting. It definitely felt meant to be. It was really special to both of us.

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posted October 09, 2015 01:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for stillatlarge     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Will you look at mine, please, Angel?

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posted October 11, 2015 10:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for angel4845     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Will you look at mine, please, Angel?

Yes I can look at yours do you wanna start another thread?

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posted October 11, 2015 11:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for angel4845     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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angel4845 ,

wow what a great interpretation! you were spot on with pretty much everything you said!

to answer a few of your questions..

I'm not really sure how I feel with the 6th house/Venus conjunction as I don't fully understand the 6th house. I love doing everyday things with him and he wants me to work with him LOL...maybe that's it. We enjoy spending every single moment together.

I do like foreign people a lot, and he is from a different cultural background than me (he is Mexican-American) and he likes that I am a white girl from a totally different upbringing lol. Also, yes we do like talking in the bedroom

As far as my Saturn in the 2nd goes, I didn't grow up with financial problems and I never had to grow up too fast. But my parents did work their ***** off. There was some stifling of positive emotion in our household. I have trouble opening up to people in romantic relationships as it makes me feel vulnerable. This is something that REALLY bothers my boyfriend. It caused a lot of fights with us at the beginning when he felt I was too closed off.

VERTEX: My 8th house Vertex closely conjuncts his ASC! His 5th house Vertex is conjunct his Venus and closely conjuncts my ASC.. wow! No wonder we had such a "fated" meeting. I could tell you the weird things surrounding our meeting. It definitely felt meant to be. It was really special to both of us.


omg ! that sounds awesome you both have that in synastry with your vertex conjunct his ASC that's so nice oh that makes sense in regards to your saturn in the 2nd house thanks for the feedback i wish we could chat on messenger but ugghhhh LL doesn't let us ;(

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