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Topic: Healer aspects and questions
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hannaramaa
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posted October 08, 2015 12:41 AM
  
Do you have to be glowy and ethereal to be a healer? Do you have to be a positive ray of sunshine to everybody? Or are you like me who goes about their business wanting the same things everyone else wants but ending up completely changed after they happen? As a (poor) example I had a best friend who was a Cancer back in high school. He was infamous for cutting people out of his life - deleting them from Facebook, changing phone numbers, ignoring their pleas for closure. Well, eventually he grew out of it but I began that and I still haven't grown out of it (at least people don't "plea" with me lol). Or how all of my exes are now losing weight and look great, one in particular who during our 6 month separation I had strongly thought about and hoped he was taking care of his health - voila! 85 lbs. down. ME? My health and habits have only gotten worse. It's like the worse I do the better they get but it feels different than simply competing to succeed at life. Thoughts about this?! I thought it might be the Neptune and Pluto in my chart. Maybe my Saturn squares too. Saturn can't HEAL though, can he? IP: Logged |
bansheequeen
Knowflake Posts: 1366
From: Beachville, USA
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted October 08, 2015 02:56 AM
Virgo heals.I dont know. Maybe chiron in the 6th or on the midheaven. Chiron conj north node? Something involving chiron, north node and the midheaven or 6th house or involving virgo. The fact that THEY heal but you dont, maybe check south node too. Neptune absorbs but it also lets go and transforms. Virgo is more of a martyr than pisces as pisces will transform while they heal as well. Pluto does have a tendancy of "poisoning" you and is karmic. Like if you wish ill on someone and 10x bad things happen to you. But with healing? I dont know. Maybe check the synastry. There could be karmic aspects (which I dont know much about) that is hindering you while the other person is improving at your expense. This happens to plutonic people I think, they either come out really great or they come out really worse. Or your plutonian outlook can be poisoning you by comparing yourself and feeling like they are doing better than you.. Totally plutonic to be unable to let go (not necessarily of the person, an idea or stalking them with no interest etc) and becoming poisoned by it. It is only when pluto lets go that they can undergo transformation and invite good vibes. IP: Logged |
Soltze
Knowflake Posts: 710
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Registered: Mar 2015
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posted October 08, 2015 05:32 AM
You don't have to be all about rainbows and light to be a healer.
A healer can be a guide and a revealer who shows people what they try to ignore in order to put them in the right track for personal growth.
The best healers are the ones with the biggest demons and inner turmoil...the ones who dealt with all the cr*p and managed to renew and better themselves ;-) Somehow, my friends come to me for advice and I manage to help. Sometimes really wise stuff come out of my mouth. But it's like it isn't me saying it. It's just inspiration, coming from somewhere else. I know I don't have much value as a person. But it's okay it doesn't upset me.
I just can't solve my own chaos and fix myself at all. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
Moderator Posts: 10431
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Registered: Nov 2011
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posted October 08, 2015 08:54 AM
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Originally posted by bansheequeen:
Virgo heals.I dont know. Maybe chiron in the 6th or on the midheaven. Chiron conj north node? Something involving chiron, north node and the midheaven or 6th house or involving virgo. The fact that THEY heal but you dont, maybe check south node too. Neptune absorbs but it also lets go and transforms. Virgo is more of a martyr than pisces as pisces will transform while they heal as well. Pluto does have a tendancy of "poisoning" you and is karmic. Like if you wish ill on someone and 10x bad things happen to you. But with healing? I dont know. Maybe check the synastry. There could be karmic aspects (which I dont know much about) that is hindering you while the other person is improving at your expense. This happens to plutonic people I think, they either come out really great or they come out really worse. Or your plutonian outlook can be poisoning you by comparing yourself and feeling like they are doing better than you.. Totally plutonic to be unable to let go (not necessarily of the person, an idea or stalking them with no interest etc) and becoming poisoned by it. It is only when pluto lets go that they can undergo transformation and invite good vibes.
I have Chiron in the 1st and Virgo SN. I've never been one who wishes ill on people from my core at least. Like if you were comparing me and my old Scorpio friend - she would wish it on them to their dying day. I can see myself wishing that while I'm mad but after I understand the situation, nah not really. That's not to say I think it's ironic when a negative thought about someone pops in my head and there's no justification for it other than to be sh.tty ...I stub my toe. But I also believe that's part of the mind-body connection and not some kind of "karma." Interesting note about Pluto though, I have it in my 5th house and it opposes my Moon. I have given up on synastry so far because no one ever knows their birth time or thinks I'm weird for asking. I do stalk with no interest, it's a bad habit. IP: Logged | |
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