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posted October 25, 2015 03:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mars/Pluto Emperor     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
In my previous Post I was talkin about Jupiter in the 8th,but now I wana talk about Mars in the 7th!!

There hasn't been a lot of sources with useful information about Mars In this particular House,so basically I'm asking anyone who has tell me their experience with it and how it affects you.

From what I heard,Mars in the 7th (Angular house,Libras house) means you will have conflicts with partners and open enemies.i always see myself in.a power struggle with people,and usually I just have this need of eliminating them whenever they are in my way.Does anyone know how does Mars in 7th work in terms of Business Pursuits?

Mars in Pisces 7th house

Aspects:
Mars Square Pluto 0 orb
Mars Trine Moon 2 orb
Mars Sextile Saturn 2 orb
Mars Square MC (wide)
Mars opposite AS (wide)

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Doux Rêve
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posted October 25, 2015 04:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I may not be the best candidate since my Mars sits in the 6H and conjuncts my DSC rather widely (5°), and it's not in the same sign.

However it still applies, just in roundabout ways.

I think for me, it's played out in various ways that I'm not sure I have really figured out yet. So this is bound to be pretty long and not super coherent.

For instance, I consider myself to be a peaceful-loving, conflict-avoidant person, who just wants everyone to get along. The idea of conflict in a relationship (or in any situation, really) makes me uncomfortable and even downright sick.

And yet... Once I do find myself closely relating to someone, inevitably there's some sort of conflict, not necessarily initiated by me (although that's possible), and generally not "loud" (my Mars is in Scorpio - there's no screaming or shouting, or throwing of insults (or throwing of anything for that matter). The only exception to this is the relationship with my mother, who is very loud and explosive, but she's gotten better with time).

It's more like... tension which eventually builds up to such a point that a drastic change is made in the relationship (often for the worse - as in, it dissolves completely because of pent up anger that turns into resentment and cannot be worked with).

Apparently I have a passive-aggressive side to me which makes it very hard for me to say what bothers me in someone's actions. So I just let frustration build up inside and then boom. It's too much and I just bring it up in such a way that ends the whole thing.

But don't forget that's mainly because my Mars is very afflicted (many squares), so its energy doesn't flow easily or naturally in my case. It's bound to be disruptive.

The other thing is that, perhaps on a subconscious level, I feel an attraction toward people who seem like the strong type, but instead of being the "healthy" strong, they're the "unhealthy" strong (which sounds like an oxymoron anyway), that is, they'll be unnecessarily forceful in their interactions with me (or with people in general), or sometimes aggressive or bad-tempered, etc. (Again, this is explained by the squares to my Mars.)

That's why it's often stated that Mars in the 7H/conjunct the DSC can end up in abusive relationships/situations. There's a propensity to seek dominant partners who can overstep boundaries, or/and act in that same manner.

The problem is that if the person with the 7H Mars always hangs around people who are like himself - calm, peaceful, and on the downside: who cannot assert themselves or stand up for themselves, or express anger in healthy ways - then there's no growth, there's no challenge. That Mars will never be worked with because it's going to remain a projection and won't be integrated, for there is no need to use it (why would you want to defend yourself against people who aren't attacking you?)

So by attracting people who act in "aggressive" or simply "threatening" ways (and that is indeed very subjective), they (we) can learn how to use our own Martian energy. Of course that doesn't mean we have to put up with such people, and we can (and usually do?) walk away from such situations, but still there's a subconscious attraction to "strong" types and in the case of an afflicted Mars, to those who misuse Martian energy (at least partly).

This is a side-note, and I am not sure if it's entirely related to Mars conj. the DSC, but I feel much more dynamic and motivated in life when I have a partner; although every kind of conflict in my relationship will have a direct effect on that (highs and lows). (My Venus is in Libra so that might add to it.)
I feel like my energy levels are directly related to my feeling "connected" to someone, and that really sucks because relationships don't come easily to me, and I feel like I (subconsciously) rely too much on them to make me feel "alive" and like I want to do things in life.

And the last thing is that my sex drive is absolutely dormant unless I'm in some sort of romantic relationship. (I don't think that applies to other Mars/DSC people though.)

Can't speak of business pursuits though, sorry.

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posted October 25, 2015 05:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mars/Pluto Emperor     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
I may not be the best candidate since my Mars sits in the 6H and conjuncts my DSC rather widely (5°), and it's not in the same sign.

However it still applies, just in roundabout ways.

I think for me, it's played out in various ways that I'm not sure I have really figured out yet. So this is bound to be pretty long and not super coherent.

For instance, I consider myself to be a peaceful-loving, conflict-avoidant person, who just wants everyone to get along. The idea of conflict in a relationship (or in any situation, really) makes me uncomfortable and even downright sick.

And yet... Once I do find myself closely relating to someone, inevitably there's some sort of conflict, not necessarily initiated by me (although that's possible), and generally not "loud" (my Mars is in Scorpio - there's no screaming or shouting, or throwing of insults (or throwing of anything for that matter). The only exception to this is the relationship with my mother, who is very loud and explosive, but she's gotten better with time).

It's more like... tension which eventually builds up to such a point that a drastic change is made in the relationship (often for the worse - as in, it dissolves completely because of pent up anger that turns into resentment and cannot be worked with).

Apparently I have a passive-aggressive side to me which makes it very hard for me to say what bothers me in someone's actions. So I just let frustration build up inside and then boom. It's too much and I just bring it up in such a way that ends the whole thing.

But don't forget that's mainly because my Mars is very afflicted (many squares), so its energy doesn't flow easily or naturally in my case. It's bound to be disruptive.

The other thing is that, perhaps on a subconscious level, I feel an attraction toward people who seem like the strong type, but instead of being the "healthy" strong, they're the "unhealthy" strong (which sounds like an oxymoron anyway), that is, they'll be unnecessarily forceful in their interactions with me (or with people in general), or sometimes aggressive or bad-tempered, etc. (Again, this is explained by the squares to my Mars.)

That's why it's often stated that Mars in the 7H/conjunct the DSC can end up in abusive relationships/situations. There's a propensity to seek dominant partners who can overstep boundaries, or/and act in that same manner.

The problem is that if the person with the 7H Mars always hangs around people who are like himself - calm, peaceful, and on the downside: who cannot assert themselves or stand up for themselves, or express anger in healthy ways - then there's no growth, there's no challenge. That Mars will never be worked with because it's going to remain a projection and won't be integrated, for there is no need to use it (why would you want to defend yourself against people who aren't attacking you?)

So by attracting people who act in "aggressive" or simply "threatening" ways (and that is indeed very subjective), they (we) can learn how to use our own Martian energy. Of course that doesn't mean we have to put up with such people, and we can (and usually do?) walk away from such situations, but still there's a subconscious attraction to "strong" types and in the case of an afflicted Mars, to those who misuse Martian energy (at least partly).

This is a side-note, and I am not sure if it's entirely related to Mars conj. the DSC, but I feel much more dynamic and motivated in life when I have a partner; although every kind of conflict in my relationship will have a direct effect on that (highs and lows). (My Venus is in Libra so that might add to it.)
I feel like my energy levels are directly related to my feeling "connected" to someone, and that really sucks because relationships don't come easily to me, and I feel like I (subconsciously) rely too much on them to make me feel "alive" and like I want to do things in life.

And the last thing is that my sex drive is absolutely dormant unless I'm in some sort of romantic relationship. (I don't think that applies to other Mars/DSC people though.)

Can't speak of business pursuits though, sorry.


This is actually a very insightful POV! I really never liked hanging out with people who are peaceful,as much as I hate saying this,but....I don't consider them as a person,as in I consider them as objects, "chess pieces" to be more accurate.This sounds like a horrible way of thinking,but I only like hanging out with people who has initiative like me,I have a Girlfriend who Has a Mars in Cancer,I Have a Mars in Pisces,We get along very well and understand each other,but we tend to argue a lot and I tend to want to be dominant in the relationship (Mars/Pluto supports this power-hunger lol)

She Tends to Play Power-Struggles with me,in which at the end no one really wins because of our stubbornness (I'm a Capricorn,She's a Cancer,imagine that LOL) and when she does I get so angry and sometimes turn cold towards her.

But I can see Mars in The 7th having initiative,basically being diplomatic In relationships,knows how to get along with the boss,and really Loves solving things Diplomatically.

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posted October 25, 2015 06:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for unforgiven_soul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have Mars in the 7th house in Libra. I usually tend to have conflicts with my partners, or we love debating, keeps us hyper/alive. They also tend to be with Scorpio traits. An astrologer once told me that I'm determined and strong against my enemies, they fear me, which is true. I hate making enemies (Libra), but when I do I'm about to play tough. In business, Mars in the 7th can be a good soldier fighting for the main goal of the partnership. Check where is Aries and Scorpio in your chart (houses).

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posted October 25, 2015 08:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mars/Pluto Emperor     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by unforgiven_soul:
I have Mars in the 7th house in Libra. I usually tend to have conflicts with my partners, or we love debating, keeps us hyper/alive. They also tend to be with Scorpio traits. An astrologer once told me that I'm determined and strong against my enemies, they fear me, which is true. I hate making enemies (Libra), but when I do I'm about to play tough. In business, Mars in the 7th can be a good soldier fighting for the main goal of the partnership. Check where is Aries and Scorpio in your chart (houses).


This is my natal chart,Aries is in the 8th,and Scorpio is in the 3rd,which is empty. How would a Mars in Pisces 7th house work? Would it still be Determined and strong? Honestly I never really related to the stereotype mars in pisces,so I'm assuming square pluto and sextile saturn (both tight) would probably give me that manipulative,power-hungry attitude

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posted October 26, 2015 09:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Yanmorg     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have mars in Sagittarius in the 7th conjunct Pluto in the 6th.

Pluto rules my 7th house.
Aries rules my 12th house.

Mars and Pluto both are opposite my Ascendant.

I also have a Sun-Pluto conjunction in Scorpio.

I JUST realized, as a matter of fact, as I was typing this post, that my ego is tied up in all of my relationships with men. It doesn't help that Saturn squares my Sun, Mars, and ASC either.

I have a hard time putting my faith and trust in others.

My relationships are my only real source of motivation. Money will only make me budge a little bit and forget a fabulous career or future personal goals. If it doesn't involve a relationship, I'm not very interested.

It's a horrible trait when it comes to my independence and self-esteem. I feel so lost and helpless without a partner sometimes. I blame my libra moon for this as well.

Strictly mars in the 7th, I think it makes a person very driven in their relationships. Relationships motivate us to act, whether good or bad. Depending on other aspects, I guess this will determine "open enemies" or "loving relationships".

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Doux Rêve
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posted October 26, 2015 12:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yanmorg,

I'd like to talk to you in private, would that be okay? We have very similar charts and I'd be interested to talk about some things with you, especially about this Mars 7H topic.

If you're up for it, you can send me an email, my address is in my profile.

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