posted October 28, 2015 03:12 PM            

For Venus in Pisces

1) In love and relationships, how do you express your love? Are you the initiator?

2) Do you get jealous easily, are you possessive? Do you want to keep your s.o to yourself only?

3) How important is space to you? Would you prefer your partner to give you some space and privacy to you from time to time?

4) What are the most important things, deal breakers, to you in a relationship?

For Mars in Virgo

1) How do you express your anger? Are you more likely to openly communicate and try to solve a problem, or be more passive aggressive?

2) What angers you the most?

3) What is your attitude towards sex? Are you open minded, and positive? What are your expectations, etc.

4) Your general opinion on how this placement affects you

posted October 28, 2015 03:53 PM            

For Mars in Virgo

1) How do you express your anger? Are you more likely to openly communicate and try to solve a problem, or be more passive aggressive?

i don't like blowing my lid. i do it sometimes when i'm at home and alone. but in public when facing a situation i don't. because frankly anger is an emotion and emotions are temporary. so when facing a huge problem where i have to make a good decision so meaning practical decision i block out the emotions as much as i can. so i reduce anger to irritation. then i just go into efficient mode. i analyse the situation and sort out a plan and a few back ups, analyse said plans and do a pros and con, make a decision on which is best and make it happen. the best way to describe my mars in virgo and my mate's mars in virgo is that when it comes to sorting things out theres only one way to explain how we go about it - with military efficiency.

2) What angers you the most?

people with no common sense and people trying to tell me that my way is wrong when i know for sure it's right but they won't listen (all though it's not so bad when i end up right in the end - i generally don't open my trap unless i'm sure so when i say something people better listen)

3) What is your attitude towards sex? Are you open minded, and positive? What are your expectations, etc.

i like it wild and passionate. fusion (this may be my venus in scorpio).. it's a messy thing to do though. i would prefer post shower sex. i don't like the idea of post clubbing one night stands. all that nasty sweat getting into our bits.. ew. plus in terms of health - all my sexual partners need to get checked. so no one night stands for me. i don't do that. too scared of STDs etc.

i like my guys very clean in terms of hygiene but after that i like them kinky, nasty and very dominant. so getting dirty together yes but showing up dirty and getting dirtier - no. yes open minded. positive - yup. i enjoy the whole damn thing from beginning to end so i find whether i orgasm isn't as big of an issue than it is with my mates with their mars somewhere else.

4) Your general opinion on how this placement affects you
i adore it. like i said above military efficiency. it's like mars but james bond-i-fied. we show up, we analyse like no other!, we find the problem, we give you a step by step plan on how to fix the problem, then we over see to make sure everything goes according to plan. it's honestly such a delicious placement if you know how to use it. especially think about that military efficiency when you combine it with seduction and romanticism. i can see guys being able to sweep girls off their feet easily.

posted October 28, 2015 05:08 PM            

1) In love and relationships, how do you express your love? Are you the initiator?

I express love by being sympathetic, empathetic, joking/laughing a lot, touching, helpful, selfless, understanding, forgiving, put a little bit sweetness on top all of them.

I tend to blend with my partner's personality though, for example: if my partner's cold/distant, I become cold/distant. If my partner's clingy, errr, I can understand it, just don't too much . If my partner's rude, it makes me justifying myself to be rude too, although with small doses.

I love unconditionally, I don't see how much you earn or how ugly you think you are. Sometimes I initiate, sometimes I don't, it depends on my mood.

2) Do you get jealous easily, are you possessive? Do you want to keep your s.o to yourself only?

NO, I don't. But if I caught my s.o is lying/not respect the relationship, I will put my guards, sometimes people think it is a jealousy or possessiveness. No, it is not. I expect my s.o knows where he stands in the relationship.

3) How important is space to you? Would you prefer your partner to give you some space and privacy to you from time to time?

Yes, it is important. I really do not like if my s.o invades my privacy, it will make me suspect his true intentions. I don't hide anything and he can ask, just don't act like a police officer or I will hold my tongue. I appreciate honesty very much.

4) What are the most important things, deal breakers, to you in a relationship?

EDIT: my short attention span makes me missed the most important things .. Let's see, hmm, since I have Venus trine pluto, loyalty is the top of the list, positive environment (since it can absorb negativity easily), beautiful ARTs (can't live without it), affection, love, sympathy/empathy, honesty/openness, understanding, spirituality, HUMOR, food, sleep, intimacy. what else?

Deal breaker: Betrayal, dishonesty, too much aggressiveness, violence/rude, lack of humor, unsympathetic, too much doses of self-centered, nagging/critical in negative way, dislike arts, dislike adventures.

That's what I'm thinking of right now..

I know sometimes venus in pisces is like a fog and mysterious in love (it's because they live in their own world for awhile lol), someone claimed that venus in pisces is an AMAZING lover, you will know this after getting through up and down of life, totally selfless in love.

posted October 28, 2015 11:07 PM            

1) In love and relationships, how do you express your love? Are you the initiator?
-I express it by noticing I care about them, and wanting to do nice things for them. Sometimes I'm shy if I like someone. I let the guy make the move.

2) Do you get jealous easily, are you possessive? Do you want to keep your s.o to yourself only?
-I feel like I get better the more I mature, and better choices in men I pick. I am human, sometimes I can get a little insecure and stuff. But I'm not going to try to make the other person look bad, thinking it will make me look good. But I will speak up, if I feel like it is crossing a line and getting inappropriate, or anything that makes me feel betrayed.

3) How important is space to you? Would you prefer your partner to give you some space and privacy to you from time to time?
-My Pisces Venus does not want to admit to who I love, but I so do! Everyone needs time alone. It's healthy.

posted October 29, 2015 02:28 AM            

1) In love and relationships, how do you express your love? Are you the initiator?

i love unconditionnally, i disregard any shortcomings when i love of my Partner. I am not the initiator but there was time i was the initiator because the girl too beautiful...

2) Do you get jealous easily, are you possessive? Do you want to keep your s.o to yourself only?
yes i am very very jealous. ia mvery very possessive. Even years after a separation and no more love i can have possession feeling. last time i saw an ex gf i didn't see for many years when she told me she has a bf and a child i have had a jealous and possessive movement i still remember...because my pisces venus is in opposition to my natal saturn. i have to calm down. and i have a taurus moon. i's like you are mine eternally.

3) How important is space to you? Would you prefer your partner to give you some space and privacy to you from time to time?

i need a lot of space for me but i don't allow space to the other...another problem...

4) What are the most important things, deal breakers, to you in a relationship?

posted October 29, 2015 03:31 AM            

For Mars in Virgo

1) How do you express your anger? Are you more likely to openly communicate and try to solve a problem, or be more passive aggressive?

When people are bugging me, I normally try to put up with them for a while and hope they will go away - I say things like "hmm" a lot and give short monosyllabic answers hoping they will surely get the hint. Mystifyingly, they often seem oblivious to my rising irritation, and in the end it just bursts out with me making a cutting remark or two. I hate doing it, but there you go....

As far as being really, deeply angry about something is concerned - this most definitely brings out the strategist in me. If I want to win, its no good having a shouting match as I am useless at that. Much better if I act the queen of cool with a logical and unemotional explanation for exactly why you are such an ***hole.

2) What angers you the most?

For irritation (which happens much more often than proper anger) - I dislike being interrupted or ordered around. Don't push me. I also hate being criticized and dealing with people who I cannot reason with. Also, don't put words in my mouth and then blame me for it.

For anger - this happens only if a person has violated my trust in a big way, hurt someone or something I care about or accused me falsely. (I think anyone would get angry about these!)

3) What is your attitude towards sex? Are you open minded, and positive? What are your expectations, etc.

Yes - open-minded and mostly positive. I also have Uranus and Pluto conjunct my Mars so I like a bit of experimentation. I can get turned off someone in an instant for no apparent reason. I expect a lover to have finesse, good technique and some cerebral input. They must have confidence. They must be very focused like I am their whole world for that moment. No clumsy, slobbering idiots, no matter how good looking. Not too much sentimental stuff either.

4) Your general opinion on how this placement affects you

posted October 29, 2015 09:50 AM            

1) In love and relationships, how do you express your love? Are you the initiator?

Once a relationship is established, and it's clearly even in terms of how much we love each other, I'm totally comfortable initiating.

I express my love by being very vocal about how I feel, sharing what's going on in my daily life, helping SO with anything he may be struggling with (has gotten me into trouble sometimes), and definitely being very physical - lots of kissing, hand holding, passion, etc.

In dating situations, or before a solid relationship is established, I need to be pursued. If I'm starved of that, but have fallen hard, I may initiate, but it will be with some anger/frustration, and insecurity. I will question things if I'm the one pursuing.

2) Do you get jealous easily, are you possessive? Do you want to keep your s.o to yourself only?

Jealous yes, possessive no. I get jealous if it's clear there is another possible girl involved- someone who flirts or spends time alone with my guy, especially if she's attractive. However, I will not ever ask that he stop spending time with said girl(s).

In terms of other friends/ people in his life, I definitely do not want my SO to myself- I would feel suffocated by that as well. As long as I'm clearly a central part of his life as well, I'm very happy if he has friends and other groups of people he hangs with.

3) How important is space to you? Would you prefer your partner to give you some space and privacy to you from time to time?

I definitely need space; more for his sake than mine. I can get a little overwhelmed in my own little head, and having the distance not to drag him into it all the time is good. Also, when I have a little breathing room, I tend to have a chance to reflect well on how things are going.

The being said, it needs to be 'space' without removing an actual, consistent relationship. There needs to be definite time together too.

4) What are the most important things, deal breakers, to you in a relationship?

Honesty. Being straightforward about who we are.

Respect and Affection. Need to feel wanted and desired, or else I'm out.

Communication. Having doubts? Ok, fine. But having doubts and pull away/ don't express them? Not fine. Major deal breaker - I will just get 'the hint' and walk away.

posted October 29, 2015 11:27 AM            

1) In love and relationships, how do you express your love? Are you the initiator?

Yes I express everything haha Umm...no, not really.

2) Do you get jealous easily, are you possessive? Do you want to keep your s.o to yourself only?

No and no. I am almost never jealous and I am definitely not possessive.

3) How important is space to you? Would you prefer your partner to give you some space and privacy to you from time to time?

Very important. I need to be on my own sometimes and re-charge my batteries and think

Yes privacy is very important to me and I hate hate when people invade my privacy and they have no right to do so

4) What are the most important things, deal breakers, to you in a relationship?