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Topic: The Nature of YOUR Pain——The House of Chiron
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 64852 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 29, 2015 07:58 AM
I will be honest with you. I have felt that my pain was the worst. I have done thousands of charts. Each chart had it’s unique pain. Upon finishing my last professional chart, I came to some new conclusions. One is that I don’t think my pain is the worst. When we feel we are the worst of anything, we want to hide. I thought I could never recover because my pain was the worst. I am writing this for you, if you think your pain is the worst. Maybe, no one’s is the “worst”. It is just different.Chiron in the 1st House This pain concerns something that people can see. Anything which resides in the 1st House is visible to others. The scar may be physical, such as an actual scar, a deformity, something of which one is embarrassed such as freckles, a birthmark on the face, being too tall, being too short or one may have an emotional illness which is visible to others such as severe depression or anxiety. The actual nature of the pain will differ. However, the sense that it can be seen by others remains the same. Chiron in the 2nd House This native may not have had enough material necessities such as food, shelter and appropriate clothes, as a child. The scar of being poor may stay with him, even if he becomes prosperous. The fear of going back to poverty may haunts him. This is his pain. Chiron in the 3rd House This native, likely, felt pain associated with communication. He may have stuttered, had a learning disability or extreme shyness. Communication is, usually, the theme of the 3rd House but it may be siblings, early school experiences or something happening in the neighborhood. All the latter are 3rd House arenas, but I find that communication is, usually, the most common 3rd House domain. Chiron in the 4th House This is mine. My pain centers around my mother. I never had a single moment in life, to date, when I have not felt pain upon having my mother. I suppose I should amend that. I have had some, but few. The 4th House is one’s early childhood home. Chiron shows a great deal of pain in childhood and, usually, from the mother. Chiron in the 5th House This native feels pain upon being creative. He feels pain upon letting go and being childlike. I think this is one of the hardest Chiron placements because creativity has been such a wonderful outlet for me that I cannot imagine pain associated therein. Chiron in the 6th House This native may have health issues. If not, he may feel obsessed with doing a good job/perfect job and the accompanying pain therein. Chiron in the 7th House This native may have pain with marriage and/or serious relationships. Chiron in the 8th House This native seems to try to be better than his animal nature. One has an animal nature, whether or not one agrees. If one tries to rise above it, to a neurotic degree, one will have a self made prison. In truth, the native is the same as any human being. It is just not okay to be down and dirty. This applies to emotions as well as bodily passions. I think this Chiron is one of the hardest. Chiron in the 9th House This native seems to have pain in the struggle to find God. If not this, he may have desired higher education, but found many barriers or struggles therein. Chiron in the 10th House This native seems to feel as if she does not belong in “polite” society. She feels she has something that may make her feel as if she is not acceptable. This may be a sense of failure in career. It may be feeling ashamed to be one race in a society in which another race predominates. It may be feeling ashamed of one’s background in some way. If not this, career may be fraught with pain. Chiron in the 11th House This Chiron may have had his hopes and dreams shattered. The 11th House is, also, groups, as well as doing charitable work for those in far away places. Any of these arenas could be sources of pain for the 11th House Chiron native. Chiron in the 12th This Chiron seems to deny his own pain. It seems to come out sideways, in some manner to which he is not aware, such as an addiction, for one example.
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 64852 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 29, 2015 07:59 AM
Dear LalaI was not sure if this was supposed to be in the Asteroid Forum or here. It is more of a planet than an asteroid, it seems to me, but feel free to move it, if you think that Forum is the right one xxxx ------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Piscean Tigress Knowflake Posts: 58 From: mexico city, mexico Registered: Sep 2014
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posted October 29, 2015 12:45 PM
Mine is in house 4th too, but my pain is related to ausent father (I barely know him). I had a happy childhood (Sun and Venus in the same house), but I'm still feel pain for not having a "normal family" in all my life (now, in middle 40s, not married and no childs of my own), and for not be enough loved (I had an on-off relationship for almost 20 years)This can be related without doubt with my Chiron conjunct my Venus-Karma tight conjunction, and all of them opposite Uranus. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 64852 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 29, 2015 01:06 PM
Yes, Uranus sounds as if it is at play, P. Chiron CAN be the father in some charts. The 4th house and 10th house can sometimes reverse.------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Isa Knowflake Posts: 138 From: Registered: Feb 2011
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posted October 29, 2015 02:17 PM
Lovely thread, thank you Ami! Another chiron in the 4th reporting. But mine is conjunct Júpiter, so I guess jupiter worked its magic there because I've always had a good relationship with my family. IP: Logged |
Kannon McAfee Knowflake Posts: 1089 From: Portland, OR - USA Registered: Oct 2011
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posted October 29, 2015 03:41 PM
Chiron was the 'wounded healer' which means that he was a healer. In no way is 'pain' a summary word for Chiron or its position in the chart. It does signify healing process -- IF we allow it.I have Chiron in my 7th, and partnership has been one of the most healing things in my life. We look through a negative lens or a positive one. Don't allow the past or its pains to keep a negative lens over your eye to the future. ------------------ The Declinations Guy Complete Rising Sign Descriptions Expert Rectification IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 64852 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 29, 2015 03:55 PM
quote: Originally posted by Isa: Lovely thread, thank you Ami! Another chiron in the 4th reporting. But mine is conjunct Júpiter, so I guess jupiter worked its magic there because I've always had a good relationship with my family.
Thank you, I! Jupiter and venus do modify the 4th House Chiron placement. ------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 64852 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 29, 2015 03:56 PM
KannonYou and I have to agree to disagree on Chiron, as well as many other things. People can disagree and not be disagreeable. I strive for that and hope you do, too.  ------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Belage Knowflake Posts: 1820 From: USA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 29, 2015 04:00 PM
I am enjoying this thread and the different perspectives. Here is mine. Chiron was discovered on 18 October 1977. So it's still relatively new in our conscious awareness and it's going to take a while longer for us to figure out its ultimate meaning. Magi astrology thought they had Chiron all figured out by 2000 and they put out a lot of definitive statements about it, which have not stood the test of time. Chiron has a painful aspect. That is undeniable. I do not believe it's responsible for the worst pain one can have. I have already said that Chiron's pain may be heightened if in your natal, Chiron is "afflicted" and by that I mean it being under challenging aspects from Pluto, Uranus, and/or Neptune, as it was for generations from the early 1950s to the 1990s. When you get someone born during those times, yes their Chiron can be an excruciating source of pain. When not afflicted, Chiron can manifest the healing side much more easily. Also when embraced instead of feared or rejected, Chiron may be able to perform healing more easily, even when afflicted. I know someone with Chiron in the 5th, and yes he had a child with severe developmental disabilities, and he has embraced it and he has made a rather successful career at being an advocate for people with disabilities. IP: Logged |
Delilah423 Knowflake Posts: 555 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 29, 2015 04:04 PM
quote: Originally posted by Kannon McAfee: Chiron was the 'wounded healer' which means that he was a healer. In no way is 'pain' a summary word for Chiron or its position in the chart. It does signify healing process -- IF we allow it.I have Chiron in my 7th, and partnership has been one of the most healing things in my life. We look through a negative lens or a positive one. Don't allow the past or its pains to keep a negative lens over your eye to the future. [/B]
Beautifully stated. Thank you.
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Belage Knowflake Posts: 1820 From: USA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 29, 2015 04:08 PM
In my natal, Chiron is in the 11th house. I don't think I have 11th house issues. However, Chiron is opposimg Uranus in my 5th house, and squaring Neptune in my 8th, and I would say those are houses where I have felt Chironic pain. In fact, I have had to use Chiron and its 11th house qualities to get over the 5th and 8th house pains. IP: Logged |
NYCdodger Knowflake Posts: 1274 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 29, 2015 04:09 PM
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 64852 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 29, 2015 04:25 PM
I think that aspects to Chiron show how easily it will be to USE it to heal others( and in the process, this will help your own healing) However, true to the myth, the healer never fully heals, although he can use his pain to heal others. I have a Grand trine of Venus, the ASC and Chiron. This is not a classic Grand Trine because that would be planets, only.However, it is a functional one. My work involves helping others heal ------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Gabby Moderator Posts: 8371 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted October 29, 2015 04:36 PM
I think everyone's pain is subjective, it has alot less to do with how much hurt is thrown at you and more to do with your pain tolerance. Someone might stub their toe and completely fall apart while another gets their finger cut off and is able to stay calm and drive themselves to the hospital....My Chiron is in my 7th, relationships have been a thrown in my side but also they are what has catapulted me into healing. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 64852 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 29, 2015 04:48 PM
quote: Originally posted by Belage: In my natal, Chiron is in the 11th house. I don't think I have 11th house issues. However, Chiron is opposimg Uranus in my 5th house, and squaring Neptune in my 8th, and I would say those are houses where I have felt Chironic pain. In fact, I have had to use Chiron and its 11th house qualities to get over the 5th and 8th house pains.
What I have seen with 11th most is hopes and dreams. Saturn in the 11th seems to have problems with groups, based on my experience with charts. ------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Belage Knowflake Posts: 1820 From: USA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 29, 2015 05:26 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: What I have seen with 11th most is hopes and dreams. Saturn in the 11th seems to have problems with groups, based on my experience with charts.
Many of my hopes and dreams have been shattered, but I think it also happens to most people on earth. It is a very small minority of people who can truly say that they have been able to actualize their hopes and dreams. So it wouldn't make sense that this is a chiron in 11th house issue. IP: Logged |
Selenite Knowflake Posts: 843 From: Lyra Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 29, 2015 05:36 PM
2nd house, square Sun. I have been mostly broke, but being a Sag, the money's usually there when I need it. The real pain would be having to do with self worth, all the way. Self worth and fulfillment of my own needs. I am good at teaching this to others, though  IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 64852 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 29, 2015 05:39 PM
It is, B. This is the hallmark of Chiron in the 11th, from my study of many, many charts and the picking of many brains lol------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 64852 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 29, 2015 05:46 PM
B or anyoneThe thing about Chiron is the LEVEL of pain. Each person can taste the pain of many Houses, however the deepest and most significant pain will be the House of Chiron. If not, the time of birth is wrong imo. ------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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bananaz Knowflake Posts: 267 From: Orlando, FL USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted October 29, 2015 06:01 PM
Hi AmiSorry to hear about your mother. And I agree, having chiron around the IC is probably the worst. As for me, I have never connected with the "pain" part of chiron. Mine is in the 3rd house and I've read so many articles/ descriptions and can't seem to grasp how it relates. I've never had any communication problems. I was advanced in those skills as a child. No pain around siblings either. We have great relationships, including the ones I have with my step-siblings...I don't know. The healer part does makes sense though. I work as a writer and I do find work to be healing sometimes. But definitely, no pain or past scars in that area IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 64852 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 29, 2015 06:07 PM
quote: Originally posted by bananaz: Hi AmiSorry to hear about your mother. And I agree, having chiron around the IC is probably the worst. As for me, I have never connected with the "pain" part of chiron. Mine is in the 3rd house and I've read so many articles/ descriptions and can't seem to grasp how it relates. I've never had any communication problems. I was advanced in those skills as a child. No pain around siblings either. We have great relationships, including the ones I have with my step-siblings...I don't know. The healer part does makes sense though. I work as a writer and I do find work to be healing sometimes. But definitely, no pain or past scars in that area
Thank you, B!
Do you relate to the Houses on either side of it.
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Piscean Tigress Knowflake Posts: 58 From: mexico city, mexico Registered: Sep 2014
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posted October 30, 2015 12:36 AM
Kannon, I think you are right too, there is a healing and a pain theme with Chiron; you feel the good side, but I feel both. I find that people close to me are relieved to tell me their problems or feel supported by me ... but I don't feel that same way with others. I loved intensely and I know I was (and I Am) also loved!, but not with the same intensity, and not feel it in that way, hurtsIP: Logged |
Delilah423 Knowflake Posts: 555 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 30, 2015 02:12 PM
quote: Originally posted by Piscean Tigress: Kannon, I think you are right too, there is a healing and a pain theme with Chiron; you feel the good side, but I feel both...
I think that is the point. The appropriate keyword for Chiron is "wounded healer," not "pain." You can't be wounded without pain. But you also can't ignore the "healing" potential. Depending upon the rest of the chart, the maturity of the individual, and any number of other factors, the extent to whether pain or healing is prominent (or equal) at any given time will vary. But the potential for healing/teaching is always there, and we do have free will to view that possibility rather than focus on the wound.
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Kannon McAfee Knowflake Posts: 1089 From: Portland, OR - USA Registered: Oct 2011
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posted October 30, 2015 05:23 PM
Larimar (Dolphin Stone, Blue Pectolite)is the single most powerful healing stone I have used. Some say it is the ‘blue stone of Atlantis’ predicted by Edgar Cayce to be found in the Caribbean. Very good for emotional healing. I just realized I'd left Larimar off my crystals/gems page. So I added it today: http://kannonmcafee.wordpress.com/crystals-gems/ ------------------ The Declinations Guy Complete Rising Sign Descriptions Expert Rectification IP: Logged |
sarahhm Knowflake Posts: 301 From: Registered: Sep 2015
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posted October 30, 2015 05:45 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Chiron in the 8th House This native seems to try to be better than his animal nature. One has an animal nature, whether or not one agrees. If one tries to rise above it, to a neurotic degree, one will have a self made prison. In truth, the native is the same as any human being. It is just not okay to be down and dirty. This applies to emotions as well as bodily passions. I think this Chiron is one of the hardest.
i find that theres alot of chiron in 8th house people in my life and one thing in common with them all is that they're slaves to their animal nature. they're not as good as fighting against it and any other type of tempations. can't stay away from sex, can't stay away from drinks/cigarettes, over eating. frankly i know 8 chiron in 8th house people and they're all cheaters. IP: Logged | |