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missblyss
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posted November 07, 2015 03:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for missblyss     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Think it's the pluto conjunct my natal uranus?

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PaulMcFly
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posted November 07, 2015 03:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PaulMcFly     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
uh idk maybe

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ReadingTheStars95
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posted November 07, 2015 03:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ReadingTheStars95     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Which house in your natal chart is transit Venus in right now?

Also.. Any transits making hard aspects to your Moon?

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Aries23Degrees
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posted November 07, 2015 04:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
How do you feel?


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DopGang
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posted November 07, 2015 06:11 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DopGang     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Check your progressed chart.
Are any planets 29-01 degrees?

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Isa
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posted November 07, 2015 06:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Isa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
How are you?
Would you mind posting your transit chart and progressed chart?

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polkadotstars
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posted November 07, 2015 07:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for polkadotstars     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sorry for your divorce

Better things are coming your way ❤️

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missblyss
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posted November 07, 2015 01:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for missblyss     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Isa:
How are you?
Would you mind posting your transit chart and progressed chart?

I am surprisingly okay.

I would love to post them, but I'm not sure how. Where do I find them?

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LaceyLeigh
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posted November 07, 2015 01:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LaceyLeigh     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by missblyss:
I am surprisingly okay.

I would love to post them, but I'm not sure how. Where do I find them?


Astro.com make a chart, and there should be a little blue tab on the right that says, "with transits".

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missblyss
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posted November 07, 2015 01:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for missblyss     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
How do you feel?


I am feeling a lot better than I thought I would...

I thought I would feel sad, but I actually feel lighter, freer. We had one of those relationships that seemed to go entirely downhill once we got legally married.

I suppose I thought that having that level of commitment would make things easier, but he used it as a threat quite often. If you do this or that I'll divorce you. Then once we had a child, he would use that as a threat. Now, that I am legally FREE and have custody, I feel that I have my power back!

After this experience, I kinda feel like.. You are either there or you're not. You're either committed or you're not. Marriage will not create either of those things, so what's the point? I don't feel like it makes any sense to me anymore :/ . But that is how I'm feeling today.

Don't get me wrong, the sadness does come at time. I do have unconditional love for his soul and miss him... But for some reason I don't associate our relationship with our marriage, if that makes sense? This divorce just feels like I got some legal obligations out of the way.

It was like before we were married we were together because we wanted to be. But afterwards, we both felt "forced" because we were married.

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missblyss
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posted November 07, 2015 01:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for missblyss     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My birthday is March 1, 1991 4:00 PM San Diego, CA

Sorry, I am trying to google how to do these transit charts but I haven't figured it out yet

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posted November 07, 2015 01:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DopGang     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Right now it's easier for me to just do it rather than explain it.

Natal with transits

Progressed

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DopGang
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posted November 07, 2015 01:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DopGang     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Your progressed dsc exactly on your natal sun/mercury. Depending on how accurate that birth time is.
I'm not sure how to translate that but it seems important.

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missblyss
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posted November 07, 2015 01:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for missblyss     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you so much for posting that! The birth time is accurate (at least that is what my birth certificate says).

It definitely feels weird, but positive.. Like some sort of turning point.

I've been to court related to this man on and off for the past 4 years (first criminal court, now family court) Tens of thousands of dollars of lawyer fees down the drain... I feel that this is the LAST time

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Belage
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posted November 07, 2015 04:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Belage     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
When Pluto is involved, the break tends to be permanent. That relationship as you knew it is dead. But with Uranus also there, you never know.

I think I remember you from another thread. I know you're in pain, but it's for the best.

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posted November 07, 2015 04:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Belage     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Also the transiting south node is in your 7th house, showing that you have to let go of this marriage.

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missblyss
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posted November 07, 2015 04:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for missblyss     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Belage:
Also the transiting south node is in your 7th house, showing that you have to let go of this marriage.


Oh wow, yeah, that makes sense...

I am not sure if I had told you this already, but in my vedic chart I have cancer ascendant, which delays marriage (or should guarantee divorce if married before late 20s). I also have saturn sitting in the 7th. So the astrologer was pretty confident to say that I would have a 99.9% chance of divorce should I marry before the age of 30 (I was married at 22 and I'm now 24)

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posted November 07, 2015 08:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Belage     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Your vedic chart should be Leo ascendant, not Cancer ascendant.

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EmGem
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posted November 08, 2015 01:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for EmGem     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh boy missblyss I feel for u.
How long were u married?

My divorce should be aiming through next month after a 2.5 year marriage 🙌 We are also going through legal proceedings. He's suing me for my money of course.

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WhiteSunshine314
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posted November 08, 2015 02:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for WhiteSunshine314     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Your progressed moon is conjunct your asc! The past 2-2 1/2 years may have been a theme of endings and of letting go, but now as it has entered the first house new beginnings are in store.

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Aries23Degrees
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posted November 08, 2015 11:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by missblyss:
I am feeling a lot better than I thought I would...

I thought I would feel sad, but I actually feel lighter, freer. We had one of those relationships that seemed to go entirely downhill once we got legally married.

I suppose I thought that having that level of commitment would make things easier, but he used it as a threat quite often. If you do this or that I'll divorce you. Then once we had a child, he would use that as a threat. Now, that I am legally FREE and have custody, I feel that I have my power back!

After this experience, I kinda feel like.. You are either there or you're not. You're either committed or you're not. Marriage will not create either of those things, so what's the point? I don't feel like it makes any sense to me anymore :/ . But that is how I'm feeling today.

Don't get me wrong, the sadness does come at time. I do have unconditional love for his soul and miss him... But for some reason I don't associate our relationship with our marriage, if that makes sense? This divorce just feels like I got some legal obligations out of the way.

It was like before we were married we were together because we wanted to be. But afterwards, we both felt "forced" because we were married.


Oh I get you

And I also agree with much of what has been said by others on here;

1.The progressed DSC(7th) conjunct the natal Sun/Mercury in Pisces.

2.The progressed Moon conjunct natal ASC in Leo.

But I also have to add that relationship have rarely ever been a piece of cake for you.

That Pluto square your Dsc in Aquarius (negatively)suggests that the partners struggle to have control or want to overpower you in some ways.

It is also possible that you are the one who does this in relationships.

Positively of course, they can be passionate and psychologically piercing(Pluto). Sometimes to a fault(Pluto is in the very comfortable sign of Scorpio)

It makes sense that your ex-husband was not going to take this lying down; Pluto (especially since it is in Scorpio)reacting with your 7th house cusp, suggests that it was going to drag. And it was going to be ugly.

Pluto reacting with the 7th house cusp tends to bring the proverbial "monster" in either yourself OR your partners.

You feel you have your power back? The conjunction of your natal Asc with progressed Moon in regal(power of the self) Leo is responsible for that.

But watch out! That Pluto natal square with your p Moon/n Asc reaction, could bring about some hostile(even poignantly similar reactions your husband had to you) from others.

You have Pluto in Scorpio squaring your natal Asc in Leo.

Both signs speak of power; Power of the self(Leo) and power to transform(Scorpio). So perhaps you may not be aware of the effect you have on others? But they feel it.

And they may react in ways that can be very negative,defensive and fearful of what they think you are etc.

I wonder what your Solar Arc positions show? Would you mind posting them also?

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posted November 08, 2015 04:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for EmGem     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh wow! My progressed DSC was conjunct my natal sun/Mercury when I left him 😱

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missblyss
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posted November 08, 2015 08:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for missblyss     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Oh I get you

And I also agree with much of what has been said by others on here;

1.The progressed DSC(7th) conjunct the natal Sun/Mercury in Pisces.

2.The progressed Moon conjunct natal ASC in Leo.

But I also have to add that relationship have rarely ever been a piece of cake for you.

That Pluto square your Dsc in Aquarius (negatively)suggests that the partners struggle to have control or want to overpower you in some ways.

It is also possible that you are the one who does this in relationships.

Positively of course, they can be passionate and psychologically piercing(Pluto). Sometimes to a fault(Pluto is in the very comfortable sign of Scorpio)

It makes sense that your ex-husband was not going to take this lying down; Pluto (especially since it is in Scorpio)reacting with your 7th house cusp, suggests that it was going to drag. And it was going to be ugly.

Pluto reacting with the 7th house cusp tends to bring the proverbial "monster" in either yourself OR your partners.

You feel you have your power back? The conjunction of your natal Asc with progressed Moon in regal(power of the self) Leo is responsible for that.

But watch out! That Pluto natal square with your p Moon/n Asc reaction, could bring about some hostile(even poignantly similar reactions your husband had to you) from others.

You have Pluto in Scorpio squaring your natal Asc in Leo.

Both signs speak of power; Power of the self(Leo) and power to transform(Scorpio). So perhaps you may not be aware of the effect you have on others? But they feel it.

And they may react in ways that can be very negative,defensive and fearful of what they think you are etc.

I wonder what your Solar Arc positions show? Would you mind posting them also?


Thank you so much for your wisdom and interpretations. I am not sure how to post my solar arc positions! If you tell me I would love to, otherwise my birth info is - March 1,1991 4:00 pm San Diego, CA

It's so interesting that you've said that because I have noticed that everyone surrounding me is having very weird, very deep, and very intense reactions to nearly everything I do! It is really uncomfortable to me and makes me want to hide inside and not interact with anyone! I don't like to cause such a stir. :/

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missblyss
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posted November 08, 2015 11:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for missblyss     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by WhiteSunshine314:
Your progressed moon is conjunct your asc! The past 2-2 1/2 years may have been a theme of endings and of letting go, but now as it has entered the first house new beginnings are in store.

Hallelujah! I am so ready for new beginnings! SO ready! Thanks for your insight!

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