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Topic: How bad is moon opposite moon?
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Empty Spaces
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posted November 11, 2015 01:19 PM
  
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Originally posted by curiouspisces89:
My moon is in Capricorn and his moon was in Gemini.But to be honest our synastry wasn't great. We didnt have any major aspects that would indicate that this is going to be a long term relationship which is what I felt from the start and astrology has just confirmed that for me 
Thanks for sharing but do you mean his moon was cancer?The opposite of the cap moon is cancer.
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Doux Rêve
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posted November 11, 2015 04:02 PM
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Originally posted by Empty Spaces:
NN conjunct moon could help the moon-moon opposition guys?
Depends on what you mean by "help"... Technically, NN conjunctions in synastry tend to be challenging (yet sometimes very attractive). In the beginning especially it can seem VERY promising, and with the Moon it can give a super dreamy, nurturing, comfy feeling... The Moon person can seem like the Holy Grail to the NN person who just longs for the Moon's soothing, loving presence... From my experience however (and it's probably because my own Moon squares my NN - hence anything that conjuncts my NN also squares my Moon, which creates conflict) the planet person eventually just fades away into the background, or something happens that makes it impossible for the people to maintain the relationship. Not saying that's how it always plays out though. It can be pretty dang beautiful while it lasts. Give it a shot. IP: Logged |
Empty Spaces
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posted November 11, 2015 05:11 PM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Depends on what you mean by "help"... Technically, NN conjunctions in synastry tend to be challenging (yet sometimes very attractive). In the beginning especially it can seem VERY promising, and with the Moon it can give a super dreamy, nurturing, comfy feeling... The Moon person can seem like the Holy Grail to the NN person who just longs for the Moon's soothing, loving presence... From my experience however (and it's probably because my own Moon squares my NN - hence anything that conjuncts my NN also squares my Moon, which creates conflict) the planet person eventually just fades away into the background, or something happens that makes it impossible for the people to maintain the relationship.Not saying that's how it always plays out though. It can be pretty dang beautiful while it lasts. Give it a shot.
Thats interesting.I heard something about it but it was only related to South node.Never thought the NN would be difficult with sun,moon or venus involved.
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krltn94
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posted November 11, 2015 07:13 PM
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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
I think the issue here could be that one is more rational, cool and less detached to emotions(Gemini), whilst the other tends to respond in a more passionate, ardent and reactive manner(Sagittarius)Sagittarius would like to think themselves "objective". But this is seldom consistently the case. So what I often see happening here is that Sagittarius will get worked up about some principle or the other,that was violated. Gemini's response may be to poke fun at it or be impassive and not understand the impassioned response from Sag. The other would be when Gemini Moon wants to talk about a raunchy outfit some cashier was wearing at the local store. In that instance, perhaps Sag Moon has just watched a doc on starving kids in some impoverished country etc. Gemini will be intent on telling the story to which Sag may respond with indifference or with a snappy "How can you be so preoccupied with some dumb cashier, when there are more serious problems in the world?" etc. With Moon oppositions IME, timing is usually off i.e. When one is serious, the other isn't. When one is playful, the other is serious etc.
You absolutely nailed it! Especially with me being the Sag Moon and my two other close friends who are Gem moons. It can be the most frustrating thing when they poke fun at something I'm extremely impassioned about. I just wanna rip their heads off! lol But for the most part we get along really well with one another and it's like we're soulmates. Very complex IP: Logged |
Empty Spaces
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posted November 11, 2015 07:57 PM
I guess that can happens with moon in different elements.Not only with the opposition.Cuz my ex used to do that..I was talking about something really serious and he was like "this is so stupid".URG He even laughed when i was worried about my dog (long story)But he made it clear that I were exagerating.He is a cancer moon.Very sensible but i guess he liked to annoy the hell out of me. "Rip their heads off"is a good description  IP: Logged |
frankie2912
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posted November 12, 2015 01:12 AM
Im a Sag moon and my most recent ex is a Gemini moon.We ended up finding that we were just not compatible. He was too cold and logical (although that helped me a lot at times)...He was never passionate enough for me. He had trouble expressing his emotions in a good way. Hes a Cancer sun btw and Im a Cap. IP: Logged |
Stawr
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posted November 12, 2015 10:01 PM
opposites sure do attract my mom and dad have been married since the 80's. My dad is a Cancer moon, and my mom is a Capricorn Moon. I'm a Scorpio Moon my ex of almost 3 years is a Taurus Moon. Now I'm in a relationship with a Moon sign I wouldn't of ever expected to be with, a Gemini Moon. IP: Logged |
Empty Spaces
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posted November 13, 2015 12:20 PM
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Originally posted by frankie2912:
Im a Sag moon and my most recent ex is a Gemini moon.We ended up finding that we were just not compatible. He was too cold and logical (although that helped me a lot at times)...He was never passionate enough for me. He had trouble expressing his emotions in a good way. Hes a Cancer sun btw and Im a Cap.
Im cap sun/gemini moon.I have problems to express myself too.BUT im pretty sure my biggest problem is my SN/Moon conjunction.
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Empty Spaces
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posted November 13, 2015 12:22 PM
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Originally posted by Stawr:
opposites sure do attract my mom and dad have been married since the 80's. My dad is a Cancer moon, and my mom is a Capricorn Moon. I'm a Scorpio Moon my ex of almost 3 years is a Taurus Moon. Now I'm in a relationship with a Moon sign I wouldn't of ever expected to be with, a Gemini Moon.
So there is HOPE!! thanks for sharing.
Thats nice, how it feels to date a gemini moon in your perspective? IP: Logged |
HadesFish
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posted November 13, 2015 08:49 PM
Horrible... The three most profound relationships in my life(2 romantic, one not) have(had) this.
After the storm clears it's like we're friendly/friends, until they decide to play the like it was before card... I've moved on in many ways, but I've found them to actually despise me for this, while I've realised that I've stopped changing-for them. Kind of they didn't want me to grow as a person whilst the relationship lasted... Until I did and out-grew them; Then dropped any emotional ties whatsoever. That's when I questioned my patterns and sanity. This aspect literally will not accept any change and throw fits at the slightest if one of you decides to change. It literally is one way or the other; One will always be unhappy if there is no acceptance of that.. But, if there is, well; Truly, bravo!!!!!
I personally will never, ever again. Happy trails. ------------------
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Seimei
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posted November 13, 2015 09:11 PM
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Originally posted by Empty Spaces:
What you cant say about that aspect?Especially when it comes to gemini-sagittarius.I dont know much things about it.Could you tell me?
It is always going to depend on WHAT ELSE
is aspecting those moons in and from each persons chart. Looking at those two moons
as if they are in a vacuum when they are not
will lead to a false generalization.
It would also depend on the sun moon angle in each persons chart and any good or bad aspects to the composite moon.
A person with a Libra moon 36 degrees ahead of the sun does not have same temperament as a person with a Libra moon 136 degrees ahead of the sun.
Two persons with opposite moons and a trine and sextile from Venus will not interact the same as to other persons with op moons with a sq from Venus.mars.saturn.ETC.
Generalized blanket statements based on an exclusion of all but two factor is BAD ASTROLOGY.
Learning that only means you later have to unlearn it. put foot down ------------------
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FruityLlama
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posted November 14, 2015 03:48 PM
I think Scorpio moons have a harder time with me than I do them. They don't understand how I can let things go easier than them and how I don't want to make a fuss. But I'm laid-back about MOST things, Scorpio moons included so they can rant at me and pick out my flaws but y'know, whatever.
I find Scorpio moons okay in general, but they can be a bit much sometimes, for me, opposing me I mean. IP: Logged |
m.blade
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posted November 15, 2015 07:39 AM
Actually according to vedic astrology, moons in opposite signs is one of the BEST compatibility factors you can have because they are 7th from each other and house 7 is the house of balance.Other good compatibility factors is if your partners moon is 3rd or 11th from your moon (for example, if you've got moon in cancer, moon in taurus and moon in virgo are good for you) or if your partners moon is 4 or 10th from your moon. (for example, i've got moon in leo, i'd be also good with moon in scorpio and moon in taurus) The vedic astrology compatibility technique is actually really good and in combination with traditional western techniques (such as synastry, composite) you can really predict compatibility well. BTW These techniques always work with all the other planets, not just the moon! So you can do it with venus, so you can see how the energy flows in your relationship; it's quite cool! IP: Logged |
Empty Spaces
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posted November 15, 2015 04:00 PM
HadesFishThanks for sharing! Seimei GREAT observation.That makes sense!  IP: Logged |
Empty Spaces
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posted November 15, 2015 04:09 PM
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Originally posted by m.blade:
Actually according to vedic astrology, moons in opposite signs is one of the BEST compatibility factors you can have because they are 7th from each other and house 7 is the house of balance.Other good compatibility factors is if your partners moon is 3rd or 11th from your moon (for example, if you've got moon in cancer, moon in taurus and moon in virgo are good for you) or if your partners moon is 4 or 10th from your moon. (for example, i've got moon in leo, i'd be also good with moon in scorpio and moon in taurus) The vedic astrology compatibility technique is actually really good and in combination with traditional western techniques (such as synastry, composite) you can really predict compatibility well. BTW These techniques always work with all the other planets, not just the moon! So you can do it with venus, so you can see how the energy flows in your relationship; it's quite cool!
I really like vedic astrology.Im constantly reading vedic articles,watching videos about it.BUT i use those descriptions with my western chart you know? AND makes a lot of sense.In vedic astrology i have a sagittarius sun..which is weird to me cuz i dont have saggitarius traits.The same for the moon..ASC.. BUT wow i did not knew about that.Im going to search for more information.
Thanks a lot for your help!
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Empty Spaces
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posted November 15, 2015 04:13 PM
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Originally posted by FruityLlama:
[B]I think Scorpio moons have a harder time with me than I do them. They don't understand how I can let things go easier than them and how I don't want to make a fuss. But I'm laid-back about MOST things, Scorpio moons included so they can rant at me and pick out my flaws but y'know, whatever.
I find Scorpio moons okay in general, but they can be a bit much sometimes, for me, opposing me I mean.
Aw okay,thanks for sharing!
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m.blade
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posted November 15, 2015 04:32 PM
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Originally posted by Empty Spaces:
I really like vedic astrology.Im constantly reading vedic articles,watching videos about it.BUT i use those descriptions with my western chart you know? AND makes a lot of sense.In vedic astrology i have a sagittarius sun..which is weird to cuz cuz i dont have saggitarius traits.The same for the moon..ASC.. BUT wow i did not knew about that.Im going to search for more information.
Thanks a lot for your help!
I prefer the western zodiac just because i'm used to it. As I said im not a REAL astrologer, just a little amateur so i havent done any research into which i find better. for me its just a hobby But I find the techniques are AMAZING. some of the things vedic astrology has is unbelievable and they are so accurate too! if you want to get into Western vedic astrology, check out astrologers such as karen white of divinetimeastrology, ernst wilhelm and ryan kurczak IP: Logged |
Comatoes
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posted November 15, 2015 05:11 PM
I think Gemini Moon and Sagittarius Moon is one of the better combinations for opposite Moons. I would think delineating Mercury and Jupiter would be important for both people. How are these planets configured. Basically they do have a lot in common, but it also depends on Venus sign too, on how satisfy they will be with each other.With this combination, communication, conversation and knowledge exchange is going to be an instant focus. This will be where most of the problems will come from if there is issues. For instance if both have Mercury in the same element or Jupiter in the same element that can help as well.
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Stawr
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posted November 15, 2015 06:54 PM
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Originally posted by Empty Spaces:
So there is HOPE!! thanks for sharing.
Thats nice, how it feels to date a gemini moon in your perspective?
I like it. He has a completely different temperament than my ex. Taurus moon, often does not give anyone a reaction or anything a reaction when peeved. Barely ever loses cool in front of anyone. Gemini moon, is more direct when something is going on. Gemini is a bit more moody and shows more emotions. And he apologizes to me later when he is in a bad mood. I am not use to that. I also have some fire and air in my chart (Aries Sun, Aqua Mars, Gemini ASC, and Leo IC)
I know his moon is in the middle or later degrees but don't know the exact degree. But I'm pretty sure it aspects asc and Sun, and IC. The Taurus Moon was more of a typical gentlemen. Gets the door, pays on dates. But he also played relationship games with me you could say. Sometimes was passive aggressive. So even though Gemini moon is not getting my car door for me, pulling out my chair at a restaurant, etc. I feel like he treats me better, because he does not have commitment issues, and some other things. The Taurus Moon had commitment issues. Though the Taurus moon was a foodie, I kind of miss having someone I could try all kinds of food with. Gemini Moon, is a very picky eater. Gemini moon is more direct, I'm glad he was upfront about not being able to constantly wine and dine me, or being together almost 24/7. I honestly appreciate that after
Taurus moon made a passive aggressive comment at restaurant in front of friends. That pretty much let me know he resented me. But yeah I was less mature with Taurus moon, and weather he admits it or not, so was he. I've matured so much from that relationship, that Gemini bf finds me mature. A guy has never used those words to describe me before. The Gemini and I are better at giving each other time to do our own thing. We don't text call constantly either. With Taurus, we had a hard time giving each other time to ourselves. And when we got better at it, we still text each other a lot. Yeah I did have chemistry with ex, we had a lot of mercury aspects. I also have a different kind of chemistry with Gemini. The way we sat together face to face. At the time in the back of my head I was thinking "what's going on, we seem to have something going on." but didn't think about it much til later. When I started to hang out with him alone, my guard was up. Made sure I don't go through the same **** , and find out if he takes me seriously, or if this was someone I could just hang out with platonically, and not lead him on and give the impression that I was interested in casual sex. We were able to talk about what we wanted in a relationship. He would ask me questions that made me think sarcastically "gee that was subtle." and we just kept moving forward and got more serious.
BTW our Venus signs are polar opposites. I'm a Venus Pisces, and he's a Venus Virgo. We both have it 6 degrees too. How crazy and cool.
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LaceyLeigh
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posted November 15, 2015 07:00 PM
Virgo moon here, I like Pisces moons, however, they can be a little too sensitive sometimes. Almost hypersensitive.IP: Logged |
FruityLlama
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posted November 17, 2015 04:24 AM
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Originally posted by Empty Spaces:
Aw okay,thanks for sharing!
Hey no sorry, I wasn't saying its terrible or anything! Its just the side of the spectrum really, the opposition. I like the aspect generally because when used well it can be a balancing aspect. IP: Logged |
FruityLlama
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posted November 17, 2015 04:25 AM
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Originally posted by Empty Spaces:
Aw okay,thanks for sharing!
Hey no sorry, I wasn't saying its terrible or anything! Its just the side of the spectrum really, the opposition. I like the aspect generally because when used well it can be a balancing aspect. IP: Logged |
missblyss
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posted November 17, 2015 06:05 AM
virgo moon here I was married to a pisces moon. I did feel a deep soul connection with him, although I do have my sun in pisces, which may have helped a bit. IP: Logged |
Soltze
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posted November 17, 2015 04:17 PM
I don't think I could handle being with a Taurus moon for long in a relationship. I'm a Scorpio Moon, obvious hahaI have Moon opp Moon with my father and it's...a struggle. We like each other, but don't understand the intentions and emotions so things get complicated. Been with a Taurus moon man, I felt at the beggining that he calmed me down, but later he was just too condescending with my crazy scorpionic crises. I felt like poking him with a needle to see if he could bleed! IP: Logged |
next to neptune
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posted November 18, 2015 02:07 PM
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Originally posted by Empty Spaces:
What you cant say about that aspect?Especially when it comes to gemini-sagittarius.I dont know much things about it.Could you tell me?
It is not bad? Oppositions attract. Most longtherm couples got oppositions between sun-moon, sun-sun or moon-moon
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