posted November 11, 2015 03:21 AM            

Mine is just beginning and wondering what can I do to guard against over self-sacrificing, seeing through rose colored glasses, and using escapism (everything I've read about this transit) in my partnerships over the next 14 years.

I've just entered into a new relationship that is going great! However always in the back of my mind I am wondering "Am I seeing this clearly? Am I going to 'wake up' in 14 years and wonder wth I was thinking?"

posted November 11, 2015 04:49 AM            

I went through this transit before I knew about astrology. I learned to love people for who they are, whether or not I was going to live the rest of my life with them. This and other transits demanded that I start being honest with myself about how I can share love with someone instead of trying to capitalize on love (and attracting people who wanted to do the same with me).

posted November 11, 2015 08:14 AM            

The most significant relationship that I had during this time was the most deceptive one that I have ever experienced, to the extent that I ended up in psychotherapy where the psychotherapist was of the view that I had been "brainwashed" - as I mentioned Neptune rules my 8th and I lost both a child and my mind, (Mercury/Neptune natal conjunction in 4th,) during my relationship with him. He was drugging me, which I found out by accident - very Neptunian, I'd say. The transformation, (I also had transiting Pluto (4R and dispositor of Neptune) conjunct my Sun (1R) at the time, was a true dark night of the soul experience, (like being on hallucinogens 24/7 for 2-3 years) and I now have mild, though not irreparable, brain damage.

My advice would be to trust your own gut instinct in relation to others; trust it the first time you sense that something is wrong, act on it and do not deviate from your position AT ALL. Neptune is only illusory and deceptive when we allow ourselves to be deceived. Look at the aspects that Neptune makes natally to see how he will operate generally, and look for any major transits of his dispositor to see when the energy might be activated. Look at the house he rules to see in what way you will experience the energy.

And aside from intimate partnerships, be wary also of business partnerships. Despite written contracts being in place, I had the wool pulled over my eyes in the workplace too; twice. Again, I did not trust, or act upon, my gut instinct in that area, to my detriment.

On a positive note, I have never experienced such an acceleration in spiritual growth than I have over the past 7 or so years. Be prepared for synchronistic/magical/other-worldly events in your environment, seek out others who are on a spiritual path, (they may cross your path anyway, as happened to me), and trust implicitly only those who you know that you can.

I 'woke up' during this transit; I felt as if the bubble that I had lived in my entire life, burst and that my previous perception of my environment was false. I was initially shocked to the core with that alone. I left my profession to concentrate on astrology too...

posted November 12, 2015 03:57 PM            

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Originally posted by venus2tinkerbell:
Redefine success. Do the best you can to be a good and fair person in relationships. Be open to learning about what your flaws are and also what does and doesn't work for you. What a waste of time and energy if you spend years of your life letting that little voice in the back of your mind lead you to self sabotage.

I went through this transit before I knew about astrology. I learned to love people for who they are, whether or not I was going to live the rest of my life with them. This and other transits demanded that I start being honest with myself about how I can share love with someone instead of trying to capitalize on love (and attracting people who wanted to do the same with me).

The themes of this transit continued or wrapped up in my 8th house. It's a great astro course to have in the college of growing up.

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YES!! I love this outlook! Neptune has been dancing back and forth over my DSC 7 Pisces for the passed year or 2 and I can definitely feel compassion growing in my heart. I have become softer, easier on myself, and easier on others.

Neptune house transits really intrigue me because if you believe in reincarnation and that your soul has chosen a certain lifetime for specific lessons Neptune transits seem very intentional because they are so long, and because they only get through so many houses in a lifetime.

Those of us who have the 7th house neptune transit definitely came here in part to learn important relationship lessons.

At any rate I appreciate your positive words. I want to focus on the positive aspects of this transit and how I can focus on bringing more of those into my relationship experiences.

posted November 12, 2015 04:07 PM            

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Originally posted by HappyHekate:
Neptune has just moved into my 8th house, (which he rules natally), and won't retrograde into my 7th again. All I can say is 'phew'!!

The most significant relationship that I had during this time was the most deceptive one that I have ever experienced, to the extent that I ended up in psychotherapy where the psychotherapist was of the view that I had been "brainwashed" - as I mentioned Neptune rules my 8th and I lost both a child and my mind, (Mercury/Neptune natal conjunction in 4th,) during my relationship with him. He was drugging me, which I found out by accident - very Neptunian, I'd say. The transformation, (I also had transiting Pluto (4R and dispositor of Neptune) conjunct my Sun (1R) at the time, was a true dark night of the soul experience, (like being on hallucinogens 24/7 for 2-3 years) and I now have mild, though not irreparable, brain damage.

I 'woke up' during this transit; I felt as if the bubble that I had lived in my entire life, burst and that my previous perception of my environment was false. I was initially shocked to the core with that alone. I left my profession to concentrate on astrology too...

In short, be prepared to have your own perceptions challenged in how you relate to others and your environment. And trust, trust, trust, your own self.

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posted November 12, 2015 04:20 PM            

The positives of Neptune transiting 7? It's said that you will idealize your partner, which makes long-term sustainability of a relationship difficult, but it can work out in a way that you can see, and show your partner their higher self. This can be a time for uplifting, counseling, and building others, and if you give with a pure heart, and good intention (not self sacrifice, but give when you can), you will be full of light and joy, even when it's time to feel some pain.

I think you'll love others and be hurt by them, and learn what it means to love yourself better. Loving yourself increases love and acceptance for others, and then they or you might hurt you again, but never put up walls. Learn your limits and boundaries, but don't hide behind walls. Follow your heart. You can never be blamed for following your heart.

posted November 13, 2015 12:32 AM            

I have Neptune in Asc and I am Pisces Sun in house 4th, so I'm Neptunian. My Neptune is opposite my moon-DSC conjunction

Two years ago I was in a 18 years relationship, and suddenly, I met someone online (at that time my Neptune was conjunct exact my Amor and Juno asteroids in house 4th ans square my Moon and DSC).

Was a sudden and I can say "spiritual" atraction, beyond anything I have felt before... I believed I have found my "soulmate" (our synatry and composites chart show some soulmate markers); but we live in different cities and never knew each other.

I cheated, my partner found that and we broke up...

This long distant relationship lasted 1 year and 5 months; and suddenly, the online guy dissappeared and never answer my calls and texts... he found another woman and 3 months ago, my long term boyfriend came back...

that year and 5 months was the time that my neptune conjunct Amor and Juno asteroids. The online guy texted me one mounth ago for "bussiness affairs" (now he lives in my city with his girlfriend), and I broke all type of communication with him forever... and my longterm relationship has ups and downs since the break off.

Neptune can be very tricky, and today I say "what the hell I did??" but I must confess, I feel alive again, and I don't have regrets about that, although I have been deceived by the boy online...

posted November 13, 2015 01:42 AM            

Moon progressed from Capricorn into Aquarius
Midheaven progressed from Pisces to Aries

I could feel something building and was in tentative watch mode for about 6 months leading up to this. I was trying to decide what I was doing and what was right and if we would work. I wasn't into astrology back then and internet didn't exist anyway. lol

It was the best decision I ever made. I spent the Neptune in 7th house years working in unfoggy things (law) to pay for school to get a degree in finance. It was good...great years actually. I have saturn in house 9 natally though so I loved the school thing instead of the road to dutiful spouse cooking and cleaning.

Neptune can fog but with other planets in play it can have effect of blowing fog aside a bit so you can see reality and make different decisions. So try not to worry. This is a huge opportunity time in your life to review your relationships and maybe make some changes, either stay or leave etc. It's up to you.

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posted November 15, 2015 10:48 AM            

Of course I am afraid of this transit but I can’t really imagine how it can get any worse for me in terms of romantic deception and disappointment which I am so familiar with. I think I am quite well equipped now to deal with this kind of issues.

posted November 15, 2015 11:10 AM            

There are tons of people with the same ascendant as you who'll be having that neptune transit in the 7th and they won't have doomed relationships for 14 years.

posted November 15, 2015 01:08 PM            

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Originally posted by AstroAJ:
Trying to hear from anyone who has experienced 7th house Neptune transit.

Mine is just beginning and wondering what can I do to guard against over self-sacrificing, seeing through rose colored glasses, and using escapism (everything I've read about this transit) in my partnerships over the next 14 years.

I've just entered into a new relationship that is going great! However always in the back of my mind I am wondering "Am I seeing this clearly? Am I going to 'wake up' in 14 years and wonder wth I was thinking?"

If you're not in a relationship when this transit begins, and supposedly you cannot see relationships clearly during this time, how can we feel confident in succeeding??

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Couldn't we ALL get into a relationship that lasts 14 years (a very very long time IMO), and then leave it and be like "okay so that's over."?

My point is, that is an era in your life you could spend with someone. Maybe it'll end in 14 years, or maybe it will be such a concrete part of you at that point, after so much time, that you will be able to weather the storm coming out of it.

My fear with transits (I've stopped looking ahead at them) is that we all doom ourselves and throw self-fulfilling prophecies out there that undermine what is budding, growing, positive in our lives.

posted November 17, 2015 01:31 AM            

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Originally posted by Bear9:

Neptune can fog but with other planets in play it can have effect of blowing fog aside a bit so you can see reality and make different decisions. So try not to worry. This is a huge opportunity time in your life to review your relationships and maybe make some changes, either stay or leave etc. It's up to you.

Wish you all the best. Post your chart maybe so we can see what else is at play. Maybe there is something good to counteract what is making you worry. (eg. a moon in aquarius is great for cutting through fog I think; an MC in Aries is huge positive beneficial change from nebulous foggy pisces)

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Thanks for sharing your experience! Nataly I have Neptune conj. Merc and also widely to Sun. Also opposite Moon. So yeah I'd say it plays a pretty big role nataly! Heres the chart maybe you can see something to add!

posted November 17, 2015 01:45 AM            

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Originally posted by Cappi112:
Couldn't we ALL get into a relationship that lasts 14 years (a very very long time IMO), and then leave it and be like "okay so that's over."?

My fear with transits (I've stopped looking ahead at them) is that we all doom ourselves and throw self-fulfilling prophecies out there that undermine what is budding, growing, positive in our lives.

Astrology is great and a fun tool that we're all benefiting from here on this forum, but do not dread a decade + ahead of you with upcoming transits.

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Cappi-yes! I agree a 14 year could maybe be plenty long enough! I can see the benefits of stopping looking forward at transits. Thus far with transits I've stayed away from trying to predict or look at the future. I've focused more on analyzing transits that are happening currently and in the past. But the more I learn and study I can't help but start to try and peer into the future a bit with transits as well. (even dabbled a tiny bit in progressions) It's a natural curiosity for us all.

It has been helpful to hear other's frame of mind when they know of a big transit coming for them too. I guess there is really no way to be better prepared for major transits. But it has helped to hear positive experiences of Neptune in the 7th to not get stuck on negative thinking.

posted November 23, 2015 02:10 AM            

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Originally posted by Belage:
other transiting planets are affecting transiting neptune. For instance the upcoming T saturn square T neptune might be a challenging time but the nature of this particular transit is more about losing illusions than being fooled or being self sacrificing.

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posted November 23, 2015 04:46 AM            

When I started university, I had some harsh Saturn aspects. (Square MC, Square Mars, Opposite Sun). I was aware of this before I started, and expected 'bad' things. It was the most transformative part of my life, in the most positive way possible.

My point is, just because you might have (Neptune in 7th) or (Pluto harsh aspects), it doesn't indicate bad things. (I agree with Cappi112 about SFP's). It's an OPPORTUNITY to GROW/EXPERIENCE.

Everything the universe throws at us, we have to control it in the best possible manner. Even the 'lucky, beneficial' transits. Just remember nothing rarely comes to you, you have to be active about everything and perhaps you'll see that the transits will basically complement you on your ventures, if you do the right thing.

posted November 23, 2015 08:16 AM            

But in general, Neptune passing through 7th will give you an opportunity to release relationships that are not real. In fact they may just dissolve before your eyes and leave you wondering where everyone went. It's a good thing because it opens you up to new relationships that are true to you and your core energies. Be true to yourself when dealing with others and stay within your own integrity.