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Libra26
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posted November 19, 2015 12:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Libra26     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hello everyone. Im very new to this forum, just made an account today, but have been checking this site out before.

Im a 28 year old libra. English is not my first language, so sorry if its not correct.

I have been dating a taurus 27 year old guy for almost 3 months.
He is very sweet, affectionate, romantic, everything I would like in a man. We had only been dating for about a month, and he bought me a gift for my birthday, he also wrote a song to me about his feelings for me. Im crazy about him.

I have a hard time trusting people, my taurus guy knows this. He told me to trust him, and not doubt his feelings for me. So i tried...

2 days ago we were hanging out at his brothers house, i took his phone to search for a song, but i could not resist to dobbelclick the iphone button so I could see all the open pages. I saw the message page, and some girl had texted him something and called him bubbi and put a kiss emoji. I was in chock, but i didnt say anything because i didnt want to get in a fight, but i was heart broking.. on my way home i cried all the way.

The morning after i texted him, that i saw it, and i ended it, and wished him luck. I know its dramatic but i couldnt think clear at that moment.
He texted me back saying i have misunderstood something, and that he hasnt showed me anything but loyalty, he havent felt this way for anyone in 7 years.
we texted back and forth for sometime, and he said that it was a friend and that he had helped her with something and that was her way of thanking him.
so i ofcourse said prove it.
And after that, he became different talking about i had hurt him by throwing him away by a text, he had dreams about us getting married, and he is heartbroking that i accuse him of something like this, i should have asked him about it, and he would have told me everything. but he didnt want to prove anything to me, because i had already ended it, and that he obviously didnt mean anything to me since i could do something like this to him. he had thaught about us getting marries, he had alot of dreams about us. At the end of the text he wished me good luck with the future. we texted for sometime. and i also said that if you really do have so strong feelings for me, you would try to prove it and work it out..
in my last text i wrote, something like im sorry i didnt ask you, I handeled the situation wrong. you mean alot to me.. I apologised ! but he didnt reply

3 days later i texted him again saying I wanna talk to you, i wanna explain some things. he started not saying no to the idea but not yes either. after a while of texting he said that he would rather talk on the phone, i asked him why he was saying no to meeting up.. he said "its so i can protect myself against you, im thinking about me"..

I didnt call him, i think it is so unpersonal. a week after i texted him "how are u".. no answer..

I really wish i could just talk to him and explain myself, I have had a very difficult life, and have been kidnapped and abused by a x boyfriend, so I have difficulty trusting abybody.. I wish he knew this about me. But he wont let me talk.. I know it isnt right but im always trying to find flaws on other ppl so i can cut it off with them, so i dont get hurt.
Its been over 2 weeks and im crying about this everyday.. I have never felt this way before.

Im so heartbroken

Have any of you experience with taurus guy with these placements?

His chart

Sun: taurus
moon:leo
Mercury:taurus
Venus:gemini
Mars: aquarius
jupiter:taurus

My chart

rising sign: sagg
sun: libra
moon: sagg
mercury: scorpio
Venus: libra
mars: virgo

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Aries23Degrees
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posted November 19, 2015 01:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
That is terrible

IME, Leo Moon is very proud/sensitive. They don't take rebuffs/any form of rejection very well.

Often times they want to be given lots of attention, affection and for them to know that they come 1st.

I have mistakenly said something to my cousin(Leo) in the past. And she was ready to write me off....Yes, they can be that extreme.

When hurt, fixed signs tend to get icy(especially Scorpio and Leo). Until such time that they decide to get over it, and all you can do in the meantime is wait.

With Taurus Sun and Leo Moon(both fixed), it may take a while. But I wouldn't focus so much energy on him.

I am more concerned about you.

Have you dealt with what happened to you in the past?

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geminigal2805
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posted November 19, 2015 02:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for geminigal2805     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm sorry to hear what you are going through...
I dated a Taurus Sun and a leo moon guy when I was 22.. n he was also 22. Even though we both liked each other a lot at that time, we had a misunderstanding.....a silly jealous game! He called to ask me if I meant what I said. I was naive and playful then. I said yes I meant what I said. Same day he quit his job, left the city n never picked up my calls. Im not saying this to scare you. But its weird looking at the same sun and moon sign. N henis super stubborn!!
This was many yrs ago.. we got in touch after fwo yrs n he tried to apologised for walking out. But I had moved on. Now we are friends but he has said he will always love me and wont marry anyone.
So maybe u cld try to meet him in person... is it possible to casually bump into him?

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geminigal2805
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posted November 19, 2015 02:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for geminigal2805     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My Gawd.. kidnapped by an ex? I hate this when men abuse women.

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Astra
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posted November 19, 2015 05:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astra     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
::hugs::

Yes, you should have asked him about the text, but wouldn't he still have felt violated by you going through his phone without permission?

Honestly, the guy sounds manipulative. Yes, you should apologize for looking through his phone without his permission, but he also needs to apologize to you for not being upfront about the text. I'm not sure what his female "friend" was thinking. I would NEVER send a male friend a text like that especially to one who is in a relationship. It's disrespectful. He didn't give two thoughts about how a text like that would make you feel. He has hurt you and doesn't care at all. He accuses you of rejecting him over a text and yet he doesn't realize that he's rejecting you over a mistake. He's being hypocritical and probably doesn't even realize it.

If you both get back together, I strongly suggest working on your communication skills. Honesty is so important in a relationship.

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angel4845
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posted November 19, 2015 07:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for angel4845     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
im so sorry you are going through this, that is so messed up that he is refusing to meet up with you THAT to me is really strange and suspicious. I wouldnt trust him either if i were you TO BE HONEST especially after he refused to meet up what is that?????

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lalalinda
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posted November 19, 2015 08:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lalalinda     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hello Libra26! Welcome to LL

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