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HCtheQueenOfWands
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posted November 25, 2015 09:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for HCtheQueenOfWands     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I dont get why me out of all people, a wifey type, cant find love lately its been 2 years since i had a stable bf. Im sweet, exotic(Black,Indian,Portuguese,German,Belgian), empathic, can cook, have deep convos and can put it down like Ciara, i know im bipolar and bpd but i take pills for it .

Yesterday the guy who likes me. My Leo friend took my iphone and told him that i like him back, and he told me he just wants to be friends and wasnt ready for a relationship yet he shows signs of liking me more then that 😔😭😢 im checking into therapy because im so heartbroken over this.

From now on i have x'ed him and other Nova Scotian guys. All unavailable motherf'ers. Theyre all the same. I love him but im in such pain right now.

I was told by astrologers and jake the psychic that he was my Saturn Man. I feel so heartbroken rn. Now i dont even know whats a good man or a bad man. He intensified my hatred for men. Hes a libra sun. And i hate men especially with Pisces,Sag,Gemini,Libra and Cancer Sun, theyre all despicable!!!!

I really just want someone to mend my broke heart. All the guys i meet dont want a relationship or are the wrong ones. So hard for a Belgian girl in Canada to find love.

Ive always wanted a Scorpio husband...





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HCtheQueenOfWands
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posted November 25, 2015 09:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for HCtheQueenOfWands     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
*sigh* fml😔😔😔

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DopGang
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posted November 25, 2015 09:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DopGang     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by HCtheQueenOfWands:
*sigh* fml😔😔😔

Noooo.
Not "fml"

I pretty much say the same thing to everyone.
In your case, soul search, find yourself, your true passions, dig really deep.
Mend your own broken heart. Find a way to fix it and find happiness all on your own. Your Leo moon well thank you for it.

Then, be patient and selective. When you find one that compliments the life you have (and you him) then there you go.

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HCtheQueenOfWands
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posted November 25, 2015 10:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for HCtheQueenOfWands     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by DopGang:
Noooo.
Not "fml"

I pretty much say the same thing to everyone.
In your case, soul search, find yourself, your true passions, dig really deep.
Mend your own broken heart. Find a way to fix it and find happiness all on your own. Your Leo moon well thank you for it.

Then, be patient and selective. When you find one that compliments the life you have (and you him) then there you go.


I wonder sometimes, is it because im black that i cant find love?

I know but its been a long time since i actually had a bf like i feel so alone, and im going thru a hard time.

I just dont get why cant i get a man, i mean its not like im a serial killer or something. Sometimes i feel like im born in the wrong generation because i always wanted to be a rich man's wife or something. I mean ive always wanted to be a housewife.

I was so sad when J broke my heart, after my mom was scoulding me, i went to go drink a bottle of patron.

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DopGang
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posted November 25, 2015 11:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DopGang     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by HCtheQueenOfWands:
I wonder sometimes, is it because im black that i cant find love?

I know but its been a long time since i actually had a bf like i feel so alone, and im going thru a hard time.

I just dont get why cant i get a man, i mean its not like im a serial killer or something. Sometimes i feel like im born in the wrong generation because i always wanted to be a rich man's wife or something. I mean ive always wanted to be a housewife.

I was so sad when J broke my heart, after my mom was scoulding me, i went to go drink a bottle of patron.


Do you prefer to date outside your race?
It can make things a little more difficult.
It sucks but that's the ugly truth.
Added to the usual nervousness, intimidation, shyness that people feel when wanting to approach someone is, "is this person open to dating outside their race? What will my friends and family think?"

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SoStellarOne
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posted November 25, 2015 11:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SoStellarOne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It is hard finding love these days, but I think it because our generation comes after the Baby Boomer generation, which is big on things that are "traditional" where as generations that comes after them are in a subtle conflict of wanting to have the freedom to be with whom they want to be with, but instead of just having an honest to goodness meeting of the hearts and minds between two souls. . . you add things like class, race, money, social status, religion, etc. etc. etc. into the mix . . . people don't truly follow their hearts. You can have excellent chemistry, connect mentally and emotionally but it will get denied if any of the previous listed things aren't favorable. Its a shame, but its true, however, there are some good people out there who doesn't let those differences get in the way of true love and chemistry. That, my dear is something shy of a miracle.

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YoursTrulyAlways
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posted November 25, 2015 11:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for YoursTrulyAlways     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by HCtheQueenOfWands:
i always wanted to be a rich man's wife or something. I mean ive always wanted to be a housewife.

Never mind that. First, try to focus on being a loving woman to a ***man who deserves you*** And if they don't desire you, just move on. They aren't worth it.

You don't "need a man." What you need first is a man who loves you.

My input as a man.

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Empty Spaces
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posted November 25, 2015 11:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Empty Spaces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Transit Uranus is in your 7th house..that could be a problem.BUT you are young..you will find the right guy for you.

Ive had bad luck in my relatioships as well (TR pluto in my 7th/NN in 7H natal),im older than you and i still have hope.

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HCtheQueenOfWands
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posted November 25, 2015 12:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for HCtheQueenOfWands     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Empty Spaces:
Transit Uranus is in your 7th house..that could be a problem.BUT you are young..you will find the right guy for you.

Ive had bad luck in my relatioships as well (TR pluto in my 7th/NN in 7H natal),im older than you and i still have hope.


I actually thought it was supposed to change that

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