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Topic: fellow Aqua/air moons
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sunshinedragon Knowflake Posts: 76 From: Registered: Aug 2015
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posted November 28, 2015 11:18 PM
I am an aqua moon, and I am extremely annoyed and irritated with emotional people, usually with some overly emotional placements. For example My father is a Scorpio moon, and he is extremely sensitive with his emotions and continuously saying sappy things to me that I have no response to and get quite angered by! I hate it l I care for him very much but I have no desire to express my feelings or answer these comments. I express my love in a different way. I get almost offended and very turned off by this and want to avoid it in all ways possible and feel trapped. Any other aqua moons or other air moons this way? Do you ever get in touch with your emotional side ? I find myself hurting others feelings because of this unintentionally. How do you deal with overly emotional people or ones with water moon placements? IP: Logged |
PaulMcFly Knowflake Posts: 215 From: Olive branch, MS USA Registered: Aug 2015
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posted November 28, 2015 11:38 PM
Aqua Moon and mercury. Yes, overly emotional people turn me off. And this is coming from a Pisces Sun.Another reason you and youre dad could be fighting is because Scorp Moons are incompatiable with Aqua Moons. Two very different ways of showing emotion. I really like my freedom and commitment has always been a problem for me. IP: Logged |
cchampliss2 Knowflake Posts: 265 From: Registered: Jul 2014
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posted November 28, 2015 11:47 PM
You remind me of my good friend with the gemini moon, but cancer sun. She's the same and I turn on the emotional mush just to p*** her off on purpose. IP: Logged |
Odette Moderator Posts: 6448 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted November 28, 2015 11:57 PM
I understand how you feel, but keep in mind that many people have issues with their parents. If you are living under the same roof, the issues can be exponentially increased. I wouldn't normally think Scorpio Moon would bother you so much in a friend. However Cancer Moon in particular could be very hard for you to deal with... and Pisces could go either way. I'm curious if you know anyone with a Cancer Moon. They are sure to make Scorpio look like a composed, calm and optimistic individual lol IP: Logged |
sunshinedragon Knowflake Posts: 76 From: Registered: Aug 2015
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posted November 29, 2015 12:12 AM
quote: Originally posted by Odette: I understand how you feel, but keep in mind that many people have issues with their parents. If you are living under the same roof, the issues can be exponentially increased. I wouldn't normally think Scorpio Moon would bother you so much in a friend. However Cancer Moon in particular could be very hard for you to deal with... and Pisces could go either way. I'm curious if you know anyone with a Cancer Moon. They are sure to make Scorpio look like a composed, calm and optimistic individual lol
Haha, well we don't live together, but we talk often and he's one of the most sensitive human beings I've ever met.. Very weird actually, so that's too much for me. I get a very irritated feeling come over me. He's the only Scorpio moon I know but he pushes me and then takes everything extremely personally if I don't respond in the same context as him or emotionally. He will assume I don't care and make a fuss/sarcastic. Takes jokes personally, basically walking on eggshells around him. Funny thing is, I'm a Scorpio rising and we are both Taurus Suns. I don't know his rising though. I've heard cancer moons are worse. I have a girlfriend who's a cancer moon but she is also a gem sun so she doesn't seem overly emotional. Don't know any Pisces moon either. Somtimes I feel they view me as heartless but I'm most definitely not! I have a huge heart and immense love inside but no need to show it or be sappy. IP: Logged |
Supreme cT Knowflake Posts: 843 From: NJ Registered: Jan 2014
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posted November 29, 2015 12:23 AM
Hello im a fellow aqua moon haha question for you what aspects your moon? And do you have any major aspects to your uranus?Im a 26 degree aquarius moon and im sappy when i love a person i love to connect emotionally and its been bugging me that every other aqua moon i know doesnt feel the same way im good friends with a aries sun cancer moon and hes very emotional and tells me and my boys he loves us in group chats and hes not gay at all just very cancer moonish haha and im the only one who actually doesnt get annoyed by it and will say nice things back to him because he is a good friend and im not afraid of the emotions behind admitting it but my other bestfriend is a cancer sun and gemini moon and literally HATES when he does this he will txt me out of group chat laughing at him and constantly complains about how hes to emotional which i completely understand but im always like why doesnt that bother me like all my fellow air moons? I get along great with air moons so after some investigation i realized that my uranus is conjunct neptune by 1 degree i think thats what really softens me up and also im an aquarius ascendant so uranus is my chart ruler so i have a lot of aqua in my chart IP: Logged |
ScorpAqua Knowflake Posts: 72 From: Australia Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 29, 2015 07:05 AM
Aqua moon here. Scorpio sun, but despite having this "passionate" sun, I find overly emotional people a test of my patience. Scorpio and Piscean moon people especially. I find them to be quite drama queen like and sometimes manipulative. Everything is just an emotional drama with them and I usually can't be bothered fuelling it with my sympathy all the time. In fact I find it draining. Sometimes I'm almost amused with their high strung feelings that I almost start laughing at how little things can get their pants in a knot. To manage this, I keep my distance and only engage when I feel like I have the energy and patience to do so. IP: Logged |
Empty Spaces Knowflake Posts: 451 From: Registered: Jun 2015
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posted November 29, 2015 07:43 AM
Gemini moon here and i feel the same. I want to change though just dont know how!IP: Logged |
stillatlarge Knowflake Posts: 590 From: TX Registered: Nov 2010
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posted November 30, 2015 06:34 AM
I've know two cancer moons, one a Virgo sun and the other Aqua sun and neither are like that at all. IP: Logged |
DopGang Knowflake Posts: 1401 From: The land of WP Registered: Jun 2015
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posted November 30, 2015 08:04 AM
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Faith Knowflake Posts: 14275 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted November 30, 2015 11:03 AM
I've seen some air moons (not all!) very expressive of their own emotions while unwilling to play the role of listener. They have a handle on their emotions, the temperature is to their liking or within their control. So no matter how upset they are, venting and complaining and getting out of whack, it makes sense to them intellectually, so it feels okay.When faced with another person's emotions, they often react as if to say, "Ugh that is too hot! Too cold! Not right!" Even if the other person is complaining about the same thing they were just complaining about.... Well I love air moons (best friend is Aqua moon, husband Libra, daughter Gemini) but it's a challenge, as a Pisces moon, to figure out how to relate sometimes. Usually I just zip my lip because I know they don't want to hear any whining. IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 14275 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted November 30, 2015 11:36 AM
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Dreaminess Knowflake Posts: 809 From: norway Registered: Aug 2014
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posted November 30, 2015 03:41 PM
quote: Originally posted by Faith: I've seen some air moons (not all!) very expressive of their own emotions while unwilling to play the role of listener. They have a handle on their emotions, the temperature is to their liking or within their control. So no matter how upset they are, venting and complaining and getting out of whack, it makes sense to them intellectually, so it feels okay.When faced with another person's emotions, they often react as if to say, "Ugh that is too hot! Too cold! Not right!" Even if the other person is complaining about the same thing they were just complaining about.... Well I love air moons (best friend is Aqua moon, husband Libra, daughter Gemini) but it's a challenge, as a Pisces moon, to figure out how to relate sometimes. Usually I just zip my lip because I know they don't want to hear any whining.
This is so true in my experience too with air moons. I listen to their complaining but i know i can't do the same to them. The same experience i get with fire moons.
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Gemini30 Knowflake Posts: 392 From: Los Angeles Registered: Sep 2014
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posted November 30, 2015 04:05 PM
I'm a Libra moon but very emotional as my moon conjuncts pluto and my ascendant, moon in the 1st house. I get along with other air moons though, basically i can be emotional when i want to be lol. IP: Logged |
Gemini30 Knowflake Posts: 392 From: Los Angeles Registered: Sep 2014
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posted December 01, 2015 01:22 AM
Nobody kills threads better than i do. IP: Logged |
jupitersgirl Knowflake Posts: 428 From: Registered: Oct 2009
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posted December 01, 2015 03:17 AM
Gemini30- I do, lol.IP: Logged |
madelineleo23 Knowflake Posts: 55 From: Chicago, IL Registered: Jun 2015
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posted December 01, 2015 10:16 PM
I am an Aquarius moon at 14 degrees. I definitely get annoyed with overly emotional people. When people get that way around me I walk away. I'm a very detached, aloof person. I prefer to think out my feelings rather then feel them. People who are always crying and whining are not people I surround myself with. It doesn't help that my mars is in Gemini. (More air) So I completely support the notion of thinking out feelings rather then feeling them.
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teasel Knowflake Posts: 7620 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 01, 2015 11:52 PM
I'm usually a pretty good listener. I remember mum happily venting to me, because I would feel exactly what she felt at exactly the same things she told me, as they were told, or happened, to her.She's a Libra Moon, I'm a Gemini Moon. I created the venting thread so that people could release whatever was troubling them, so that it wouldn't get caught up in other threads (and to contain my own vents - mostly ). Because I can't stand dealing with people who expect me to be over something on their timetable, and feel bad for others who are told to just get over something. I only don't want to hear it, if I'm going to be personally attacked, but I don't think anyone enjoys that. IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 7620 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 01, 2015 11:57 PM
I also used to be the one to calm people down. Used to be, because I've been on emotional overload for the past four years or so. But I can still help people that way, at times. Better out than in. With more private people, you can at least write something out, and then tear it up and throw it away, or burn in, shred it, etc. I have been trying not to push people away in recent months - I've really wanted to, because there's no point in talking to anyone if they're just going to be turned off anyway. I'm feeling more closed off. If anyone is dismissive, or acts like I'm offensive, I think along the lines of, "Feelings dismissed; must disengage." Because it hurts like hell to be shunned, or mocked, and I've lost too much in recent years. I have changed in ways, and whilst I'm still me, I've now got a big barrier around my heart. Just like before, when I was smarter, and realized that it was best to just keep most things to myself.
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StubbornVirgo Knowflake Posts: 292 From: Sittin' on Mercury Registered: Jul 2015
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posted December 02, 2015 12:02 AM
quote: Originally posted by sunshinedragon:
I am an aqua moon, and I am extremely annoyed and irritated with emotional people, usually with some overly emotional placements. For example My father is a Scorpio moon, and he is extremely sensitive with his emotions and continuously saying sappy things to me that I have no response to and get quite angered by! I hate it l I care for him very much but I have no desire to express my feelings or answer these comments. I express my love in a different way. I get almost offended and very turned off by this and want to avoid it in all ways possible and feel trapped. Any other aqua moons or other air moons this way? Do you ever get in touch with your emotional side ? I find myself hurting others feelings because of this unintentionally. How do you deal with overly emotional people or ones with water moon placements?
No, I'm not like that. I have Gemini Moon in 4th house conjunct Mars (also in Gemini/4th). Some hard aspects but also some beneficial ones, too (Moon sextile Jupiter being one of them - and I'm also pretty okay with/proud of my Moon-Mars conjunction). I have either Pisces intercepted in my 1st or Pisces rising (my birth time is a little iffy) as well as a stellium in Virgo and another one in Capricorn. I'm a very empathetic person. Other people's emotions don't bother me, but that may be because of how I was raised. My mom is a Cancer rising, Scorpio Venus and my sibling is a Scorpio Moon. My longest relationship was with a Pisces Moon. I actually like people who aren't afraid to show their emotions, because it provides an opportunity to connect with them on a level that's a lot deeper than the superficial interactions most people are accustom to. My Virgo stellium is in my 7th house, so I'm all about connecting with other people, even if it's on a level that seems a little uncomfortable at first. I guess I'm a weird air moon, lol. IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 7620 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 02, 2015 12:10 AM
No, I know what you mean StubbornVirgo. Maybe it's my Moon conjunct Venus (and square Mars in Pisces). House placement, aspecting Jupiter and Pluto, as well. Warmth, depth, humour - all welcome. Get those tears out, and we can have a laugh when the time comes. quote: Originally posted by Gemini30: Nobody kills threads better than i do.
I do. IP: Logged |
StubbornVirgo Knowflake Posts: 292 From: Sittin' on Mercury Registered: Jul 2015
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posted December 02, 2015 02:35 AM
quote: Originally posted by teasel: No, I know what you mean StubbornVirgo. Maybe it's my Moon conjunct Venus (and square Mars in Pisces). House placement, aspecting Jupiter and Pluto, as well. Warmth, depth, humour - all welcome. Get those tears out, and we can have a laugh when the time comes.
Yes! I'm glad to see that I'm not the only air moon that feels this way.
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yota13 Knowflake Posts: 36 From: Registered: Jan 2014
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posted December 02, 2015 03:58 AM
Hey I have aqua moon in the 8h. Make your dad sandwhich and make a smiley face with the mustard or leaving the instructions for an impossible yoga position on his desk and see if he tries, but more than likely that will just **** him off. But really when ever I get into it with scoprios they want to win so bad and I'm just like ok! whatever you say, then they take their 'revenge' and its like ok, what now. Scorpio moon is not an easy placement though.IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 14275 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted December 02, 2015 09:09 AM
I feel guilty and ungrateful for my post above, lots of times air moons have listened to me at length. I have had a few problems with mismatching temperaments...but it's only to be expected.Sorry if I offended anyone.
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DopGang Knowflake Posts: 1401 From: The land of WP Registered: Jun 2015
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posted December 02, 2015 09:16 AM
It's all good over here Faith. I think you hit it quite well. IP: Logged |