posted December 02, 2015 08:47 AM            

I frequently have extremely vivid, realistic dreams. Everyone close to me teases me about it; I have epic journeys with the people I love most in my dreams haha. So, I normally don't take too much of what I dream to heart. I've never had one come true - they just frequently reflect my present state of mind.

Which is why this is a little odd, and I want to post about it.

My ex and I dated for 4 years, and everyone (except for me) thought we would get married. It was the classic something-was-missing scenario. We also had issues as a couple, but in the end, I think our break up talk just went like this: "I don't think you're the one." (He said this to me. I had already thought it all throughout.) That was over 3 years ago now.

Now, I'm 2 years in with the man who made NO sense in the beginning as future material, but I've always felt was my soul mate. He and I easily talk about future, and in general everything has been happy and confident for a long time now.

The ex and I have talked a lot over the past year - he had some trouble over the summer and when we met in the fall, he wanted another chance and claimed he thought he was going to marry me. I turned him down, it was not a pleasant discussion but we made amends months ago.

OKAY, for whatever reason, just this past two weeks, every single night, I have dreamed about my ex. These dreams aren't sexual or even romantic, but we are technically 'together' in them, just going about our daily lives. For some reason, whenever I wake up from them I genuinely feel like I've just hung out with him for hours - I even wake feeling guilty about it.

What would cause this kind of thing, transit-wise????

I have moon transiting my 7th... could that be it? tNeptune is still (and has been) conjunct my natal Venus, tVenus and tMars are in my 8th, but there's nothing transiting my 12th right now, which I expected to see re: dreams. t Neptune is trining natal Pluto... maybe that?

posted December 02, 2015 09:01 AM            

I have super realistic dreams about my one ex a few times per year, it really throws me off.

posted December 02, 2015 09:50 AM            

Sorry, I was thinking of exact aspects to planets. Yes, planets can dredge up a lot from the 8th.

posted December 02, 2015 10:21 AM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
Ohhh tr Mars & Venus have been running through your 8th.

Sorry, I was thinking of exact aspects to planets. Yes, planets can dredge up a lot from the 8th.

Hopefully someone else has better input.

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That could be doing it right!??! THat's the only thing that really makes sense to me.

I'm super curious about this bc it has been literally every single night over the past two weeks. Soo so strange. How long do Venus and Mars transits go for again??

posted December 02, 2015 09:31 PM            

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Originally posted by Cappi112:
How long do Venus and Mars transits go for again??

THANK YOU! Appreciate your input Faith! =)

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Thank you, but I'm such an amateur ~ not sure how valuable my opinions are. I associate the 8H and Pluto with deeper dreaming just because of my own experiences. And it makes sense to me astrologically, that you bury the past in Scorpio/Pluto/8H and resurrect yourself from those ashes (transformational Scorpio stuff)...but it's all still there buried in your subconscious, or whatever the accurate term would be.

With an accurate birth time you can check the degree of your 8H and 9H cusps. Then look at an ephemeris to see when planets enter and exit your 8H (reaching the 9H cusp.)

Swiss Ephemeris for the year 2015

That shows you the degrees Mars and Venus (and the other planets) will cover in December.

posted December 02, 2015 09:57 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
5405,13092,14827,1912,3325,342,580,291,3258,4197

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Thank you hypatia!

posted December 02, 2015 10:01 PM            

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Originally posted by Seimei:
we were firsts,,, it never goes away I guess

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posted December 02, 2015 10:11 PM            

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Originally posted by Cappi112:
I frequently have extremely vivid, realistic dreams. Everyone close to me teases me about it; I have epic journeys with the people I love most in my dreams haha. So, I normally don't take too much of what I dream to heart.

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posted December 02, 2015 10:22 PM            

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Originally posted by Cappi112:
OKAY, for whatever reason, just this past two weeks, every single night, I have dreamed about my ex. These dreams aren't sexual or even romantic, but we are technically 'together' in them, just going about our daily lives. For some reason, whenever I wake up from them I genuinely feel like I've just hung out with him for hours - I even wake feeling guilty about it.

What would cause this kind of thing, transit-wise????

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posted December 02, 2015 10:39 PM            

I noticed Aries (myself, 1st house, IMO) can feel like they are located in their heads. That is where their sense of self is. I don't know what kind of feelings this creates in the psyche, but they are head strong i guess, even though I'm probably just saying that because its a word that uses the same word as head, which probably isn't even literally related, but whatever.

Taurus, well, now I'm just getting into bodily rulerships. And not direct effects on the psyche. I don't know how the body parts effect the psyche. Saggitarious is the thighs and butt so it supports your upper body, it is a great runner and climber and at squatting, if Saggitarious provides this much power for your body, people who have their psyche strongly connected to their thighs, may be mentally supportive, with their ideals, of themselves and others? To support, and improve, as like climbing? I really don't know.

To know and understand that they have impressive abilities to instantly get up and run at their arsenal, would grant some confidence boost in any situation, but to take life by the heels with this placement, to be able to go headfirst into anything simply because their legs are so powerful, they would be relaxed in regular situations which is the lapses inbetween anticipated rigourous challenging exertment