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posted December 03, 2015 02:20 AM            

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What do you think is a good strategy for fixing that inner conflict? What does it stem from in the first place from your experience?

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posted December 03, 2015 03:10 AM            

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My bf has this aspect, he said one time that he's looking for someone like me, who can be a sister, a brother, a mom, a friend, and a lover in one. and sometimes I joke treating him like a stranger due to my boredom.

Well, I have complex personality. Just kidding.

But I think he's still struggling it. I wonder what is exactly the inner struggle?

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posted December 03, 2015 12:33 PM            

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Originally posted by hearttreasure:

But I think he's still struggling it. I wonder what is exactly the inner struggle?

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I think it's something like if he were to get a motherly wife who were to cook and clean and spoil him like a child, he would stop seeing her as sexy. But if he were to get this wild and exotic lover, he would not see her as wife material?

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posted December 03, 2015 06:30 PM            

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so would that be the inner struggle in terms of what to find in a partner? wanting a woman who is nurturing but then also wanting a woman who is dangerous and seductive and sexy but not nurturing??

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