posted December 04, 2015 08:56 AM            

So, back to the newer part of the story. Things were ideal for a while. He told me he always wanted me for my brains and personality and the fact that I'm physically attractive is just a bonus. He refused to have sex with other women, even though I didn't have any expectations of that kind from him. He planned on us moving in together, called me his "wife" and even talked about us having kids together. So, the plan was for us to rent an apartment during my stay there (I was on a vacation there for a week last month ), so we could have some privacy, just the two of us. That's when things started to go downhill. First, he had to travel each night after work to another town and back, due to his company opening another shop. Then, I got my period DURING the first time we had sex. He was exhausted, I was nervous, felt ugly, bloated and insecure, so I was constantly nagging. Then he just stopped coming to our rented place, making excuses that he fell asleep on the sofa in his parents' home, which might be partly true because he'd been working 9-00:30 for a few weeks, but also, that was just his way out. To top it all, my ex found out about us, started sending me these messages saying how he was disappointed in me, he thought I was smart, but I turned out stupid and naive like all the others, did I really think he would marry me and that I was just another notch in a belt. Since my "bf" stopped regularly texting me during that week and didn't even let me know if he would be coming that evening, I snapped and sent him a loooong text telling him everything that came to my mind. He didn't respond. I left the next day.

Five days after, it was my birthday and we apologized to each other, he begged me to have some more understanding. We only talked once since than and it's been a week since my birthday. Just as a comparison, he used to text me million times a day, talking about anything and everything.

Sorry, I'm using my cellphone to write and I know it's the size of the Bible, but could you please tell me your opinion? I'll post our charts soon.