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VestasLight
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posted December 05, 2015 01:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for VestasLight     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I found this quote online and wanted to share. I completely resonate with this quote.

What about you?


"Men often relate to the sexual power of women with the Capricorn moon as a submissive responds to a dominatrix, that is, with the exquisite pleasure of surrender to something stronger and greater than themselves. My take is that this is the way that the Capricorn moon experienced or was subjected to love as a child -- as an extreme submissive. Once this has happened, it's difficult to experience love as anything but an extreme power relationship, or as some kind of struggle for power. Since the moon represents our needs, this is the level on which the phenomenon is experienced. It is safe to say that Cap moon people were not allowed to feel the need to be loved. This can translate into a need, in some people, for sexual power of a very specific kind that may, in the end, have very little to do with actual love. And it's fair to say that it very much needs to, and that the temptation to have it not be so is very much present." --- Eric Francis

Funny enough, my Cappy moon is in the 6th house of servitude and I engage in D/s relationships as a submissive

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athenaia
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posted December 05, 2015 01:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for athenaia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Spongebob
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posted December 05, 2015 01:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Spongebob     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Capricorn, really?

Thats the last sign id think of in connection to submission. Id think pisces or cancer first.

Although i have mars in cancer and I'm not submissive AT ALL.

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VestasLight
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posted December 05, 2015 01:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for VestasLight     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lol, athenaia... coat tails...

Well, the progress moon can certainly play into that, but Aquarius is known for having a taste for the kinky life. So maybe the combination is creating this?

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VestasLight
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posted December 05, 2015 01:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for VestasLight     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Spongebob:
Capricorn, really?

Thats the last sign id think of in connection to submission. Id think pisces or cancer first.

Although i have mars in cancer and I'm not submissive AT ALL.


Yes, Spongebob, really. Not all Cappy moon woman will be full on submissives. The rest of the chart tells the story, but IN GENERAL, Cappy moon woman lean towards being a submissive lover but they aren't necessarily kinky.

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posted December 05, 2015 01:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for midnightcatqueen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
woooah!

Im a cappy moon and i am no where near submissive in my love life and general life.

in fact im an actual professional dominatrix.

so....

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VestasLight
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posted December 05, 2015 02:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for VestasLight     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by midnightcatqueen:
woooah!

Im a cappy moon and i am no where near submissive in my love life and general life.

in fact im an actual professional dominatrix.

so...


But you know Midnightcatqueen, if your moon has a more dominant house placement AND you have some nice tension aspects between Uranus and/or Pluto with Sun, Venus or Mars that are pulling that moon into them, then it would flip it on its head, turning you into the dominant player!

So this makes perfect sense. There is still a power dynamic happening with the Cappy moon.

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DopGang
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posted December 05, 2015 03:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DopGang     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
There's more than moon of course.
That said, the two that I remember were not submissive. One was quite aggressive.
Both fire mars. LOL

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athenegoddess
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posted December 05, 2015 03:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for athenegoddess     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm submissive but only if the man is the type to make me become that way.

I have Moon conjunct Neptune in Cap.

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Astra
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posted December 05, 2015 03:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astra     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have a capricorn moon and I'm definitely not submissive. However, my dominance is not "in your face." It's far more subtle. I can get any man or even, women to do what I want by simply asking nicely. I never promise anything in return and yet, they do as I wish.

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VestasLight
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posted December 05, 2015 03:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for VestasLight     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
So, I think one thing that seems prominent from reading the replies is that IN GENERAL, most Cappies enjoy some sort of power exchange, preferring either dominance or submission (according to the rest of the chart).

Of course these are generalizations, just as not EVERY Venus in Scorpio is crazy jealous/possessive. But that theme is there is with Ven in Scorp.

So powerplays in the bedroom are a fun theme for Moon in Cappy... Very interesting!

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Spongebob
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posted December 05, 2015 03:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Spongebob     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by VestasLight:
Yes, Spongebob, really. Not all Cappy moon woman will be full on submissives. The rest of the chart tells the story, but IN GENERAL, Cappy moon woman lean towards being a submissive lover but they aren't necessarily kinky.



I still have to disagree. Capricorn is a cardinal sign, and more of the CEO, chairman of the board type, even the women with the moon is this sign will probably be more dominant natured.

Sure, Cancer is a cardinal sign too, but it's softer, more passive and maternal. I can see this being true about them, but not a Cappy moon.

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posted December 05, 2015 03:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for athenegoddess     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Capricorn is a feminine sign so it's not as dominant as some people think.

Would it be more dominant than an masculine sign? I don't think it would.

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VestasLight
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posted December 05, 2015 03:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for VestasLight     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Spongebob:

I still have to disagree. Capricorn is a cardinal sign, and more of the CEO, chairman of the board type, even the women with the moon is this sign will probably be more dominant natured.

Sure, Cancer is a cardinal sign too, but it's softer, more passive and maternal. I can see this being true about them, but not a Cappy moon.


Yes, and Cancer is ruled by... the Moon! This can greatly soften the hard cardinal attributes of Cap...

Also, take a peek at my last post directly above yours :-)

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VestasLight
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posted December 05, 2015 03:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for VestasLight     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by athenegoddess:
Capricorn is a feminine sign so it's not as dominant as some people think.

Would it be more dominant than an masculine sign? I don't think it would.


Nice insight athenegoddess, thank you! I also think because the moon is in it's fall in Cap, it turns the cardinal hardness on its head.

Of course, as I've already said - the rest of the chart will dictate the outcome.


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midnightcatqueen
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posted December 05, 2015 06:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for midnightcatqueen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
And what is a more dominant house placement?

My moon is in the 9th
Conjunct Neptune/Uranus
Trines my Virgo Venus/Jupiter/Taurus Asc
Squares my Libra Sun.

So... again..
:Roll:

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VestasLight
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posted December 05, 2015 06:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for VestasLight     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by midnightcatqueen:
And what is a more dominant house placement?

My moon is in the 9th
Conjunct Neptune/Uranus
Trines my Virgo Venus/Jupiter/Taurus Asc
Squares my Libra Sun.

So... again..


Your moon in the 9th house (which also has to do with exploration) conjunct Uranus, trining venus and Taurus asc. That's an excellent indication right there!

I find Dominants have very interesting charts. They often have Aries, Taurus or Scorpio as sun signs or Asc and Pluto or Uranus making some big plays in their chart. It's really fascinating.

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posted December 05, 2015 06:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Queen Salome     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by midnightcatqueen:
And what is a more dominant house placement?

My moon is in the 9th
Conjunct Neptune/Uranus
Trines my Virgo Venus/Jupiter/Taurus Asc
Squares my Libra Sun.

So... again..
:Roll:


WOW. You have similar chart like me AND I would like to have same job like you do. You are fascinating person.

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midnightcatqueen
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posted December 05, 2015 07:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for midnightcatqueen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yeah i guess there is a lot in my chart which poses as dominant...
My Sun/Mercury/Mars is in Libra but on a Scorpio cusp especially Mercury/Mars which is one degree away from Scorpio >sassy dominant communication

.. and Scorpio rules my 7th house and Pluto is conjunct it too...>power plays with significant others.
And it opposes my Taurus Ascendant which i believe may be similar to 1st house Scorpio

But still.. i don't think cappy moon women are submissive.. maybe Virgo for it is mutable but not this earth cardinal.
We may engage in power plays like Scorpio but it's not so sexual.. it's just down right security in control...And there is no real control in being submissive.


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posted December 05, 2015 07:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for midnightcatqueen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Queen Salome:
WOW. You have similar chart like me AND I would like to have same job like you do. You are fascinating person.

Yes remember your my astro twin! Been looking for you here!!

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Julz87
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posted December 05, 2015 07:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Julz87     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
VestasLight,

Can we exchange emails? There's a man I'm interested in who is into BDSM he is the D type..thing is well its all complicated...would like to talk with you if that's ok as I have some not so personal questions.

Btw, I have Capricorn Moon too, what are the odds.

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posted December 05, 2015 07:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for midnightcatqueen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
To vestaslight...
You may be submissive but I'm sure that has to do with other placements ... this sign alone is about being in control, not giving it away.

My whole life feels like a D/s situation...

Even sexually I'm the dominant one, even when I'm being lazy. I attract dominant men too so... some feel threatened by a dominant woman.. i challenge them mentally-physically-emotionally even being a tall skinny woman with a total fuckyou face.

But that right there is another can of worms that is more related to my 7th..
I think there is a small aspect from my Moon to Pluto but I'm not sure.

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posted December 05, 2015 08:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for VestasLight     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by midnightcatqueen:
To vestaslight...
You may be submissive but I'm sure that has to do with other placements ... this sign alone is about being in control, not giving it away.

My whole life feels like a D/s situation...

Even sexually I'm the dominant one, even when I'm being lazy. I attract dominant men too so... some feel threatened by a dominant woman.. i challenge them mentally-physically-emotionally even being a tall skinny woman with a total fuckyou face.

But that right there is another can of worms that is more related to my 7th..
I think there is a small aspect from my Moon to Pluto but I'm not sure.



I had made a comment above that after watching the replies on this thread, that Cappy moon may not be so much about D-type or s-type but seems to enjoy a bit of power play in the bedroom.

Side note: I just have to point out that in bdsm, the submissive is ultimately considered to be the one with all the power.

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Queen Salome
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posted December 05, 2015 08:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Queen Salome     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Astra:
I have a capricorn moon and I'm definitely not submissive. However, my dominance is not "in your face." It's far more subtle. I can get any man or even, women to do what I want by simply asking nicely. I never promise anything in return and yet, they do as I wish.


How?

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VestasLight
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posted December 05, 2015 08:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for VestasLight     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Julz87:
VestasLight,

Can we exchange emails? There's a man I'm interested in who is into BDSM he is the D type..thing is well its all complicated...would like to talk with you if that's ok as I have some not so personal questions.

Btw, I have Capricorn Moon too, what are the odds.


I'm not sure how to exchange emails. I am not willing to post it here on the forum, so...

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