posted December 07, 2015 12:01 AM            

Venus in the 12th house on asc. I like the "magic", the sweetness, all of that good stuff. I like seeing people in love, being surrounded by love. Birds in spring, couples holding hands make me squeal internally.

No, not a serial monogamist. It has always been easy to notice a certain kind of "connection" with a lot of people, but most of the time it's very vague. Fleeting moments, slight twinges in my chest, brief encounters, etc... Not enough ground for s.t more solid. Sometimes I think I just like people.

And 7th house jupiter in aspect with moon (7th house ruler). Jupiter's gift come in the form of intimate relationship (and to some extent, friendship and business partnership). It's good, happy and enjoyable, despite the occasional difficulties. I think that's why I enjoy love/relationship. If the whole thing were something I had to "survive", or s.t that bled me dry, I doubt I'd want to go near it lol.

posted December 07, 2015 10:13 AM            

Like 12muddy: "I like the "magic", the sweetness, all of that good stuff. I like seeing people in love, being surrounded by love. Birds in spring, couples holding hands make me squeal internally."

I'm a total romantic, with elevated Venus in a Cradle formation. Hearts and flowers, I love goddess Venus, and playing Cupid.

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Originally posted by Gemini30:
What in the natal indicates someone being all lovey dovey in love? Like being addicted to love? Serial monogomist?

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posted December 08, 2015 08:03 AM            

Also anyone with a heavy seventh house. My ex has a seventh house stellium including Venus, sun, and Mercury and he is the most codependent person ever. He always needs to have someone.

posted December 08, 2015 08:15 AM            

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Originally posted by wheresthemoon:
From my observations, Venus in the first house MUST have someone. Very relationship minded.

Also anyone with a heavy seventh house. My ex has a seventh house stellium including Venus, sun, and Mercury and he is the most codependent person ever. He always needs to have someone.

I like being in contact with a lot of guys at a time just for fun and company, but I don't need a special someone.

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I have a loaded seventh and i cant really agree with this. I don't need someone, ANYone, constantly and there have been guys who expressed interest and got angry and made up lies later about doing stuff with me that never happened because they were angry that i wouldn't really reciprocate.

I kinda wish this stereotype would end that seventh house people are so desperate for companionship that we'll shack up with anybody because its not true. I like company but don't need it and if the person isn't up to my standards in one way or another id rather just be alone which is why I've been alone for so long.

Same for venus square neptune being pegged this way when really it just means you come in the world with a crappy radar for sniffing out bad partners, that you have to work on and develop.

posted December 08, 2015 08:36 AM            

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Originally posted by Spongebob:

I have a loaded seventh and i cant really agree with this. I don't need someone, ANYone, constantly and there have been guys who expressed interest and got angry and made up lies later about doing stuff with me that never happened because they were angry that i wouldn't really reciprocate.

I kinda wish this stereotype would end that seventh house people are so desperate for companionship that we'll shack up with anybody because its not true. I like company but don't need it and if the person isn't up to my standards in one way or another id rather just be alone which is why I've been alone for so long.

Same for venus square neptune being pegged this way when really it just means you come in the world with a crappy radar for sniffing out bad partners, that you have to work on and develop.

Id actually pin addiction to love or an inability to be alone on venus pluto aspects - pluto is compulsion and obsession after all.

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Sorry, I didn't mean to make a generalization, even though that's exactly what I did. But that's kind of what these threads are about lol.

Of course there will be exceptions to the the rule, probably other factors in your chart. If you have Venus square Neptune I would attribute it to that. I've actually noticed these people tend to steer clear of relationships or be very hard to pin down.