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Topic: 2nd house north node lessons while in a relationship
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Abanderada
Newflake Posts: 14
From: New Hampshire
Registered: Nov 2015
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posted December 09, 2015 11:27 AM
  
Can a person with 2nd house North node and 8th house South node -really- learn financial independence while in a relationship?
For myself, I already started to make a business with my partner (8th house joint resources). It's his interest (minerals) more than mine.
It used to be my dream to do this but now I'd rather do anthropology, journalism, or astrology.I've been telling myself this gives me time to study for what I want to do.
I also have some different values but he's a very good person and respects me and my values too.
With all the will power one can muster, can a person accomplish 2nd house NN financial independence in a relationship? How should this be talked about with the partner?
(For my situation I have Aquarius NN and Leo SN)
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Aries23Degrees
Knowflake Posts: 2627
From: South Africa
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted December 09, 2015 12:58 PM
Are you asking whether your dreams and aspirations will in some way negatively impact what you both have already started?And perhaps if that is so. Is there a way to accommodate both ? i.e looking to your dreams whilst accomplishing those that belong to the partnership? My question;Where do you feel the most resistance?
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Abanderada
Newflake Posts: 14
From: New Hampshire
Registered: Nov 2015
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posted December 09, 2015 01:16 PM
What lead to my questioning was I feel such lack of commitment in myself I thought perhaps this is the reason. I always question my relationship and I told myself this is my flaky Libra Sun. I don't feel so emotional over the relationship, but people say it will never be like it was in the beginning. I'm also a Sagittarius rising so I say to myself of course I feel like exploring the world and antsy, even though he loves adventure and is the one who got me traveling for real. My pisces moon wonders if I delude myself into staying like I have before.
I do want to learn how to do things on my own, and I definitely see every day how I let him take care of me and everything. Lately he's been saying he feels like a butler cause I lost desire for sex like 6 months ago. But he has so much Cancer in him he just keeps on loving me just the sameI guess my question is more of a reflection of my own struggle than one that can be generally answered. I was just thinking to myself as I finally have time to myself completely for the first time in our relationship (over a year now) that of course a person can learn how to take care of themself independently while in a relationship. If someone else asked me the question, I would know the answer.
I must learn to stay true to myself and take on whatever career I really want. I must stick with my values and not morph with his..
Yes, we can learn independence on our own, but we have to do the same while in a relationship. I guess that could 've were my Libra comes in lol. Since last night I was thinking maybe I should just give up on the relationship.. That's what really compelled me to make this post for further input. IP: Logged |
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