posted December 13, 2015 05:39 PM            

And if I'm losing interest in someone, I find it hard to carry on a conversation with them. I may try to feign interest in what they are talking about, may try to prod the conversation in a direction that's more interesting to me, but I will be restless, like I really want to be somewhere else--it's hard to hide.

The thing with Geminis is when we start feeling we need to move on, we've already lost interest. There's not much of a "process" to losing interest with Geminis. We either are or aren't. We're mercurial like that--pun intended. We're not shallow, necessarily. It's just our minds work fast and need so much stimulation and engagement, that when we start to lose interest in someone, we need to move on to someone who engages us, or we get depressed and drained. We haven't the stamina for drawn-out endings. And it happens quickly enough that it seems random and abrupt to other people. We may not even slow down enough to understand ourselves and why we lost interest in someone (that's when Geminis *can* be shallow).

posted December 13, 2015 08:04 PM            

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Originally posted by PiscesCancerTaurus:
Do Gemini's usually keep their word? This Gemini told me they loved me and that I am stuck with them because they will never leave me. But it still feels like they are losing interest in me.

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They aren't liars, but they tend to change their minds.
At the time he said it he meant it... maybe today he changed his mind.

When I lose interest, I lose it fast and there can be plenty of reasons.
The number one: Boredom and hassle.
When I feel like this relationship is more of a burden than anything else, you won,t even see me leave. I'll be gone in a flash

Number two: Manipulation
I won't hide it, I'm hypocrite when it comes to manipulating. And my motto is: if you're going to do it, be damn sure you're good enough that you won't be spotted.
I tend to manipulate people, but if I so much as suspect that I am being manipulated, you won't like it. I won't like it. And it's 100% that I'll break whatever relationship we had.

Number three: Pain
In pain I include various form of betrayal or emotional pain.
I can take physical pain as long as there's no emotional one underlying.

On top of that there may be other shallower reasons, but those are my top 3 that guarantee a loss of interest.

You can see it as a form of protection. I lose interest because I feel that the relationship isn't what I need or is becoming too dangerous for me to stay in, therefore I cut my emotional tie and I leave.

posted December 14, 2015 02:20 AM            

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Originally posted by babybull82:
^^^^This is why Geminis are only good as friends..nothing else..

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It depends on the Venus sign.

I have a Taurus Venus, so once I make up my mind I will stick on it.

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Originally posted by PiscesCancerTaurus:
.....How do these people act when they are interested in you?

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Talking to you less is the most obvious,he may spend less time trying to figure you out or wanting to know what your up to.

Trust me I will try to gather as much info as I can.

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Originally posted by RoseLily:
They aren't liars, but they tend to change their minds.
At the time he said it he meant it... maybe today he changed his mind.

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I'm very much the same, but that doesn't necessarily mean that its over.

Sometimes I will figure out there might be a better option, then realize and revert back.

I really don't like the Scorpio Moon, he may have some intuition on things and if you try to get him back via some scheme he might already be a step ahead of you.

Or:

The moon in Scorpio may make him more manipulative.

I'm 50/50 here.

You'll either here negative things about gems or positive things. It really depends on who you want to listen to.

Outside of lindaland, do you have any mutual Leo or Aquarius friends that know him?

Few signs can handle or know how to handle gems for the exception of those two signs.

posted December 14, 2015 07:16 PM            

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Originally posted by DualGem:
[B] Talking to you less is the most obvious,he may spend less time trying to figure you out or wanting to know what your up to.

Trust me I will try to gather as much info as I can./B]

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posted December 14, 2015 07:27 PM            

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Originally posted by PiscesCancerTaurus:
.....How do these people act when they are interested in you?

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S/A/A. Talking to you less is the most obvious. When interested I will try to pick your brain to see if we click intellectually. If I hit a sore spot I'll try another topic just so we have some things to talk about.

posted December 14, 2015 07:46 PM            

But as I read somewhere: 'if he likes you, you will know. If he doesn't, you'll be confused. And this truth will set you free'.

posted December 15, 2015 02:09 AM            

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Originally posted by PiscesCancerTaurus:
They are a Taurus Venus and Cancer Mars.

So if they talk to you less and stop asking you questions that means they ARE interested in you? This one still talks to me everyday but they just don't act the same way around me as they use to when we first started our friendship. I definitely feel like there is something more that is going on that is not being said.

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The opposite they'll talk to you more and try to spend more time around you.

The problem with Geminis is you have to read the clues and pick up on the little hints.