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Topic: Gemini man with Venus in Cancer
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harmonicvibes
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posted December 17, 2015 02:01 PM
  
Any insights on a man with this placement? I hear they are confusing, is this true? Any insight?IP: Logged |
DualGem
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posted December 17, 2015 03:14 PM
All Gem men are confusing, but we don't do it on purpose. Aquarius, Leo and Aries are the best at handling us. As per Gemini man with Venus In Cancer. I could assume that he's in a big contradiction, which would make things confusing. He has the loving aspects from Venus in Cancer, but he may retreat/run away because of the Gemini aspects. I wish you could put more details, I know my response was very generic. IP: Logged |
harmonicvibes
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posted December 17, 2015 05:00 PM
Its OK I will come back with more details. I was in a hurry, sobi understand. I was completely bamboozled by this guy. IP: Logged |
EmGem
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posted December 17, 2015 05:14 PM
I'm a gemini woman with venus in cancer. I can be doing a million things at once, fleeting from here to there, I love laughing with you and playing witty text games. But I'm also incredibly loving and supportive. I don't feel conflicted but I am sensitive. I feel like I have the best of both sides to me. I can be your best mate and a soulful warm heart to lean on.IP: Logged |
12muddy
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posted December 17, 2015 06:46 PM
From my experience, probably treat them gently. Seemed to need a partner who are in tuned with their feelings and emotional needs. When it came to such things, didn't like to use words to explain. But well, my placements square and oppose cancer, so maybe that was why it felt straining. It would have taken too much effort on my part so I called it off, but I suppose if you have compatible placements (like water),it probably will work out better. IP: Logged |
Gemini Blues
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From: The future... or the past. I get them confused...
Registered: May 2014
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posted December 18, 2015 02:38 AM
I have this.Gemini needs to "think" about how they feel about things, while Cancer Venus just feels. It takes time to integrate the two. Gemini is a world class kisser and Cancer Venus loves to cuddle. But not *all* the time. We live as our sun, but only do our Venus sometimes. Don't worry though, well get back to it. In the mean time, there's lots to talk about! Hope you can hold up your end of the conversation... or don't mind pretending that you're listening... Heh! Venus (along with the moon) is what we like in a woman. Soft, curvy, maybe a little more feminine and submissive than others. Oh, and since every Gemini knows he's a cute boy in a man's body, we're not adverse to receiving a little nurturing from you from time to time. If we really like you, we'll make you chicken soup when you don't feel well. 
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harmonicvibes
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posted December 18, 2015 06:09 AM
OK so its a long story. I met this guy who seemed great online. He was very respectful, nice. We went to dinner, drank wine at his place, he didn't want me to drive sobhe gave me his bed he took the couch. Over next few days were his finals, we communicate a little over Facebook. Last Saturday he messaged me, flirted mentioned kissing lol it was cute flirting though he said your just so beautiful I cannot resist. My friend aid be more aggressive shoot him a compliment so I did with my number
The next morning I get the following message,"
I'm single now, but I don't know if I can text yet. I'm still trying to process it. I don't think I lover cuz I never tried to understand her or accept her but I was attached. Do you think that was fair of me? It was weird because just evening before he was flirting! Anyway I gave him my opinion.very nice about it. I told him if he ever wanted to hangout he knew my fb. I had thought okay friendzone this guy. Monday my friend and I were talking about men how confusing they were so I asked him about his bizarre message just a man's opinion it was innocent. He then text me asking to go over hangout basically. I did we talked, had some drinks, he introduced me to his roomate. This time....when it was time to sleep, we slept in bed together we did make out cuddle, but it was very innocent like went no further. Thought out the night while sleeping he would roll over, caress my face, kiss my cheek cuddle me, grab hold my hand while sleeping. The next morning I left, he gave me a hug offered walk me to my car I said it was OK. I adsimef it was fine between us I looked forward to knowing this guy better. Anyway as at work I noticed he BLOCKED me on Facebook!!! Out of nowhere, no explanation. Nothing.
I sent him a text telling him I noticed didn't realize there was no interest how I'm direct person tell ppl where my interest does or doesn't lie. He didn't even respond with a look sorry I'm not interested leave me alone, your crazy nothing...like I'm so....hurt my feelings and confused...
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Condoowit
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posted December 18, 2015 02:56 PM
Gemini Blues, since you're responding and you have these placements and I am currently crushing on a guy with these placements, am just wondering, if a woman is carrying around 30 or 40 extra pounds, would it deter you? Be honest. You say Venus in Cancer likes curvy, but does curvy include a bit chubby?IP: Logged |
Gemini Blues
Knowflake Posts: 924
From: The future... or the past. I get them confused...
Registered: May 2014
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posted December 19, 2015 01:21 AM
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Originally posted by Condoowit:
Gemini Blues, since you're responding and you have these placements and I am currently crushing on a guy with these placements, am just wondering, if a woman is carrying around 30 or 40 extra pounds, would it deter you? Be honest. You say Venus in Cancer likes curvy, but does curvy include a bit chubby?
30 or 40 lbs is nothing. I've got more than that myself. There is a point where more is too much, like where it interferes with... um... mechanics... shall we say? Then again, that may be my Leo Moon talking. IP: Logged |
DualGem
Newflake Posts: 17
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Registered: Oct 2015
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posted December 19, 2015 03:34 AM
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Originally posted by harmonicvibes:
OK so its a long story. I met this guy who seemed great online. He was very respectful, nice. We went to dinner, drank wine at his place, he didn't want me to drive sobhe gave me his bed he took the couch. Over next few days were his finals, we communicate a little over Facebook. Last Saturday he messaged me, flirted mentioned kissing lol it was cute flirting though he said your just so beautiful I cannot resist. My friend aid be more aggressive shoot him a compliment so I did with my number
The next morning I get the following message,"
I'm single now, but I don't know if I can text yet. I'm still trying to process it. I don't think I lover cuz I never tried to understand her or accept her but I was attached. Do you think that was fair of me? It was weird because just evening before he was flirting! Anyway I gave him my opinion.very nice about it. I told him if he ever wanted to hangout he knew my fb. I had thought okay friendzone this guy. Monday my friend and I were talking about men how confusing they were so I asked him about his bizarre message just a man's opinion it was innocent. He then text me asking to go over hangout basically. I did we talked, had some drinks, he introduced me to his roomate. This time....when it was time to sleep, we slept in bed together we did make out cuddle, but it was very innocent like went no further. Thought out the night while sleeping he would roll over, caress my face, kiss my cheek cuddle me, grab hold my hand while sleeping. The next morning I left, he gave me a hug offered walk me to my car I said it was OK. I adsimef it was fine between us I looked forward to knowing this guy better. Anyway as at work I noticed he BLOCKED me on Facebook!!! Out of nowhere, no explanation. Nothing.
I sent him a text telling him I noticed didn't realize there was no interest how I'm direct person tell ppl where my interest does or doesn't lie. He didn't even respond with a look sorry I'm not interested leave me alone, your crazy nothing...like I'm so....hurt my feelings and confused...
1) He could have liked you, but suddenly changed his mind or got cold feet. 2) Was playing option play and figured otherwise. I wouldn't waste my time if your feelings are hurt. You should turn the tables on him, any close guy friend you can make it seam as if your dating?. If he really likes you seeing you with another guy will drive him nuts! and he will want you back. quote:
Originally posted by Condoowit:
Gemini Blues, since you're responding and you have these placements and I am currently crushing on a guy with these placements, am just wondering, if a woman is carrying around 30 or 40 extra pounds, would it deter you? Be honest. You say Venus in Cancer likes curvy, but does curvy include a bit chubby?
Works for Taurus Venus as well!.
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Nine
Moderator Posts: 2501
From: The Cusp of Love
Registered: May 2009
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posted December 19, 2015 05:53 AM
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Works for Taurus Venus as well!.
Virgo Venus guys love curves. IP: Logged |
DopGang
Knowflake Posts: 1501
From: The land of WP
Registered: Jun 2015
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posted December 19, 2015 07:20 AM
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Originally posted by Nine:
Virgo Venus guys love curves.
True story. 
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Condoowit
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posted December 19, 2015 09:19 AM
Gemini Blues, I must be living in the wrong part of the country, if 30 or 40 pounds is nothing! Thanks for your response, although I'm not sure everyone in the forum has the same definition for "curvy". By the way, would love to see you on FB, if you're on. Gemini with Leo Moon sounds like lots of fun!IP: Logged | |
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